What I learned at great cost

1 Dare is ten thousand times more important than meeting

2 Ask yourself more: Do you have to eat this bitterness? This way, life will suffer a lot less.

3 It's meaningless to work overtime on Titanic

4 Cleanliness is more important than beauty/handsomeness

5 You don't have to worry about the people and events that insult you, you still have the opportunity to go further, and they are like this in their life.

6 psychologists say, you must be a person who can't be provoked.

7 The friends around you will change, your life will change, the person you like will change, the focus of your life will change, and so will you.

8 at a certain stage, I finally realize that normality and commonness are essentially a luxury, which needs great energy to maintain.

9 if you can realize that you are such a mediocre person when you are young, you may be able to avoid many detours.

1 Some things you don't do now, some people will do better than you.

11 In the long run, there are only two things that people should insist on: keeping a healthy figure and keeping an effective job.

12 don't waste your time on external things that cannot be changed; Don't give up on what you can succeed with your own efforts.

13 There is no boring life, only a boring attitude towards life

14 Since you have identified a path, why bother to ask how long it will take?

15 I thought I had very low requirements for life: good health, food and clothing, having a cat or a dog (other pets will do) and doing what I like. It is only now that people who can do these four things are either rich or expensive, or they are particularly lucky.

16 if reading and traveling are for showing off and comparing, then the books you have read and the roads you have traveled are meaningless.

17 When you are sad, don't pretend to be happy. After a long time, you will really forget that you have the right to be sad.

when you are physically and mentally exhausted, the best way to decompress is not to watch movies and go shopping, but to exercise and sleep.

19 "Don't stand in the same place and ask for meaning. Go up and find meaning yourself. Only when you go up can you know the direction."

2 In the interview, Teacher Luo Xiang said: Courage is the most precious thing. The most effective courage for ordinary people is to recognize that the worst result can be tolerated, so summon up the courage to try. When you can afford to lose, all wins are gifts.

21 The learning itself is not that you know more and more, but that you make fewer and fewer mistakes

22 Life is the superposition of a series of choices. If every choice is correct with a high probability, it is a brilliant life.

23 people really need only a little wealth, and the rest is just for showing off.

24 Successful people are silent in their efforts, and they always keep a low profile because they really don't have time to impress themselves.

25 people's energy is limited, and they can't restart again and again without emotion.

when p>26 people reach a certain stage, they are almost the same as anyone else.

27 people who are melodramatic and easily moved by themselves are prone to mediocrity. ? A little achievement is smug, and a little fatigue hurts spring and autumn. For the rest of his life, he sat in the well he had dug for himself.