Life is like a mirror. If you smile at it, it will smile back at you. If you cry to it, it will cry to you.

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I remember seeing such an experiment: the person who operated the experiment told the person who wanted to chat online with QQ in advance that he wanted to chat with two objects, one was eccentric, irritable and arrogant, and the other was gentle and elegant, gentle and virtuous and kind. The experiment began, and the man and the first man could not talk for long, and the conversation was very unpleasant. But this person chatted with the second person, and it never ended. They seem to have a good chat. In fact, this person is actually chatting with the same person. Why is the contrast so big?

It turned out that this person had already left a bad impression on him when he got to know the first person. He really doesn't like talking to such people, which leads to an unhappy ending. The second person had a good impression on him from the beginning, so he was willing to chat with such people, so the more he talked, the happier he became. It seems that mentality is very important. Attitude can make things better or worse.

Will cloudy weather affect the mood? Will your mood affect your work again?

I always do. A bad weather will make my mood worse, so my paintings are not satisfactory. The uglier I paint, the less I want to paint. There was no harvest on this day. It is me who is unfair, and many students around me feel this way. And I found that when the weather was bad, the whole class didn't draw very well. When the weather is fine, I will be in a good mood, and the more I paint, the more I want to paint.

This shows how important a person's mentality is.

You can't control others, but you can control yourself; You can't predict tomorrow, but you can grasp today; You can't win everything, but you can do everything with your heart; You can't extend the length of life, but you can decide the width of life; You can't control the weather, but you can change your mood; You can't choose your appearance, but you can smile. When something makes you dissatisfied, you can change your mind and turn your critical eyes into appreciative eyes. Everything has two sides. Look on the bright side, and your heart will be suddenly enlightened. If we can "not be happy with things, not sad with ourselves". That would be great.