1, although the power is in hand, don't be arrogant. Cixi's power mainly came from her son Guangxu, who took over before Guangxu grew up. In the courtiers' hearts, she only knew Emperor Guangxu, but Cixi was not the emperor in their hearts. If Cixi wants to promote her own brother, she will be mistakenly inserted into her relatives to prepare for usurpation.
2. My brother is incompetent and only knows pleasure all day. Gui Xiang, the younger brother of Cixi, is too loved by his family. He is lazy and doesn't like reading. He likes to play with uneducated dudes. Therefore, he is a man without virtue and incompetence. He didn't know what to do when he got a decent position. Forced help will be gossiped by ministers, which will damage the family honor. Her attitude towards her brother is that she hates iron and does not produce steel.
3, help does not lie in official position, and giving it economically is not help. In fact, Cixi's younger brother has never been down and out, but he is far worse than himself. Although he couldn't help her come to power because of his brother's incompetence, she didn't sit idly by, but secretly gave her money to help her brother Gui Xiang eat, drink and be merry all day, which was in line with his nature and wouldn't cause trouble to Cixi.