Human psychology also has an inherent development path. The psychological characteristics and psychological style a person displays today must be related to his past experiences.

1. Before falling in love, you must first understand the other person’s growth experience

Everyone has a background. If you want to know a person, you must understand his past. If you know a person's past, you can know his present. Only by knowing a person's past and present can you predict his future.

If you want to understand a person's psychology, let him talk about his family's story. Be careful when meeting people who don't want to reveal their family background. Please remember, don’t rush before getting married, be sure to take the time to investigate.

The best way for a husband and wife to get along is to vaguely know but not quite clearly. "It is rare to be confused" is the way to stay together in a marriage.

Whether a child is happy or not will affect the happiness of parents in their later years. If parents do not take care of their children now, once something goes wrong with their children, the rest of their lives will be very painful.

Insights: Personality originates from early upbringing. To understand the other person when you are in love, you must start from the other person’s upbringing, environment and growth experience in their childhood, and then identify the authenticity of the other person’s current words and deeds. I believe that after marriage, children and Prepare yourself for happiness.

2. If you are afraid that the person you are talking to is unreliable, you will know by asking two questions

When talking about the person you are talking to, you need to ask two key questions: "How are the elderly people in your family? Are your parents okay?" Is the relationship good?"

The first thing to do is to ask about the situation of the elderly in the other party's family. If the elderly person in the other party's family is still alive, it means that the family's genetics are good; if there is a long-lived elderly person in the family, it means that the family has a good lifestyle; if the old person lives a long life, it means that the old person teaches his children well. Teaching children well can be passed down from family to family and can benefit future generations.

Ask the other person about his parents and pay attention to his expression. If he is very happy, talks endlessly, and says that his parents are very funny and have a good relationship... then this kind of person is very good. If he has something to hide, or is wary of you, you should be careful about entering this kind of family, because the family The wind is not good.

In fact, marrying a person is marrying a family. If your partner's family is not normal, your future married life will be prone to changes. So, you have to look not only at the person himself, but also at his grandparents and parents.

Insights: Parents with children must work together to raise their children and take care of the elderly, actively build a harmonious and happy family atmosphere, cultivate their children's good personalities, and benefit future generations.

3. You can know what kind of person a person is by understanding his past.

After a person comes into the world, it only takes two six years for his psychological model to take shape.

When a person becomes an adult, his psychological style is closely related to his growth environment and life experience. What kind of life background will create what kind of person, and what kind of parenting style will create what kind of psychological style. . Therefore, when we understand a person's growth experience, we can find the answers to many of his current psychological problems.

Enlightenment: The positive or negative plots played out in the background of a child's growth will be imprinted on the child's mind and shape or contribute to the child's corresponding personality or psychological model. Parents should try their best to avoid negative dramas.