When we discover the strengths of others, we should be happy for them. Then, others will also be happy for your strengths and praise others' strengths, and we will not only reap the joy of others sharing your happiness, but also the joy of life.
The misty rain of the Republic of China has ruined many outstanding people, but it can't erase their great achievements! "Laugh at the sky and go out. Are we Artemisia people?" Wild as Mr. Liu Wendian, he dared to reprimand Chiang Kai-shek face to face, but he also showed respect to Mr. Chen Yinque. He thought that Mr. Chen Yinque was ashamed of his high literary level. It can be seen that even though Mr. Wendian was arrogant, when he found Chen Yinque's excellent literary character, he also praised it and even called out, "I am inferior to it." His praise of others' strengths not only made him highly respected by later generations, but also made him a world-renowned famous figure!
let's go back in time. At the end of the Eastern Han Dynasty, there were many wars, such as Enemy at the Gates, flying sand and showing smoke, various governors, and Jin Ge's iron horse, just for a piece of paper.
In the early years of the Three Kingdoms, Yuan Shao was in the palm of his hand. At that time, when he heard that his subordinates praised Yang Cao Cao for having established a certain power, he scoffed. When he heard that Cao Cao was good at fighting and strategizing, he even shouted on the spot: "Are they comparable to me?" However, Yuan Shao, despite his great family career, did not know how to praise the strengths of others, which made him arrogant. Finally, the battle of Guandu, Yuan family forces, was set on fire. Just think, if Yuan Shao knows how to appreciate Cao Cao's strengths and value him instead of looking down on him, it is also a matter of two opinions. It is precisely because Yuan Shao doesn't know how to praise the advantages of others that he is fearless and arrogant, which makes him think nothing of himself, but helps others.
Compared with Yuan Shao, there are still many people in history who know how to praise the merits of others. Wu Zetian praised Luo Bin's talent and made her the first female emperor in history. Zhang Taiyan praised Huang Kan's versatility and made him a generation of famous teachers. Li Bai praised his brothers, "all of them are good friends", which created the immortal legend of a generation of poets! Countless, praising others' strengths can not only reap unexpected surprises, but also cleanse our hearts and wipe away all the complexity and lead.
a gentleman's adult beauty praises the strengths of others, so why not be a gentleman?
Composition 2: A gentleman has the beauty of an adult
In fact, there are two astronauts who landed on the moon for the first time. Besides the well-known Armstrong, one is odlum.
At that time, Armstrong said, "One small step for me is a big step for all mankind" has long been a well-known saying all over the world.
During the press conference to celebrate the success of landing on the moon, a reporter suddenly asked odlum a very special question: "Do you feel a little sorry that Armstrong went down first and became the first person to land on the moon?"
Under the awkward gaze of the audience, odlum replied gracefully: "Ladies and gentlemen, don't forget that I was the first to get out of the capsule when I returned to Earth."
He looked around and said with a smile, "So I was the first person to come to earth from another planet." Everyone gave him the warmest applause in the laughter.
Tips: I don't have to succeed. The success of the team is my success. Will you appreciate the achievements of your colleagues? Will you give others warm applause from your heart?
"Adult beauty" is not only a accomplishment, but also a virtue.
Composition 3: A gentleman has the beauty of an adult
Confucius said: "A gentleman's adult beauty is not evil for an adult, but a villain is", which means a "gentleman" with high virtue, always thinking about others' good things, fulfilling others' good things and not contributing to others' bad things; The villain is the opposite. The beauty of adults is a kind of accomplishment and a noble moral character, which requires a broad mind and a good attitude towards others. In interpersonal communication, Confucius emphasized loyalty and forgiveness and the beauty of adults. The rules of interpersonal relationships that promote the beauty of others and adults are also the key to our survival today. In a certain sense, the beauty of adults is the beauty of being yourself, which means being convenient to others and yourself. The beauty of adults is a noble character, which requires a broad mind and a spirit of helping others. It's hard to be beautiful as an adult for people who have to be swayed by considerations of gain and loss and have to figure out how much benefit they can get.
There are two virtues in the beauty of adults: one is that being good for yourself also helps others, and what you can do also helps others to do. This kind of adult beauty is what Confucius said: "If you want to stand up, you can stand up, and if you want to achieve it, you can achieve it"; Second, my work and life are not good, and I can help others. In the era of market economy, social vanity fair is like a battlefield without smoke, and the beauty of adults is a rare quality.
the most important thing in interpersonal communication is to be kind to others, to provide convenience and help to others as much as possible. In other words, we should learn to be lenient with others. For the good things of others, we should give strong support and appreciation; For other people's bad things, don't gloat or even hit people when they are down.
Confucianism requires self-restraint and patience in everything, which is also a manifestation of high morality, but some people who are selfish and have no real talent and learning are jealous.
A gentleman is a self-cultivation person with an external talent. He should provide convenience and help others as much as possible. Such as Confucianism's "people drown themselves, people starve themselves" and "don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you"; Taoism punishes evil and promotes good; Buddhism teaches people to be kind and compassionate, all of which include the ideological realm of adult beauty. The holy king Ming Jun ruled the world, making the country prosperous and the people safe; Xian Xiang Liang Chen is loyal to the country, recommends talents, and does not seek personal gain; Moral people who practice and spread Confucianism, Buddhism and Taoism to help the world, make good relationships with people and improve their morality; Even a word of advice and encouragement to people, making people choose good and follow, all reflect the beauty of adults. There are many stories that have been passed down since ancient times.
People who are beautiful as adults point out their shortcomings in good faith out of respect and care for others; Try your best to help others in their distress; When you succeed, you don't take credit for yourself, but you think more about the help and gratitude of others. As the old saying goes, "When a lady knows her, she knows her nature, so she helps her." The "nature" here refers to the beautiful virtue endowed by God, so people are willing to do good, be willing to think for others, and make their good wishes come true.