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Fight rice to support kindness, bear rice to support hatred.

When a person is hungry and cold, if you give him a bucket of rice, it will solve his big problem and he will be grateful.

But if you continue to feed him, he will take it for granted.

One bucket of rice is not enough, two buckets of rice are not enough, and a load of rice still feels that you have only given a drop in the ocean.

It often happens in life that the first time you help someone, he will appreciate you, and the second time his gratitude will fade. After n times, he simply thought that this should be done for him.

Even without such help, he will hold a grudge against the giver.

Therefore, people's kindness should be measured. When a person is not enterprising and blindly asks for help, please put away your goodwill in time!

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Everything is fair, but everything is not beautiful.

As the saying goes, more than one can chew.

A person's energy is limited. If he wants to succeed in a certain industry, he must continue to work hard in this industry. If he wants to learn everything, the end result is that he can't learn anything well.

The same is true of the craftsman spirit advocated now. To do one thing to the extreme is that the best craftsmen can have the best products.

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Ferry to the river

Build a tower at the top of the tower

We must persist in doing things until the end, and persistence is victory.

As the saying goes, a hundred miles and a half is ninety. Most people in this world fail, not because of lack of talent, nor because of bad luck, but because they didn't persist in the end.

There is a famous law called Lotus Law. Only a small part will be opened on the first day, and the next day it will be opened at twice the speed of the previous day.

On the 30th day, the whole pond was full. Do you know when the lotus blooms?

Many people will think that it is the fifteenth day of the first month, but it is not! On the 29th day, the lotus was half full, and it was not full until the last day. The last day is the fastest, equal to the sum of the previous 29 days.

The vast majority of people in the world stop at the 29th day, and success seems to be in the foreseeable future. Actually, it's just the last step.

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There is gold everywhere.

A penny for skill.

It's better to hurry than complain. The world is full of opportunities, the key is to see if you have the ability.

Have a skill, you can eat a meal. God is fair.

If you have three skills, but eat a lot of food, you must earn a fortune. Even if such a person has money, his heart is inevitably unreliable.

Opportunities are everywhere, there is no need to be opportunistic. As long as you have the ability, you are not afraid of not getting out.

Moreover, only by relying on the ability to eat can we be conscientious.

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I didn't know the depth of the sea until I sank to the bottom of the sea.

If you don't have children, you don't know your parents' kindness.

If you don't fall to the bottom of the sea, you won't know how deep the sea is, you won't have children, and you won't know that your parents are not easy.

When things have to fall on themselves, they can truly feel the same.

Therefore, Wang Yangming said that "knowing and doing are one", and true knowledge is obtained through action.

If a person is not a parent, he will never know how much his parents have paid for himself. After the hardships of raising children, he will understand how difficult it is for his parents.

Only in this way can we be truly grateful and filial to our parents.

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Not afraid of the three eyes of Lord Ma.

I'm afraid people will have two hearts.

The three-eyed horse king is terrible, but what is even more terrible is that people are unpredictable.

Fortresses are all broken from the inside, and no matter how strong the opponent is, he is afraid that people will have second thoughts and betray their friends.

People are separated, so you must be careful when making friends.

It's a long way to go. Xiu Yuan knows the horsepower, and people will see it for a long time. Friendship accompanied by years is often more trustworthy.

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Righteousness does not take charge of soldiers, and righteousness does not take charge of money.

Too soft-hearted people are not suitable for leading troops to fight, and loyal people are not suitable for taking charge of finances.

The battlefield is a matter of life and death. At the critical moment, don't miss the big event because of the woman's kindness.

As the saying goes, keep an army for a thousand days and use it for a while. At this moment, the commander-in-chief must have the iron will and determination as the commander-in-chief, and must never destroy the overall situation because of his weakness.

Honest people in the world have many friends, but friends must value friends over money. The so-called generosity and wealth, so the righteous can't keep money, and they can't keep it. Because they don't care about money.

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Beating is kissing, scolding is love.

Annoyed and kicked.

Playing is kissing, which means that very close people will play with you and tell physical jokes.

Scold is love, which is what we often say. Only when we have a good relationship can we tell our mistakes and shortcomings. It is positive scolding, caring, not negative scolding.

Love deeply kicks, indicating that the relationship is deep. When you see that the other person doesn't work hard, make progress or listen to advice, you get angry and stimulate and help the other person in a more intense way.

Even if I kick with my feet, I feel sad and want to help each other.

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Treat parents with twelve ounces.

Your descendants will give you a full catty.

How a person treats his parents will be treated by his children in the future.

We say that a family is a big tree, grandparents are roots, parents are branches and leaves, and children are fruits.

Only by fertilizing the roots can the branches and leaves flourish and the fruits have enough nutrition.

When a person is filial to his adoptive parents, his children are also in his eyes. Parents set an example and show respect for their elders, which is the best example for children to grow up.

Children know filial piety through their parents' actions.

In a family, parents are filial to the elderly, so children will be filial to their parents, and the family will be harmonious and beautiful.

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The light is always on.

Knives are often sharpened first.

As the saying goes, nothing is difficult in the world. Turn on the light frequently, and it will stay on. Sharpening a knife is not a mistake for a woodcutter.

Zeng Guofan always thought:

Whether staying at home, taking office or marching, we should take the word "diligence" as the foundation. Heaven rewards diligence. No matter what his qualifications are, as long as he is diligent and persistent, his talents will naturally accumulate bit by bit.

To achieve great things, you don't have to have extraordinary intelligence, but you must have extraordinary diligence.

The ancients said: "Diligence is a good training, and one point of hard work is one point of talent."

No one can succeed by talent, only hard work can turn talent into genius. Great success is in direct proportion to hard work, and there is gain from giving.