You can play the leading role and supporting role, and you are comfortable on and off stage? This is the flexibility to face real life. The following are the famous sayings and sentences I have carefully recommended for you, and I hope they can help you.
a selection of famous sayings and their understanding
1. Do you run your business with the mood of [sowing]? If you don't sow, you won't reap (if you have established a business, you should run it well, otherwise you will change careers early).
2. if you fall, do you have to get up? If you don't get up, others will look down on you, and you will lose the opportunity (if you can't get up, you should try to make a few more stops and struggles, and maybe you will be saved. Otherwise, I will die unsatisfied)
3. Don't make excuses for failure? We should face failure and find out the reasons for it (try to find the reasons for failure and take countermeasures, which may benefit us in the future)
4. Change the environment or change yourself? Instead of changing the environment, it is better to improve yourself (when you have the ability and courage to change the environment, you should strive to change the environment, otherwise society will not progress. When you can't change the environment, change yourself quickly.
5. lengthen the front and avoid the main confrontation? There are few major battles to fight in life (try your best to avoid frontal impact and duel, but once it is inevitable, you still have to fight hard, otherwise you will die miserably)
6. Don't fight uncertain battles? Life can't afford to be wasted (we should make a good preparation for the expected battle, and we should be sober and calm in the unexpected battle, and see how to make a move)
7. Take self-reflection as our daily homework? Because you are not perfect, you will say the wrong thing and do the wrong thing (self-reflection is really beneficial)
8. Encourage yourself when you encounter low tide? Never beg, rely on others to encourage you (the biggest enemy in life is yourself, and the most reliable friend is yourself)
9. Borrow other people's intelligence to do things? You have to understand that people's intelligence is limited (36 counts, learning helps)
1. Always have a sense of crisis? Don't think that you are lucky. People who don't need a sense of crisis may be crushed by a sudden crisis)
Famous sayings and their understanding
1. The leading role and supporting roles can be played, and everyone is comfortable on stage and off stage? This is the flexibility to be flexible in the face of real life (life has ups and downs, when it is brilliant, don't be arrogant, arrogant and point fingers, and when it is down and out, still calmly perform your small role, and the chances of coming back to life will be much more)
2. Don't do things [spontaneously]? Doing things at will only harm yourself (if you form this habit, you will pay a high price in the future).
3. the more annoying things are, the more patient they are? There is nothing in the world that doesn't bother you (if you encounter troubles, you will avoid them or let them go, and there will be more troubles in the future)
4. Control your emotions? Don't let others think that you haven't grown up (people who are too naive and impulsive will never play the leading role).
5. Be a tortoise, not a rabbit? People with rabbit qualifications are the easiest to be proud (it is best to be a rabbit, but you should exercise your skills of running faster than tigers and lions, and don't race with turtles that are not your opponents at all, or even be defeated by turtles! ! ! )
6. Do small things first, and earn small money first? This is to accumulate the conditions for doing great things and making a lot of money (it is difficult for a person who has a low eye and is never willing to bow his head)
7. Don't let past failures tie your hands and feet? The environment will change, people will grow up and strike again, and they may succeed (a person who can't get out of the shadow of yesterday can't see a better tomorrow)
8. Live like a cockroach? If people have the resilience of cockroaches, what days can't they live? (In an extraordinary period and a forced environment, they should bear the burden of humiliation like dogs and live doggedly, so that they can turn over in the future. )
9. Slow and steady, can you attack and defend? Success that is not grasped in one's hand is not counted (even success that has been grasped in one's hand may be fleeting in an instant. Therefore, it is best for one to fail properly and win without arrogance. )
1. rely on strength, not factions? Faction is not forever, and strength is the best reliance in your life (both strength and intelligence). People who don't know how to assess the situation and see the climate, no matter how strong they are, will be crushed by factions. )
11. shine by yourself, don't wait for others to borrow the light? Everyone is for himself, who has the time and the heart to get to know you well (moderate publicity and performance are necessary, otherwise, it may become a piece of gold in the soil all his life? It's no different from waste rock)
12. Open the road on the mountain and bridge the bridge when it meets the water-after crossing the bridge and going up the mountain, there will always be a new world (if you don't try to move forward bravely, there will never be a way out)
13. Always run in front of your subordinates? Power leadership and friendship leadership are not as good as ability leadership (charismatic leadership, ability leadership, is the best leadership. Try to use your power as little as possible to suppress and scare subordinates, love and care for subordinates, but don't become brothers and sisters with subordinates easily. Leaders should look like leaders)
14. Is it necessary? Tell others: I'm here (the new official should not only light the fire, but also control the fire appropriately). Too much burning, often you will be burned to death first)
15. Use [fatal attraction] skillfully? Men are gentle, women are coquetry (people who can skillfully make this move should be more popular and have some effect, but pay attention to the environment and objects, otherwise it will be counterproductive. )
16. Face up to your weaknesses and avoid others' traps? Aboveboard, down-to-earth, not wishful thinking, you can avoid stepping into the trap (less greed, more brains. Pay more attention to tempting promises and sweet words, and you can avoid most traps.)
