Famous quotes from "Managing Marriage": 1. White lies, necessary concealment, and embarrassment. Gritting his teeth and swallowing, he endured the humiliation and put himself in his shoes. Even if you are shattered to pieces, you must create peace! 2. Increase the happiness index wantonly! Maximize happiness as much as possible! Reduce unpleasantness 3. Change appreciation of each other from reason to habit, and from habit to nature. In the end, if you don't praise the other person, you will feel very uncomfortable. All in all, all these qualities and virtues summarized by human beings can be used in managing marriages! But marriage is all white lies, what else is true after marriage? Is there still true love and reality? 1. A healthy body is true, 2. Harmonious interpersonal relationships are true, 3. A solid economic foundation is true, and 4. Knowing each other until old age is true. Exchange the above 3 points for the above 4 points. Is it worth it?

Love can be emotional and accidental; but marriage absolutely requires rationality and management.

When you are in love, you can always tell the truth. But in marriage, you always need to tell white lies. Why was it that Shakespeare could write so many love masterpieces that have been passed down through the ages, but his own marriage was so bad? White lies are always needed in marriage to deal with conflicts in family life. For example, my wife is indeed old, and her skin and figure are not good. But I still like my husband to praise and praise me. My father-in-law is like this. Even though my mother-in-law is so old, my father-in-law still likes to praise her in front of outsiders that she is as young and beautiful as his second daughter, just like the two sisters. In the past, I didn't understand how my father-in-law could say such lies. It must have been very uncomfortable for me to tell such lies. Really feel it now. That's art! My dad couldn't do it, so my dad got divorced. There shouldn't be so many truths in a marriage. She is good at running things and makes everyone happy. Her mother-in-law is very strong in doing housework and she doesn't want to be angry with her father-in-law and children. No matter how many lies she tells, it's worth it.

Men must be good at telling white lies, and women must be good at telling white lies. I'm just too straight and silly right now. People who are too straight in marriage are too stupid.

These are the lessons I learned through blood and tears. It is worth promoting well

I have to pass it on to my daughter in the future, so that she can be a better wife and a better daughter-in-law than me.

Often when a relationship is too real and vigorous, life after marriage will be uncomfortable unless she can change her mind in time and return to reality and rationality.