1. Why do you need to expose someone when you see them clearly? Why do you need to fall out with someone if you hate them? In life, there are always people who can't stand us, just like others can't stand us. Living, it is said to be simple, but it is actually very simple. Only when you laugh at the gains and losses can the sea and the sky be brighter; only when your heart is transparent can the flowers bloom in spring. That's all life is.

2. A person should know his position, just like a person knows his face. This is the most sober consciousness. It is always more beautiful to wash away the lead than to apply makeup and powder randomly, so do what you can and do it to the best, this is the important thing in life. ——Mo Yan

3. When you hold something in your hand and don’t let go, you can only have this thing. If you are willing to let go, you will have the opportunity to choose something else. If a person's heart clings to his own ideas and refuses to let go, then his wisdom can only reach a certain level.

4. The reason why people are happy is not because they have more, but because they care less. An optimistic attitude comes from tolerance, generosity, understanding, and aloofness. Life is not perfect. If you think about it, it will be perfect.

5. Tea has only two postures, floating and sinking; tea drinkers have only two postures, picking up and putting down. Life is like tea, calm when it sinks and indifferent when it floats. If you can hold it, you need to let it go.

6. Life is like a glass of boiled water. You drink it every day. Don’t envy others who drink drinks of various colors. In fact, your boiled water may not quench your thirst. Life is not lived by mood, but by mentality. Go live. Adjust your mentality and look at life, sunshine is everywhere.

7. If you are not good enough, connections are worthless. They are not pursued but attracted. Only with equal exchange can we get reasonable help - although it sounds cold, it is true.

8. Kindness and love are free, but they are not cheap. Your kindness needs to be a bit sharp, and your love needs to have some sense and eyes to recognize people. After all, not everyone can Worth having them.

9. A person’s misfortune begins with envy of others. The problem arises when you always try to become someone in your imagination. The reason why people are tired is because they are less and less able to be their true selves. You know, God has its own reasons for giving you such a life. Living a good life is the only shortcut to happiness.

10. When you are with sunny people, your heart will not be gloomy; when you are with happy people, you will always have a smile on your lips; when you are with enterprising people, you will not lag behind in your actions; and when you are generous, When you are with good people, you are not stingy in dealing with things; when you are with wise people, you are not confused when things happen; when you are with smart people, you become smart in doing things. Borrow the wisdom of others to improve yourself. Learn from the best of others and be the best of yourself.

11. Be calm at heart, calm on the outside, and live elegantly and comfortably. If you pursue, you will be disappointed; if you live, you will have troubles. Don't take everything so seriously. What I'm most afraid of in life is that I care about everything and end up with nothing.

12. Life has its ups and downs, don’t give up easily. Instead of cursing the darkness, light a candle. No one can give you light except yourself.

13. Everything that appears in life cannot be owned, it can only be experienced. Those who know this deeply will understand: there is no such thing as loss, it is just passing; there is no such thing as failure, it is just experience. Look at life with an open heart. All gains and losses, hidden and revealed, are scenery and style.

14. You can start doing what you want to do at any time. Please do not use age or other things to restrict yourself. Age is never a limit unless you use it to embarrass yourself.

15. The road of life must be walked step by step by yourself. What can really protect you is your own personality and cultural choices. On the other hand, what can really hurt you is your own choice. ——Yu Qiuyu

16. Life is short, don’t pursue too much; your heart is small, don’t fill it too full. Home does not seek luxury, but only warmth; love does not seek romance, but a lifetime of companionship. In life, you don’t want to live a perfect life, but you want to live a realistic life.

17. Don’t be too shrewd in life. If you are too refined, you will have fewer connections. Don’t be too serious or too serious in doing things, and there will be no room for it. Don’t be too serious or persistent in relationships, or you will be disappointed. In life, there is not much of anything, only wanting more; once a person is gone, there is not much of anything, except for the least confusion.

18. Don’t use your own opinions to force moral kidnapping on others. People grow up in very different environments, and everyone has their own views and difficulties. It is enough for a person to do three things well in his life. Know what is right and do it, but do not force others to do it.

19. Don’t worry about things you can’t get, and stay away from things with negative energy. Life is not without its ups and downs, so don’t add sorrow to yourself.

20. Control your mood and your life will be peaceful. Although mood is not everything in life, it can influence everything in life.