Age is not a problem.
Take a look at those couples who are known to have a big age gap.
Mr. and Mrs. Jiekai Xiu in Alyssa Chia, the age difference between them is 9 years;
Mr. and Mrs. Hannah Quinlivan in Jay Chou, the age difference between them is 14 years;
Mr. and Mrs. Ma Yanqiang in Gigi Lai, the age difference between them is 14 years;
Mr. and Mrs. Zheng Jun in Liu Yun, the age difference between them is 15 years;
Mr. and Mrs. Cherrie Ying, Jordan chan. The difference between them is 16 years old;
Mr. and Mrs. Nicky Wu in Liu Shishi, the difference between them is 17 years old;
Mr. and Mrs. Wu Jiani, Ma Jingtao, age difference is 21 years;
Li Shuangjiang dream pigeon couple, age difference is 27 years old;
Mr. and Mrs. Wei Wenbin, Li Sisi, age difference is 36 years;
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Of course, there are many other things besides these. Whether the man is older than the woman or the woman is older than the man, there are some in these couples. But they live in their own world, and the outside world's gossip has not made them give up on each other.
Now, some people always use their age as a shield, and don't give each other a chance, which makes them lose their chance. We can't evaluate the right or wrong of this behavior. After all, all adults have their own thoughts and judgments.
We're just talking about the results of this behavior: it's okay to value age, after all, everyone's mate selection conditions are different. But when age is not the primary condition, then the scope of mate selection is wider, and the probability of meeting the right person is a little bit greater.
If you love someone, you should marry ta. This is a wise saying. All relationships that do not aim at marriage are hooligans.
in my opinion, there is nothing to do with age in love. If two people see each other right, age is nothing. Therefore, I have no requirement for the age of the other half, whether older than me or younger than me, I want to choose my lover. Since I am a lover, I choose to love everything about her.