The most important words in life are also the words that highlight a person's character. They are:?
The six most important words are "I admit that I was wrong." No one can guarantee that he will not make mistakes. On the long road of life, making mistakes is normal and difficult to avoid. The key lies in the attitude towards mistakes. Some people take "face" into consideration, and in order to protect their poor vanity, they cover up their mistakes and shirk the blame, so that they sink deeper and deeper into the quagmire of mistakes, ultimately causing irreparable losses to the collective and the individual. Confucius said: "Everyone sees your mistakes; everyone respects your mistakes." Mistakes are obvious, and if you correct them, people will respect you even more. Cicero said: "Everyone makes mistakes, but only fools will not correct their mistakes." Therefore, it is wise to admit your mistakes. ?
The five most important words are "You did a good job." This shows respect for others. Respecting others is a huge personality force that can produce strong cohesion and appeal, making people willing to unite around you. Respecting others reflects a kind of open-mindedness and love, which can turn conflicts into friendship, improve one's relationship with others, and also sublimate one's own soul. ?
The four most important words are "What do you think?" This reflects the courtesy and grace that people should have. Everyone comes into this world, there is no distinction between high and low personality, everyone is equal. Listening to other people's opinions shows respect for others. "A wise man will make a mistake after thinking a lot." No matter how thoughtful and cautious a person is, there will inevitably be some inconsiderations. At this time, one must accept other people's suggestions and make reasonable use of them. ?
The three most important words are "Sorry to trouble you" and the two most important words are "Thank you". They reflect a person's civilized qualities. These words are a sign of civility and courtesy. Zhang Binggui, known as the "counter linguist", uses civilized language when receiving customers and uses different languages ????for different customers, making every customer very satisfied. He is an example for us to learn from. ?
The least important word is "I". Human life is precious, so everyone cherishes their own life; in fact, "I" is the least important, because life is given to us, and we must make selfless contributions in order to obtain life. So "if you don't devote yourself to a great ideal, life is meaningless." When the "Titanic" was wrecked at sea, a young girl left the lifeboat and gave way to her two children, which showed her valuable dedication. "I" is not important, the key is dedication. ?
It is necessary to value the most important words in life, so that we can become noble people who are beneficial to the collective and society.
Comment: What are the "most important words in life"? The author selects "I admit I was wrong", "You did a good job", "What do you think", "Trouble you" and "Thank you" from the archives of life, and combines relevant famous quotes and typical examples to discuss and reason, and vividly warn We: A noble person must have the courage to admit mistakes, be good at respecting others, learn to adopt other people's suggestions, and pay attention to civility and courtesy in daily communication. The article also analyzes the least important word "I" in life, pointing out that people must know how to contribute and learn to give. With such discussion, the conclusion at the end of the article will come naturally.