-"I am waiting for you in the future" Liu Tong
What is the first thing you want to do? Hmm?
Everyone has something they want to do, but they just don't know where to start. In the end, they just follow the future life planned by their elders. Maybe you will like this industry gradually, or maybe you will be exhausted every day.
Maybe you think you have lost your freedom, but how can you understand what freedom is?
This famous saying suddenly came true in the recently hit Hong Kong drama Acts 2. "The real prison is fear? And what about real freedom? Freedom from fear "Yes! When we are young, we have more or less fears in our hearts. The industry we choose may be an industry that you feel good at first, or even an industry that you can do for a lifetime. In fact, many times, I personally think that it is mostly for survival rather than for love. It is not easy to survive, and I often feel anxious.
Some people in their early twenties are always curious about the unknown outside world, the interviewer's questions, whether the boss and colleagues are easy to get along with each other, the feeling of winning the first prize, the difficulty of work, and even themselves like adults ... At that time, you and your friends still had dreams, and even many of them wanted to come true as soon as possible. However, in the face of external temptation and personal self-esteem, there is always reason to overturn every financial plan and every life plan. Then, day after day, year after year, watching prices rise rapidly, I have no savings, and I am most afraid of getting sick. What you are most afraid of is not going to the hospital alone when you are sick, but that you can take yourself to the hospital without savings after you get sick! Isn't that fear an invisible prison?
Some people in their early twenties have worked for many years and might as well sleep in university dormitories for four years. At least, college students have looked forward to the future and talked about love in the "dormitory sleeping party" on campus! Those people are afraid of the external environment, and fear can't hide their inferiority when socializing. They wish they could speak freely like a mature man, but reality always makes them fight for small things. I don't like them, because they always magnify trivial frictions and then tell others about the unfairness and darkness outside, as well as bosses, businessmen, friends and so on. But they had no idea that they were trapped in the darkness first. That fear is also a dark prison …
When that train takes you away from your parents, you may never know how to get there, will you? Just like when we just learned to eat with chopsticks, you don't know why adults want us to learn to eat with chopsticks, let alone why two sticks can be so important! Now that you are your own chopsticks, you are a tool to feed yourself, that's right. You are just a tool! For dignity, for the people she loves, for the house, for the car, for making others look decent, for … for many, many inexplicable things. You will be tired, you will wrestle, you will cry alone, you will ...
You can never need everyone like a pair of chopsticks, and you can never make everyone like you like chopsticks. However, perhaps, you can choose not to believe in nature, believe that excellent people in the world are actively looking for the environment they want, don't believe in the society described by anyone, and don't listen to anyone's fictional life. Don't be emotional, don't be serious, and don't let yourself get caught up in it! If you can't find a suitable environment everywhere, you can also create one yourself! Sure!