Things are universally connected, everything is in universal connection, such as the food chain in nature, and every life is in a certain chain. The same people are gregarious animals, and cannot be divorced from society and independent. People are inseparable from society, groups and others, and are in a universal social chain. Wolf children born in the forest can only be called human beings when they return to human society. The view that man is a social animal has not been paid attention to by the ever-changing contemporary society. Often in today's increasingly personalized and differentiated values, world outlook and outlook on life, people can only look at their own importance and ignore the power of the group. From the point of view that things are generally related, this paper analyzes that people are social animals, and people who are opposed to people are independent of society, and how to deal with them. ?

First,? The universal connection of things?

When Engels talked about the "dialectical picture" of the universal connection of things, he pointed out: "When we carefully examine nature or human history or our own spiritual activities, the first thing that catches our eye is the picture of endless interweaving of various connections and interactions." As a universal philosophical category, connection refers to the mutual influence, mutual restriction and interaction between various elements within and between things. Contact has a series of characteristics:?

First of all, contact is objective. Contact is independent of people's subjective will, such as the food chain in nature, which exists objectively and is independent of people's will. It existed before people found it. When people found it, they admitted its existence, but they didn't. ?

Secondly, the connection is universal. The universality of the relationship between things has three meanings. First, different parts and elements in everything are interrelated, that is, everything has an internal structure. Second, nothing can exist in isolation, and everything has a certain relationship with other things. Third, the whole world is an interconnected and unified whole, from the inorganic world to the organic world, from nature to human society, everything is in universal contact. A poet once used a word to express the society in which human beings live-network, which just shows that any individual in human society is in the social network and cannot leave. ?

Finally, people are diverse. There are many ways to contact, just like a person's contact with the outside world, such as affection, friendship, love, teacher-student relationship and so on. These are all ways for individuals to contact the society, but they are all different and have their own characteristics. ?

Second,? People are social animals, so they can't be independent of society and oppose human selfishness?

The Marxist principle of universal connection of things requires people to be good at analyzing the specific connection of things and establish the concept of integrity and openness. Contemporary China is building a harmonious socialist society under the guidance of Scientific Outlook on Development, which requires us to correctly understand and handle the relationship between man and nature, man and man, man and society, grasp the mutual relationship in the development of things, seize the opportunity and strive to develop ourselves. ?

Man is a gregarious animal. Once he is divorced from society, he is no longer a man. People call children who grow up in the forest "wolf children" and "pig children", that is, they can't be called human beings even if they have special brain functions before entering human society. Only when they entered human society, began to understand human civilization, used the special brain function of human beings and increased the dynamic role of consciousness, did they begin to look like individuals slowly. ?

In contemporary society, the communication between people is gradually changing, and the original simple and simple way of communication has changed. With the progress of science and technology, the infiltration of information age and the refinement of social division of labor, the differences and individualization of modern social values are becoming more and more obvious, which easily leads to people's self-centered thinking and self-serving thinking, and it is increasingly difficult to think and solve problems from the perspective of others. Finally, the society is gradually losing harmony, and more and more people are only for themselves, and the theory of selfishness is further promoted. ?

Third,? How to deal with college students?

With the strengthening of division of labor and specialization in modern society, people are increasingly interdependent. The same thing may require more and more people to participate in order to do it well. As contemporary college students, they are endowed with unique conditions, most of them are only children, and the concept of self-centeredness is deeply rooted in the bone marrow. Growing up in a greenhouse, they don't even know what it means to care about others and what it means to be collective. This requires vigilance. As the successors of the new China in the 2 1 century and the leaders of the new era, college students must:

1、? Seriously study Marxist philosophy, establish scientific values, world outlook and outlook on life, arm yourself with correct thoughts, and fully realize that you exist as a part of society.

2、? Think from the perspective of others, solve problems from the perspective of the collective, overcome the self-centered psychology, and integrate into the collective and society. ? 3、? Under the trend of economic globalization, the links between countries and nations are getting closer and closer, which requires us college students to set up a world vision, conform to the world trend, grasp the interconnection of all aspects in the world development process, seize the opportunity and strive to develop themselves. ?