1. In one life, tiredness is inevitable and suffering must be eaten. People are tired because they work hard; people are idle because they are lazy. Those who dare to fight are called strong; those who are lazy are cowards. In this world, nothing comes for free. If you want to succeed, you have to pay; if you want to gain, you have to endure hardship. No one's life can be smooth sailing, and no one's life can be satisfying in every way. There will always be some setbacks and obstacles, don't be afraid, just persevere and work hard on your own. One day you will get out of the predicament and become a truly strong person.

2. When you see someone clearly without exposing them, you understand the meaning of forgiveness; when you hate someone without falling out, you understand the ultimate respect. In life, there will always be people you can't stand, and there will always be people who can't stand you. Your maturity is not because of how many years you have lived, how many roads you have traveled, or how many failures you have experienced; it is because you have learned to give up, learned tolerance, and learned not to fight. Savor life. At your current age, be with whomever you feel comfortable with! The same goes for friends. When you are tired, just stay away. Anyone who can enter my heart will be treated as a treasure. I don’t bother to deal with those who don’t enter my heart. We have always had a shallow relationship, but our love is deep!

3. What is degree? Degree is the bottom line of being a human being and the measure of doing things. No one can live without degree. You must speak with degree, communicate with degree, and get along with degree! Only when you have a good grasp of the degree will you not be tired; only if you understand the degree well will you not be confused! When dealing with people, you should be moderate in your dealings, leave 3 points of leeway when speaking, and be careful in your dealings with propriety. When in the company of others, don't try to please others and make others look down upon you. When it comes to people, don't be arrogant and make others laugh at you. Life needs to be grasped! Don't look down on others, don't look down on yourself, don't look down on others, don't show off yourself. Don’t relax when it’s time to fight for it, and know how to seize the opportunity. Don’t be persistent when it’s time to give up, and know how to take things as they come!

4. When communicating with an old man, don’t forget his self-esteem; when communicating with a man, don’t forget his face; when communicating with a woman, don’t forget her emotions; when communicating with your boss, don’t forget him dignity; when communicating with young people, don’t forget his directness; when communicating with children, don’t forget his innocence. If you travel the world with one attitude, you will inevitably run into obstacles everywhere; it depends on local conditions and people. Only by being grateful can you reach all corners of the world.

5. Sometimes, life is like a mirror. If you are smiling, it will tell you that it is simple and ordinary. If you are sad, it will tell you that you are helpless. In life, everything will not go as planned, and life will not go smoothly. After experiencing it, you will understand: In life, money can't be earned, but life is limited. In a person's life, no matter what you say or do, there will always be people who hate you, but so what, you are not RMB, how can everyone like you? Cherish those who stay, and say goodbye and bless those who leave. If you keep an eye on everything and take it lightly, life will be much simpler. Throughout life, living is victory, health is the goal, and happiness is the true meaning!

6. The older you get, the more you learn to let things take their own course. You don’t want to keep anything anymore, and you believe that what is meant to be will never go away. Be calm with gains and calm with losses, strive for the inevitable and let nature take its course. Only when you meet more people will you understand which people are worth cherishing with your life and which people are only suitable for detours. No more sleepless nights and no more worries. There is still a lot of road to walk tomorrow, a lot of hurdles to pass, a lot of delicious food to eat, a lot of people to meet, a lot of time to count, and a lot of happiness to experience.

7. There is no next time in life, so let us start by cherishing it: cherish your time and don’t waste it; cherish your feelings and don’t be ashamed; cherish your health and use it, don’t squander it; cherish your life. Get some work done, don’t waste it! Live every year, every month, and every day of your life seriously, because there is really not much left in your life. Life is short. As soon as you close your eyes, one day will pass; as soon as you close your eyes, this life will pass. After today, there will never be another life like today. After this minute and second, there will never be another life like this. Life is neither too short nor too long. I hope you and I can live a good life, strive to be a better version of ourselves, and live our best lives!

8. Life is short, there is no need to care too much about life. If you don’t understand some things, don’t understand them; if you can’t guess some people, don’t guess; if you can’t figure out some principles, don’t To think. Fold and store the unpleasant past in a deserted corner. Tell yourself: It doesn’t have to be perfect, but it must be real; it doesn’t have to be rich, but it must be happy. Don't embarrass yourself, life is only a few decades, whether it's hard work or leisure, it's just a moment. Give yourself optimism, give yourself peace, maintain your truest feelings, and maintain the best mood.

9. Forgetting is not confusion, but a kind of wisdom; forgetting is not incompetence, but a kind of generosity. Forgetting does not mean losing memory, but relaxing your mind; forgetting does not mean becoming confused, but learning to act stupid. Forgetting is a state and a choice. Only by forgetting the bad can you remember the best. Some people, just forget it! If you don't forget it, you will hurt yourself; there are some things that should be forgotten, just forget them! The past cannot come back, and the future will continue. In the journey of life, how can everything go smoothly? How can a person live his whole life and dedicate himself to everything? There are many things that give you a headache if you think about them too much and heartache if you remember them for a long time. It is better to learn to forget and give yourself some peace.

