You can succeed by eliminating yourself a little every day. For us, we need to see our abilities every day in the workplace, so it is also very important to ask for ourselves. Then let's introduce how to eliminate yourself a little every day to succeed. Let's take a look at this situation together.
You can succeed by eliminating yourself a little every day. 1 Destroy yourself a little every day to succeed.
Whether you are a "novice" or a master who has worked hard in the workplace for many years, don't forget this workplace rule: eliminate yourself every day. This is a sentence that every professional should always tell himself-if you don't eliminate yourself, you may be eliminated by others. This is the "ultimate evolution theory" in the workplace evolution manual.
In 1970s, some futurists in Europe and America predicted: "When human beings enter the 2 1 century, the working hours per week will be reduced to 36 hours, and people will have more time to improve themselves and have fun." However, when the pace of history really entered the 2 1 century, a considerable number of people not only did not have "more time to improve themselves and have fun" as the prophet said, but their weekly working hours were extended indefinitely, even exceeding 72 hours; At the same time, our living space is being infinitely compressed. In order to swim against the current in the increasingly turbulent "water", everyone has to use the little time and energy left after work to improve themselves.
But how can we effectively improve ourselves? Some people have tried various methods, but they are still stuck in the career bottleneck. There is a famous saying: "All easy things are downhill". No matter at work or in life, there must be something you don't want to do. The reason may be that it is difficult and challenging, or you think it is unimportant to you, so under the psychological effect of avoiding pain and pursuing happiness, people are more likely to choose to escape or delay to relieve stress. And often these things that you deliberately avoid are the breakthrough to improve your work ability.
There are many ways to improve yourself. "Doing something difficult every day" is one of the ways to "force" yourself to make progress. Of course, don't expect earth-shaking changes in a few days. Everyone knows that "haste makes waste". The practice is very simple. You just need to make a little progress every day. After a period of time, you will find that you are very different now. If you hate learning a foreign language since you were a student, but you "force" yourself to recite words, speak English and do English test questions every day in order to apply for a job, get a promotion and jump ship; If you are a salesperson, but you are afraid to deal with customers because of poor communication skills, then you "force" yourself to communicate with customers more every day, introduce products to customers and provide services to customers; If you are a public relations person, but you happen to be an introvert, then you "force" yourself to contact or make an appointment with major business partners every day; If you are a marketer, but speaking in public is your biggest concern, then you should "force" yourself to practice speaking every day. ...
If you don't know how to change the status quo, start with your existing "difficulties": for example, the boss asked you to do the work, but it delayed you for a long time; For example, a plan that has been in my heart but has not been put into action; For example, the promise you made to others was not fulfilled for various reasons; For example, because you hesitated and retreated, you passed by ... find them all now, put them on the implementation agenda, and then realize them bit by bit. Don't worry about whether you will stick to the end or whether you will achieve the desired result in the end. Try to do what you least like first, which will not only make you feel that the second job is not as annoying as the first one, but also greatly enhance your confidence and even make you proud.
In the end, you will find that the problems that once made you extremely upset will gradually loosen and disintegrate with a little progress every day, and you will also leap to a higher realm of life. "Anything is possible" thinking with this idea is like putting a motor on your heart, which will help you learn how to think positively. You will be more challenging than in the past. It will be less difficult to overcome all your strengths and surpass yourself.
You can succeed by eliminating yourself a little every day. Many years ago, a group of bears lived happily in a forest with dense trees and rich food. They breed here and get along well with other animals. Then one day, great changes took place on the earth. The forest was burned by lightning, all kinds of animals fled everywhere, and the life of bears was threatened. Some bears suggested, "Let's go to the north, where there are no natural enemies, which can make us stronger." The other part objected, "It's too cold there. If we get there, I'm afraid we will all freeze to death and starve to death. " It is better to find a warm place to live well. There is a lot of food for us to eat, and we will survive easily. "Debate for a long time, who also can't convince anyone. As a result, some bears went to live on the edge of the North Pole, while others went to live in a basin with warm seasons and lush vegetation.