17. Only fifty cents, not one dollar? There is only one chance to get a dollar. Sometimes you shouldn't be too greedy, but it's really difficult to grasp this kind of temperature, so you should use your brains to analyze it.)
18. Put down your posture and the road will get wider and wider? Your figure will only tie you up (people with too big a shelf generally don't have an ideal ending)
19. Don't talk too much? To accommodate some accidents, so as not to be unable to step down (people who often say nothing often slap themselves in the face)
2. Understand the life style of China people? Attaching importance to human feelings, duplicity, formalism (for human feelings, it is common for most people in China to give each other some promises that are difficult to achieve or don't want to do for each other)
21. Make good use of the China people's psychology of [meeting three feelings]? If you respect each other, they will respect you. You meet a good person if you can meet a good person. I'm afraid you'll meet a heartless person, and it's no use being nice to him. Therefore, when dealing with each other, we need to respect each other, but don't expect each other to respect ourselves. )
22. Praise others more? You don't have to spend money, but you can make people happy. Why not? (People who can point out other people's shortcomings by praise are the ideal friends)
23. Respect others' [territorial scope]? Don't cause unnecessary troubles due to negligence (everyone has his own unique territory, so don't infringe upon it, otherwise, people who are close together may be hostile to each other)
24. Don't confide your frustration easily? In order to avoid being considered weak, it is necessary to look at the object. If you are not a very reliable friend or relative, don't tell your heart easily, and don't confide your frustration easily in front of them, otherwise you will become the object of ridicule and contempt.
25. Interpersonal relationship is: only with (giving up) can you (get)? Take the initiative to satisfy the other person's self first (only by knowing how to cater to others properly can you be accepted by others)
26. Don't ignore (face problem)? The behavior of losing face is the most likely to cause right and wrong (without considering and taking care of the other person's face, any help and kind words are not easily accepted by people and will not achieve good results)
27. What kinds of people should you deal with carefully? Not everyone is a good person (good and bad are relative. What others think of as a good man is not necessarily a real good man to himself. What others think of as a bad man may be the person who is most helpful to himself and is his own good man. The cognition of good and bad is changing with the difference of environment and ideas. In the feudal period, those who dared to disobey their father's orders and fall in love freely must be immoral and heinous villains that the world could not tolerate.
28. What kind of people should you reserve? Trust completely, and you will get hurt. If you are not completely sure, don't trust others defenseless)
29. Take care of yourself properly and have a relationship with (villains)? Don't be attached to the villain, and don't offend the villain (you don't have to be a villain, but you can hate the villain in your heart to prevent the villain from harming you. But never offend the villain innocently. If necessary, it is best to give the villain a little sweetness, so that the villain can take advantage of it and get close to it. Otherwise, your career may be hindered by villains.