10. The older you get, the more you will know: when you are tired, many people will tell you, stop doing it, but no one is willing to give you money; when you are sick, there will be Many people will tell you, take some medicine, but no one is willing to go out and buy it for you. When you encounter difficulties, many people will say, "It's okay," but no one is willing to really help you.

Don't just hear about it, see how to do it. There is no shortage of people watching in this world. Work hard. If you don’t work hard, no one can give you the life you want!

11. You cannot wait for others to arrange your life. Only you know what kind of life you want. Only by planning and designing by yourself, fighting for and struggling by yourself, adjusting and changing by yourself can you get closer and closer to your ideal life bit by bit. Even if everything doesn't go as planned, you can proudly say that I tried my best, so I won't regret it.

12. The fox found a nest of chickens, but it was too fat to get in, so it finally entered after three days of starvation. After a full meal, it could not get out, so it had to starve for three days again before it came out. Finally, it lamented that it was in the nest. In this process, apart from having fun, it is just a waste of time. Isn't life like this! Money earned with youth cannot buy back youth; money earned with life cannot buy back life; money earned with time cannot buy back time. So work happily when it's time to work, take a good rest when it's time to rest, smile every day, and enjoy life to the fullest.

13. There is a kind of fate between people. A understanding, care and understanding. Different people give you different experiences, different feelings and different lives. No matter what you encounter, accept it with joy, because they are your growth experiences. If you don't experience failure, how can you know the value of success? How can you know the sweetness of happiness without experiencing setbacks? How can you know the charm of kindness without experiencing ugliness? Cherish every encounter and you will become more mature and better!

14. When you are hungry, don’t eat green onions, it will burn your heart; when you are poor, don’t go to relatives, it will chill your heart. Those who help you, have a deep friendship with them; those who miss me, remember them well. Only when you are truly in trouble can you understand who is anxiously concerned and who is turning around. I don't think highly of rich people because they don't give me money to spend. I never look down on the poor because they do not depend on me for their survival. I don't suck up to people, because they won't help me in vain. I don't flatter the successful villain, because he doesn't like me! A true friend will not talk sweetly every day, but a true villain will be hypocritical! If you like me, go with me. If you don't like me, please stay away! Life is too short to be hypocritical. People don’t have to be illiterate, but they must know how to read people. Even if a tree is thousands of feet high, don’t forget its roots; if a person is brilliant, don’t forget your gratitude. Even if I am not brilliant, I will be grateful to everyone who has helped me!

15. Life will not go the way you want, it will give you a period of time, leaving you alone, confused, silent and melancholy. But if you rely on this time to be alone with yourself, read more books, do things you can do, let go of the people in the past, and wait until you get through the low ebb, those alone times will definitely light up your path, and it is also these unbearable companions. You are mature. So, it’s not that bad now. It seems like life owes you, but it’s actually all blessings.

16. In life, there are actually many things that cannot be said. Sometimes we go too far and often forget the way back; sometimes we see too clearly, which often causes unnecessary trouble and confusion; sometimes we think If you get too much, you often lose yourself. Life is like a mirror. If there is nothing in your heart, you will be quiet; if your heart is empty, you will understand. Learn to smile, learn to face it, learn to let go, and let everything follow your heart, casually, and whatever happens.

17. When getting along, you must know how to change your position; if you want to get something, give it first; if you want to understand it, be tolerant first; if you want to care about it, cherish it first; if you want to respect it, value it first. If you consider other people's difficulties, others will also consider your face. If you lend a helping hand to others when they need it, others will remember to take care of you. When getting along with others, you must know how to put yourself in their shoes and be kind to others! Being able to feel others' difficulties is caring; being able to understand others' difficulties is generosity; being able to forgive others' mistakes is generosity! People are endlessly perfect, and things are never smooth sailing. It is when people have difficulties and misunderstandings in interactions. If you know how to put yourself in someone else's shoes, your troubles will be reduced. If you know how to empathize with others, your feelings will deepen.

18. People must have a clean heart. Regardless of appearance or attire, a thorough understanding is the most beautiful; regardless of rich or poor, high or low, a kind heart is the most precious. Be an upright person, do things clearly, and let people feel the sunshine in your heart. This is the value of existence. Be charitable, be kind and generous to others, get help from others, and walk a broad path. I would rather be a kind person and be magnanimous for the rest of my life than be a hypocritical person and be calculating for the rest of my life. Thank you for all the encounters and mutual understanding.

19. Don’t look down on anyone, and don’t pretend to understand. Don’t pretend to have read thousands of books when you go out without actually studying. It’s like traveling thousands of miles. You can be clever, but you still have to have your own strength, and you must never elevate yourself by belittling others in front of others. The world is big, we are small, and we have many roads to walk. Instead of talking nonsense, we should think about how to enrich ourselves and become a better version of ourselves.

20. Persistence will never be let down! There will always be a difficult road in life that you need to walk alone, with no one to help or accompany you. Don't be afraid, just walk through it with your head held high and go through all the setbacks and hardships. You will find that you are much stronger than you thought. If you take more detours, you will find shortcuts.

Things in the world are ups and downs, and experience is also life. I hope you can cultivate a strong heart and become a better version of yourself!