The level of parents determines the road under the feet of children.

The growth of parents and children is mutual.

And this kind of growth should start from parents.

Education has always been more practical and effective than investing in children.

In the past two years, I have received too many family parenting troubles:

Children are disobedient and rebellious;

Afraid of difficulties, not sensible, not studying hard enough;

Delayed homework, dislike reading, poor self-management ability;

Lack of sense of responsibility, ambition, etc. ...

To this end, I have delivered a number of practical and operable educational ideas to you on the platforms such as Wang Xiaoqian's Parent-child Theory by Tik Tok and Wang Xiaoqian Parent-child Growth Society by WeChat official account.

In this process, I found that the underlying causes of these problems have a strong * * *.

A large part of these problems are not caused by children themselves, but by parents.

For example,

Parents communicate in the wrong way;

Parents' management of their emotions is not in place;

Parents' position on self-growth is not clear.

Let me give a few simple examples of "parent-child communication":

1. It's time for the children to sleep at night. What should you say if they don't sleep?

Why don't you have any self-control? What time is it now? Go to sleep. Can't you make people feel better? I have to rush to sleep every day!

At the same time, with a tone of irritability and an expression of disgust,

Many mothers use such a set of words, but is it effective? Obviously, the effect is limited.

2. During holidays, children are addicted to mobile phones every day, which delays their studies and hurts their eyesight. What should you say?

I know how to play mobile phone every day. Look at XXX I have learned more and made progress. This is good for you. I have to stare at your homework every day. Really tired. If you play again, you will be blind. Watch what you do!

If I advised you not to restrict your children like this, you would say:

I just want to limit the time for children to use their mobile phones. When I'm not staring, he secretly plays games, which is simply giving up on himself. Do you think I can't strictly control it?

Look, is this the child's disobedience?

In fact, your way of communication is wrong!

Is communication just opening your mouth to talk? It's really not that simple.

There are doorways and methods of communication:

The ditches are connected, and one pass is connected;

The ditch is blocked, and it hurts if it is blocked.

Actually, it's not just communication. As parents, in the process of raising children, we will more or less face anxiety and confusion caused by many problems:

How to talk so that children can listen?

How to help children form good habits?

How to improve children's learning motivation?

How to manage oneself and children's emotions?

Should I make a decision for my child?

……

Too much, too much.

What kind of education parents give their children and what kind of people their children will become in the future.

How do ordinary families cultivate "elite children"?

In fact, no matter what family, as long as parents have scientific parenting methods, they can cultivate elite children.

In 20 19, I resigned from CCTV after working for more than 20 years and devoted myself to the great cause of family education.

The source of strength for me to make this decision is that when I was 4 1 year old, I was upgraded to a mother and got an angelic daughter early.

But my daughter's premature birth has given me many challenges.

For an instant, I even felt that I was cornered, flustered, at a loss and helpless for a long time.

Fortunately, in 20 17, when I was 44 years old, I went back to the furnace to study for a master's degree in psychology of Chinese Academy of Sciences.

Because I want to be worthy of my child's "mother", I can't raise my child by feeling, I can't raise my child by my own life experience, and I can't believe the fragmented information of a chicken and a duck.

I can't let my daughter do a growth experiment. No one else will buy a child's growth bill.

On 20 18, I started to link millions of parents on Tik Tok, and I saw that every parent was experiencing my helplessness.

In order to help my parents avoid detours, in 2020, I wrote my first book on parenting education, "Mom knows what to do", which was praised by many educational predecessors such as Yu Yu.

Teacher Fan Deng's sentence "This book can be said to be a treasure trove of parenting education" also flattered me.

At the same time, I was recognized by China Children's and Teenagers' Fund and became a member of the parents' committee after I joined the education cause. He was also invited as a love promotion ambassador for the family growth plan of China Women's Development Foundation.

It has also become the only "best reader of the year" in 2020.

Being recognized by more official organizations makes me feel more responsibility and pressure than encouragement.

Why is it difficult to raise?

The difficulty is that from the assembly of parenting skills to the filling of the mind, it is not a simple way to change, but requires the awakening of identity and rational consciousness, just like reloading a whole set of operating systems.

How can I help parents reinstall the system?

I integrated my parents' parenting pain points, collected thousands of "parenting problems", spent half a year concentrating on research and development, and finally found a truly operable and most efficient education method-video classroom.

This is the door "Mom knows what to do-operable family education".

Why can't you miss this video lesson?

Parenting style directly determines the future of children. Only when the method is right first will it be efficient and correct.

Explain why it is a video class first.

1. Some parents don't have time to read in depth and can't digest some parenting methods.

2. I can't remember after reading it, I know the method, but I don't need it.

Indeed, reading takes time. But parents' time is too precious!

How to make parents study deeply and apply what they have learned is the problem we really want to solve.

So this video course will completely avoid the obstacles of parents' learning.

First of all, multi-scene barrier-free learning, you can sit and watch, lie and watch, cook and watch on the way to and from work ... In the video, I will give you a real interpretation of parenting issues, so that you can save time and effort in learning.

Secondly, this video lesson is an upgraded version of "Mom knows what to do". It teaches you a trick to learn efficiently, that is, take this book as a notebook, and combine it with video lessons to check for leaks and fill gaps, which is convenient for memory. The two complement each other and are indispensable.

Most importantly, it is more conducive to parents' understanding and absorption to explain with video as the medium.

In the process of discussing with my parents, I added a little new content that keeps pace with the times than in the book.

Here is a car full of dry goods for you.

For less than the price of a box of masks, you can easily complete the study of the education system, which I think is worth it!

Why can't you miss this video lesson?

First of all,

I guarantee that this course has a scientific basis. I combine psychology and brain science, and also learn from many disciplines such as economics and management.

Secondly,

The level to be solved in this course is to put these slightly difficult theories to the ground, so that you can use them immediately when you go home after listening to the class. Is to solve the most troublesome education problem for you.

I summed up 12 words for this course, which are audible, easy to remember and useful.

Thank you for seeing you here, because you have started practical actions on the road to becoming an excellent parent, and your children will appreciate their parents who are willing to accompany them to grow up.

Let's start to improve family education together!

Published "Operational Family Education Power"

We refuse to force in lengthy theories,

Only give you a clear and operable method.

Let me introduce the correct way to open this course in detail for you!

1, who is suitable for listening?

If you encounter these problems in the feeding process:

If you want to solve the problem of raising children aged 0-6; Want to cultivate the study habits of children aged 7- 13; I want to solve the youth problem of 14- 18 children.

You have to listen!

2, 4 modules decompose parenting actions.

Is parent-child communication difficult?

Emotional management, difficult?

Is it difficult to cultivate personality habits?

Is it difficult to improve your learning ability?

Difficult!

How to sort out a messy parenting problem?

Classify and output parenting problems, so that parents can cut into the key points faster.

3. Professional theory, core method and visual operation.

At the request of most parents, the book deeply analyzes and explains what they are most concerned about.

It is simple and clear to disassemble the professional theory and core methods through animation, pictures and other display methods.

4, simple, put down the phone and use it immediately.

Disassemble the specific action method step by step, so that you can engrave it in your mind after listening, not only learn the method, but also apply it.

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Family education is the foundation of all education.

What kind of education parents give their children and what kind of people their children will become in the future.

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