It is better to marry a widowed husband than to marry a living Chinese wife. The meaning of this sentence is misunderstood by many people. It's not that a woman is bad, but that her husband is still alive and separated for some reason, but he still has feelings. You may not be able to live safely with you after marriage. If a woman still has children, she is inextricably linked with her ex-husband, and life will not be peaceful. This is relatively speaking, you'd better be divorced or widowed, because divorce is due to various reasons, which may be men's problems, women's problems, or other reasons why others have to be separated, but the feelings are still there. But my husband is very passive and has no choice. Even if I had a good relationship with my ex-husband, it was a thing of the past.

Rural proverbs are simple words summed up through the long-term life experience of ordinary people, just like today's saying that it is better to marry a widow's husband than a living Chinese wife? What does this proverb mean? Let me briefly share my personal understanding with you.

Would you rather marry a widowed man than a living Chinese wife? This proverb refers to the proverb about the marital status in the family. Widowed here? Have a living Chinese wife? It refers to two kinds of women with different family and marriage conditions in rural areas, both of which have different status.

Better marry a widowed man? Widowed in this proverb? Explain that the original husband has passed away, and the family in this situation is unfortunate, leaving a wife and children. In the past, people still called such women widows? In the former feudal society, many men were unwilling to marry such a woman. Some people say this is superstition. But in modern society, due to the imbalance between men and women, women are more likely to remarry. Relatively speaking, life still needs two people to complete important tasks together.

Don't marry a living China wife? The difference between this proverb and the above sentence is that although everyone has a husband, what is the living Chinese wife mentioned in this sentence? In ancient times, only husbands could divorce their wives, just like modern divorce? It means the same thing. Two people live separately and live their own lives. At that time, divorced women had no autonomy. Under normal circumstances, the husband will divorce his wife under special circumstances, and the divorced wife will have no chance to remarry in the future. Married a woman who has been repaired, it is easy for a man to attract other people's gossip, so this is the old saying: Don't marry a living China wife.

This proverb is very reasonable in ancient times, but in modern society, as long as you are not a bad woman, you can still find your own happiness.

In today's society with more men and fewer women, it is not easy to get a wife unless you are handsome or rich. If you have neither, then you are very talented, and talent can sometimes attract girls. The difficulty in getting a wife is particularly serious in rural areas, mainly because rural areas are relatively backward. Most poor families can't get high bride price, but some divorced women don't want high bride price. Why don't they get married? Some men even prefer to marry widows rather than them? Is it really an old saying that it is better to marry a widowed husband than a living Chinese wife? So what does this sentence mean? Does this really make sense?

Better marry a widowed man?

In rural areas, some women whose husbands have died are called widows, that is, widowed. Many of these women will choose to remarry, and some will persist, especially those with children. They will not choose to remarry for the sake of their children. If some young women have no children, they will remarry in nine cases. Because they are widows, their requirements can't be compared with other women, so their requirements can't be too high. Many young men in rural areas are also willing to marry, after all, the woman's requirements are not very high, and the other's wealth is not high.

Don't marry a living China wife?

What is a living Chinese wife? A living Chinese wife is a divorced woman. We know there are still many divorced women. However, it cannot be said that the responsibility for women's divorce lies entirely with men. If both sides have problems, how to divorce? It is certain that both sides have problems, and there are many divorced women in rural areas. But many men would rather be single than marry divorced women because they are abandoned by men in their hearts. Only bad things will be abandoned. In addition, there are many divorced women who are still confused with their ex-husbands even if they remarry. Men are afraid that their heads will turn into Hulunbeier grassland, so if they have a choice, they usually choose to be widowed? Instead of choosing a live China wife? .

This sentence sounds reasonable, but in this era when it is difficult to marry a wife, people are willing to marry you, which means they are willing to live with you. So it is ok to marry a widow or a divorced woman.