Standing at 30, standing for what?

A 30-year-old person should be able to rely on his own skills and independently assume his own responsibilities, and has already determined his own life goals and development direction. In short, a 30-year-old can face everything calmly, which can be summarized as three aspects: starting a career and starting a family.

Standing, standing is to establish your own character and self-cultivation. I think it should include three aspects: ideological cultivation, moral cultivation and ability cultivation. Self-improvement is the foundation of our life. Don't pin your needs on the support of your parents and the help of others. That's a sign of weakness. Standing is the minimum requirement for everyone to stand in society.

Establishing a career is to establish what you are engaged in, and people in their thirties should have a relatively stable career. In every career, you must have skills, which is to have a skill in modern terms. This is a necessity to make a living. With the development of modern science and technology, the requirements for everyone in all aspects will be higher and higher. China's surplus labor force has intensified this excessive demand, which is only a special phenomenon in this special historical period. Establishing a career is not only a means of survival, but also a necessary condition for fulfilling social responsibilities.

Starting a family means having your own family. The fierce competition in today's society has delayed the time for young people to get married, but I still think it is not too early to get married at the age of 30. As for getting married or starting a career first, everyone's situation is different, and there is no need to distinguish which is the first and which is the last. Young people must take on social and family responsibilities, or earlier.

Standing at the age of 30 is the minimum requirement for young people, but the reality is far from our expectations, which is of course related to China people's doting on their children and employment pressure, which is also the characteristic of China!

Forty without confusion, what do you know?

Forty without doubt, forty without doubt. Forty-year-olds are chewing the changes of the times and feeling the ruthlessness of the years. It's been a long time After 40 years of doubt, hesitation, excitement and joy, this is meditation, but it is an epiphany ... less passion, more calm; Less impulsive, more calm; Less trouble, more reason; Less laissez-faire and more responsibility; Less blind obedience, more self.

A 40-year-old man is very rational and sober. Externally, he understands society. In his heart, he knows himself; For himself, he understands his responsibility. On the surface, he knows this society. People can't live without society. The more advanced society is, the more people will depend on it.

Forty-year-olds are no longer young, lack the illusion of society, and lack the passion to join the society urgently. The experience of life has somewhat worn away some passion and become more calm. Frustration made him understand that the relationship between people and society is the relationship between individuals and groups. The individual is a part of the group, and the individual can't control the group, so we must face it squarely. An individual's ideals and wishes must be based on the real society, otherwise it is a fantasy, and he will have the power to calmly deal with the outside world.

In his heart, he knows himself. So the so-called growth is to make the heart stronger through experience, and the so-called return to life is to turn external things into internal energy. Have ideals, not delusions; Have desires, but don't expect them; Do something, but do nothing. There is an ideal that I think should be there, but the key is to take care of it and practice it; You can have a wish, and the key is to be practical; Moderation is the key to success.

Forty years old is the most practical age. They have gone through half their lives, and there are fewer opportunities and opportunities. They should not make mistakes again and take detours.

For himself, he understands his responsibility. The greatest feature of a 40-year-old man is to understand his responsibilities. He must bear social responsibility, family responsibility and the responsibility of raising children.

First of all, he must do his job well, which is not only the need of survival, but also the contribution to society and the social responsibility he must fulfill. Only the efforts of every member of society can bring about the progress of the whole society. Secondly, a 40-year-old man, whose parents are old, must bear the family responsibility of supporting the elderly and do his best to be filial as soon as possible. Also, the children of 40-year-old people are in the learning stage. It is the responsibility of parents to cultivate and educate their children well, and it is also the social responsibility of social continuity and development.

A 40-year-old man is a glorious period of life, and also a period of greatest contribution to society and family.

At fifty, you know your destiny. What do you know?

Knowing destiny at fifty, China regarded heaven as a god in ancient philosophy, which can determine the fate of mankind. In Confucius' theory, there is still a view of destiny. Confucius knew the destiny at the age of fifty, and the destiny is what we are talking about today. He knows there must be something in life, but don't force what is not in life. Lotte knows that life doesn't force anything at all. At the age of 50, he understood this truth and everything was fine.

No matter whether this statement is right or not, no matter how many statements there are, I think fate is very simple, that is, what you should do and what kind of person you should become. To put it bluntly, it is a kind of outlook on life. Destiny, the will or command of heaven, extends to necessity or fate. Life has passed more than half, and the basic outline is faintly visible. Both knowledge, experience and self-control have reached the highest level, and the basic direction should remain unchanged.

