There is a famous saying in married life: "Husbands and wives are not afraid of quarreling every day, but they are afraid of not talking every day." Cold violence between husband and wife is more harmful than violent behavior. But arrogant quarrels just for love will also create adverse conditions for the relationship. So I think two people often quarrel because they love each other very much. For example, most women like to be jealous because they love each other so much and are afraid of losing each other, so they lose confidence. Too much love creates a defensive mentality, which can cause tantrums due to sensitivity and suspicion, and questioning the other party can lead to misunderstandings and quarrels. That's also a potential sexual dilemma between couples. Regular communication is necessary to prevent any negative effects on the marriage after the update.

Because we love each other very much, we don’t want to see all the shortcomings of the other party exposed, and we can’t tolerate the person we love the most making any mistakes. Both want to try their best to change the other party and let the other party think and do things according to their own beliefs. But think about it, how is this possible? Two people who come from different family lives, living environment, learning environment, education methods, growth process and other factors result in each of them having some own personality traits, and everyone wants to try their best to change the other person.

Appropriate quarrels will arouse the concerto of emotional life and are a kind of joy in life, as long as they must be appropriate. If quarrels become a common occurrence and quarrels occur every three days, life will not be able to go on normally. It is very normal for two people who love each other to quarrel. Because the more we fall in love, the more we cherish each other, and the less we allow ourselves and the other party to make mistakes. Even if the other party makes an unintentional mistake, the imagination space of the loved one will be endlessly expanded. Appropriate quarrels will further increase the intensity of the relationship, and will make two people in love deepen their relationship through quarrels. Quarrel between couples or lovers is often caused by the quarrel between the bed and the foot of the bed in the bedroom.

Mainly because two people love each other too deeply, and love without quarrels is like a pool of stagnant water. It usually ends quickly, and love and marriage require small quarrels. The quarrel here needs to be measured and measured, not blatantly quarreling with each other. Two people who love each other sometimes want to kill each other. This is called entanglement. People are so divided and worried. Specifically speaking, the more two people fall in love, the more likely they are to quarrel. Between husband and wife, one party always demands the other party to be more perfect. If the requirements are not met all the time, it is very easy to quarrel. They don't want to say anything. They are not a good couple. The more emotional quarrels get worse, they spend their lives fighting and arguing. If you argue, you will grow old together.