"Righteousness" means "appropriateness", that is to say, a gentleman is always on the right path, while a villain is obsessed with self-interest, and it is easy to go astray under the drive of self-interest.

(2) "The gentleman is Wilder, and the villain is Huaitu. The gentleman is pregnant with punishment, and the villain is pregnant. " ("The Analects of Confucius")

In other words, gentlemen and villains think differently every day.

A gentleman cares about his moral restoration every day, while a villain remembers his hometown; There is always a rule and convention in a gentleman's heart that can't be crossed, and the villain is full of small favors.

(3) "Compassion without dispute, group without party" (The Analects of Wei Linggong).

In other words, gentlemen are gregarious. Although his heart is solemn and sacred, he never argues among a large group of people. At the same time, he will never seek personal gain by pulling gangs. This is what Confucius called "gentlemen are harmonious but different" (The Analects of Confucius, Lutz). On the other hand, a villain is "same but different" (The Analects of Confucius, Luz)

In life, we often see such a scene: when we discuss a thing, before the leader finishes, someone will immediately jump out and say, yes, yes, the leader said it well, and there are a lot of praise words such as strategic thinking and foresight; But after the meeting, he will turn to others and say, hey, what is this leader saying? I totally disagree with him!

Confucius has another expression about the difference between a gentleman and a villain, which is called "a gentleman is better than a week, and a villain is not as good as a week" (The Analects of Confucius is a government).

Zhou can unite and take care of many people. He associates with people based on morality, so he has many like-minded friends. No matter how many friends a real gentleman has, he will make his friends feel very happy and cared for like oxygen in the air. The glyph "Bi" is like two people standing side by side, indicating that the villain likes to form a small circle and he will not blend into a large group.

(4) the sentence magnanimous, a petty man is anxious and worried.. "(The Analects of Confucius)

The villain likes to collude with each other because he has a ghost in his heart and wants to seek personal gain and safeguard vested interests through this collusion. This is what the so-called "nepotism" means. An upright man is open and poised, because he is calm and selfless, he can be peaceful and get together with everyone in good faith.

(5) "A word from a gentleman is a promise. Don't say it; It allows people to realize it. Little people are hard to say, and little people are easy to say. Although it doesn't matter, it is also said; And make people want to be prepared. " (The Analects of Confucius Lutz)

Say, take pleasure in "Yue". It is easy for you to get along with a gentleman, but it is difficult for you to please him. If you try to please him by unfair means, he will be unhappy instead. Never say that if you give him a small favor, he will give you the green light and open the back door. When he really uses you, he will arrange a suitable seat for you according to your talents. This is called ".

The characteristic of a villain is that you can please him easily, but it is difficult for you to get along with him. There are many such people in life. For example, if you give him a little favor, help him a little, or even buy him a drink, this person will be very happy. Even if the way you please him is immoral and unfair, he will still be happy. But such people are not good at doing things. He will be very loyal and give you the green light for the rest of your life. Although you have spent a lot of effort and money to get through the joints, when he really wants to hire people, he will not arrange a job for you according to your talents. Instead, he will make a fuss and think that you are not qualified here and there, and everything you have done before is in vain. He will try his best to make things difficult for you and make you feel embarrassed. So it's hard for you to get along with such people.