3. it's best not to get in the way of people's money? Instead of blocking people's money, it is better to find another way to make money yourself (a dog jumps over the wall and a rabbit will bite when it is anxious. Many people struggle for power and profit with others, and as a result, they both lose, and their families are ruined. It is not worth it! Status and money are external things, so you have to forgive others and forgive others. Think more comprehensively about everything and see if it's worth it. )。
31. Dissolve others' jealousy with a low profile? Jealousy is a fire, which will destroy a person (some people are jealous that you have a stronger shining point than others, which is a good thing. Therefore, you should never confront the person who is jealous of you. He is resentfully jealous of you, but you still have to confront him. Isn't this a fire? ! )
32. You can't do everything? Because there will always be people who are dissatisfied with you (no matter how good you do, no matter how good you do, there will definitely be people who are dissatisfied. You can't expect yourself to be? Heartthrob? I can be a Bodhisattva of Purdue sentient beings. There is no need to take care of everyone's feelings in everything)
33. Know and use selfishness in human nature? Don't care about the selfishness of others, you should deal with these selfishness well. People who simply put themselves aside for others are basically caused by a short impulse. It is more or less selfish for a person to do anything with a clear head and a very rational mind. Immortals are devoted to all beings in order to be a good immortal who can be admired by everyone. There is no such thing as a free lunch, which is basically the truth.)
34. Follow Mao and he will listen to you? No matter how big your temper is, no matter how shrewd you are, no matter how subjective you are, you can't stand this trick. (Those who can use this trick are first-class communicators. Let's practice hard)
35. Promote with positive actions (is it extremely helpful)? Keep existing, be patient and accumulate ability (don't despair of your career and life under any circumstances! Fight with a positive attitude, until the end, many things will often turn around and come to light? No, it's too late! )
36. delay with caution? Prosperity and decline? Time? Many failures are planted in the heyday (people who don't know how to be prepared for danger in times of peace may soon prosper and decline. )
37. When the time comes, the flowers will bloom naturally? As long as you work hard, it's God's business when the flowers will bloom. Times are bad, the environment is bad, and fate is bad. No matter how hard you work, you may only survive. But a person who doesn't work hard, a person who has no dreams to pursue, even if there are no better times, no better environment and no better fate, it is difficult for God to take good care of him. Pursuing your ideal is the last word)
38. Don't change careers easily? The risk of changing careers is great. If you don't have great determination and courage, you'd better not do it rashly (any man is afraid of entering the wrong line, and any woman is afraid of marrying the wrong man). However, many people often enter their own businesses in a fog and choose their partners in a fog. This is unlucky and terrible, but it is not the key factor that affects your life. As long as you make the necessary efforts and still feel that this industry and this partner are not suitable for you at all, you must cut the gordian knot, show your courage and courage to make a new choice, turn the tide, and never be passive. This is the key. Otherwise, life will be doomed to be boring and mediocre. Desert is more suitable for camels and grassland is more suitable for running horses. When the galloping horse accidentally loses its way and runs into the desert, it must run harder to find the shortest way to the grassland. I only know that if I wag my head and tail in the desert and hesitate, I will be trapped in the desert. The era of hanging from a tree is gone forever. Many people who change careers and remarry are correct and successful. But before changing careers or remarriage, we must think more and weigh the pros and cons. Hasty or passive, are doomed to failure)
39. If you make a mistake, you will honestly admit your mistake? You will only harm yourself by quibbling and blaming others (in principle, you should admit your mistake honestly, regardless of whether you made a mistake intentionally or not, but in some special occasions and in front of special people, you need to think more about saying your mistake. In real society, it is not absolute to be frank and lenient. Telling the truth at any time may not have a good result. For example, during the period, Qian Xuesen was asked: Can an acre of land produce 1, Jin of grain? Qian Xuesen clearly knew it was impossible, but he still said yes. Many people in the back said irresponsibly that he was a cartilaginous head. Little did they know that if he honestly said no, he might have been killed. For another example, many men and women in love, in order to express their sincere love for each other and gain their complete trust, will tell each other all the details of their previous love or their previous detailed experiences of persecution by the opposite sex, only to leave a shadow in each other's hearts that will be hard to erase for life, which will inevitably affect their future relationship. From now on, the two sides are in sincere love, so why bother to take care of so many things before? The more you tell each other, the more sad you will be! From another point of view, is a person who tries his best to understand each other's past affairs a person who really loves you? Many people always tell the truth regardless of the occasion and the object, and the result is sad. Therefore, my opinion is that people should be honest, but it is not necessarily correct to be honest on special occasions and when dealing with abnormal objects. White lies are necessary. )