Bears on the edge of the Arctic, because of the cold climate, gradually learned to swim in the cold sea water, also learned to dive into the water to prey on fish and shrimp, and even dared to fight with seals bigger than themselves ... For a long time, their bodies were bigger, heavier and more fierce than before. This is the polar bear we see now.
The other part of the bear found that there were too many carnivores here. He was too heavy to compete with other carnivores, so he decided to eat grass instead of meat. I didn't expect that there are more herbivores here and the competition is more intense. If you can't eat grass, you have to eat something that other animals don't eat? Bamboo, so as to survive. Gradually, they gradually used bamboo as their only food source. Because no other animals competed with them for food, they became lazy and bloated, and evolved into the giant pandas we see now. But later, bamboo forests became less and less, and the number of giant pandas became less and less, almost on the verge of extinction. They can only be kept in zoos and survive with the help of human beings.
Bear's experience is like this, and so is everyone's career development? Everyone is equal before the opportunity. If you don't take the initiative to compete, you will be squeezed out or even eaten by others sooner or later, just like a giant panda. The employment situation is getting more and more severe, and white-collar workers who work hard in the workplace dare not slack off for fear of "smashing" their jobs. White-collar workers in their thirties and forties, who have been classified as "old employees", will unconsciously have their hearts racing and blood pressure rising when they see their younger brothers and sisters with master's or doctoral degrees joining their ranks. However, people in this era are not as carefree as novices. They are old and young, and their work pressure is getting bigger and bigger. Business and family affairs have pushed them to a sub-health state. But seeing the latecomers "eyeing", standing still can only be a dead end.
James, an American philosopher who graduated from Harvard University, said, "You should do something you don't want to do every other day or two." This is the eternal truth, the foundation of life progress and the ladder of progress. There is a famous saying that agrees with this view: "All good things go downhill." The law of quantitative change and qualitative change in dialectics also says that qualitative change will occur when quantitative change accumulates to a certain extent. So don't expect personal progress to be immediate, just make a little progress every day. There are many ways to improve yourself, and "doing one difficult thing every day" is one of the ways to "force" yourself to improve. If you are a marketer, but speaking in public is your biggest concern, then you "force" yourself to practice speaking in front of the mirror every day; If you are a public relations person, but you happen to be an introvert, then you "force" yourself to take the initiative to contact major business partners every day, or call, or email, or meet; If you hate learning foreign languages from middle school, but want to get a master's degree on the job, then you have to bite the bullet and "force" yourself to practice listening and review grammar every day, and then finish a set of simulated test questions at one go. ...
"Get rid of yourself every day" is a sentence we should tell ourselves. In fact, the living space we live in is being infinitely compressed. In 1970s, some futurists in Europe and America predicted: "When human beings enter the 2 1 century, the working hours per week will be reduced to 36 hours, and people will have more time for self-improvement and entertainment."
However, when the pace of history really entered the 2 1 century, people were surprised to find that a considerable number of people's weekly working hours were extended indefinitely, even exceeding 72 hours, and many people were ruthlessly eliminated by the market, while those who worked longer and longer were struggling to "improve" themselves. The wonderful predictions of futurists were ruthlessly shattered by cruel facts! If you don't eliminate yourself, you may be eliminated by others.
A talent who worked as a sales manager of network communication equipment in a Sino-foreign joint venture three years ago has been busy with daily affairs for three years, turning over the calendar with the sound of "cheers". Today, his subordinates have higher academic qualifications and stronger abilities than him, and have accumulated several years of experience in the business world. Their wings are growing and their sales performance is amazing. They ranked first in the company's recent performance appraisal, and they quickly eliminated him as the boss, leaving him with a waste of time and regret.
Either eliminate yourself or be eliminated by others. This is the "evolution theory" in the workplace.
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