1. Those who are angry because of slander, the gap; The person who is happy at the sight of fame is coal. Really mature people will not easily show their true feelings in front of others, otherwise they will be easily used by people with ulterior motives. If a person hears some unreasonable slander from others, he can't hold his breath and is easily provoked and calculated by others; Then if we are complacent because we hear compliments from others, we will attract many flattering villains around us.

2. Responsibility is heavy and responsibility is light, and Fu works with accomplices; If you repay others and yourself, you can save lives. We often say that friends are more important than essence. So when we make friends, we must make a choice.

3. Human nature is good, learn from it; Everyone has evil, so avoid it. When we get along with others, the easiest and most effective way to get each other's good feelings is to do what he likes. Everyone has his own preferences, and we learn to satisfy one of our vanity according to others' wishes. We show disdain for what he doesn't like. As the saying goes, Birds of a feather flock to gather. When choosing friends, everyone will choose people with similar interests. In this way, we can quickly draw closer to each other.