San Mao once said, What is the heart like? It is like a vast maze, thousands of miles away, in which there is no boat to ferry people, except for crossing by oneself, there is nothing others can do to help.

The general idea is:

You must manage your own heart. Others can give opinions, but you must have your own heart to understand. Blindly trusting others is not self-enlightenment.

Attached is Sanmao's information:

Sanmao (March 26, 1943 - January 4, 1991), formerly known as Chen Maoping (mào) (later renamed Chen Ping), a contemporary Chinese writer, was born in Chongqing in 1943. In 1948, he moved to Taiwan with his parents. In 1967, he went to Spain to study, and later went to Germany, the United States, etc. In 1973, he settled in the Spanish Sahara Desert and married Jose. After returning to Taiwan in 1981, he taught at the Cultural University. He resigned from the teaching position in 1984 and focused on writing and speaking. Died in hospital on January 4, 1991, at the age of forty-eight.