Self-discipline comes from clear self-awareness. First of all, it is an accurate measurement of confrontation and a reasonable estimate of one's own abilities. The so-called self-discipline means, first of all, calmness.

Self-awareness and choosing to adapt to the environment are a lifelong matter.

If you don’t have a good understanding of yourself as an adult, it will be difficult to find a suitable partner quickly

Pride comes from a lack of self-understanding, and prejudice comes from a lack of understanding of others. insufficient. People who are considered arrogant are not more arrogant than people who are not considered arrogant. It is just due to mutual prejudice and deviation.

When I was a child, everyone was a princess and everyone was a prince. I never dreamed that I was not Cinderella, but her sister. But as we grow older, we will gradually feel the gap between self-perception and other people's evaluation, so people have to slowly revise their perception of themselves: I am not a princess, I am not a prince.

People's self-awareness comes from people's social relationships, from need and being needed, from satisfying and being satisfied.

What people around us think of us plays a very important role in determining our self-perception.

No matter how miserable, lonely, or hopeless you are, you must never make yourself cheap. Emotional ups and downs are just temporary discomfort, and begging and compromise are often the beginning of the collapse of self-perception and life value.

What we can’t overcome is the incomprehensible self-perception in our hearts, which sets ourselves within a boundary and follows a stereotyped path over and over again in a pattern.

Only failure can make people remember, success will only confuse your self-perception.

There is only one way for human beings to avoid being eliminated: to keep learning, changing, and building a new self throughout their lives.

This change is not just knowledge, but also self-perception and personality