At the age of 50, I know my destiny and don't complain; Know your life orientation, especially people; Know your unfinished responsibilities and never slack off. Know your destiny, don't complain. At the age of 30, most people's life trajectory is tortuous, but it is advancing by leaps and bounds. At the age of 40, the trajectory of life reached its peak, and it was relatively stable at the age of 50. If there are no special circumstances, it is difficult to have another big fluctuation.

Fifty-year-olds have spent most of their lives and are in the most sober stage of their lives. They will never complain about the injustice of heaven, but silently accept the existing reality. But also very clearly predict their future, will work and live very quietly.

It is especially important to know your life position. After more than 20 years of hard work, he has a career. No matter what his occupation is, after more than 20 years' efforts, his professional level, technical level, experience, decision-making ability and personal accomplishment have reached a very high level in his life, and he can be said to have certain strength. Economically, after more than 20 years of accumulation, there are also some financial resources.

Moreover, after more than 20 years of training and rich experience, I have improved my ability in all aspects. Although everyone's strength, financial resources and ability are different, their influence on society is not the same, but by the age of 50, these aspects should be said to be at a higher level. A 50-year-old man will never complain again. He knows his life orientation and is used to the role he should play.

Know your unfinished responsibilities and never slack off. Fifty-year-olds haven't reached retirement age, but it's not far away. At this time, everyone will think of continuing to work for ten years and fulfilling their social responsibilities. Fifty-year-old people, whose parents are old, often run around for the trivial things of the elderly because they have to fulfill their family responsibilities. Fifty-year-old people, their children are in a critical period of study and employment, and their children's future is often the most concerned and concerned thing. They must try their best to be good parents.

Every time a 50-year-old thinks about his unfinished responsibilities, he feels that time waits for no one, and he dare not slack off and make unremitting efforts to fulfill his due responsibilities.

Fifty-year-old people, in the most mature stage of life, success and glory bring happiness, but they are often accompanied by some pressure, but they can face it calmly because they know the society, but they know themselves better!

Sixty years old, what have you seen?

At the age of 60, although people say good things and bad things, they can listen, not be tempted or angry, and their hearts are still calm. Hu Shi said: Listening to the ear is tolerant of "unpleasant words", and listening to "unpleasant words" does not feel "unpleasant".

I think it is more important that people of this age can think calmly and not get excited no matter what they hear or encounter. Make your emotions conform to the objective environment, conform to the laws of things, learn not to be impatient, not to be discouraged, not to be sad, not to shrink back, and achieve a consistent situation.

In my opinion, the highest state of self-cultivation is to be able to control and grasp yourself. At the age of 60, it can be said that it has reached or approached this state. Sixty-year-olds see through life; Sixty-year-olds see through life; A 60-year-old man sees through fame and fortune.

A 60-year-old man sees through life. Life is divided into three periods: from birth to entering the society, that is, learning all kinds of knowledge, skills and life, until the age of twenty or so is a stage, which I call growth period. Work until retirement around the age of 20. These 40 years are the working stage, making contributions to society, family, providing for the aged and raising children, which I call the contribution period.

From retirement, from social role to family role, I call it harvest period. People who are 60 years old are willing to accept this reality when they understand this. They clearly know that people of every age should have the life that people of that age should have.

Sixty-year-olds see through life, life, life is life, and life determines and affects life. Therefore, it is most important for a 60-year-old to live a good life. A healthy and happy life can not only reduce the burden on children, but also contribute to society, at least reducing the consumption of medical resources. The meaning of life is that your contribution to society and others is greater than your demand for society and others. If you do it, you won't regret it.

A 60-year-old man sees through fame and fortune. At work, the role he plays in his career determines his social status.

After retirement, the corresponding role has changed, from social role to family role, and the original role has returned to society accordingly. For example, what is your director, section chief, director, engineer, teacher and doctor when you retire? You are called a retiree. As for profit, your retirement pension is bound to be less than your salary in the post. Just arrange your life according to your income. No matter how much property you have, you will leave it to your children when you die.

Only your body is your own. If you are ill, no one else can take your place. If you are healthy and happy, others can't control you. A 60-year-old man has experienced years of polishing, twists and turns and setbacks, leaving only the footprints of his life, but what he has achieved is his rich experience, cultivation and accomplishment.

A 60-year-old man is in the late autumn of life. His pace of life is very slow, but he can savor life, appreciate all kinds of scenery during the journey, enjoy the sense of accomplishment after providing himself with hard work for the society, enjoy a carefree and relaxed life, and enjoy the unique feeling brought by bittersweet memories. A 60-year-old man is the late autumn of life, but only the late autumn has its unique style!

How should I do what I really want to do?

Seventy do what you want from the heart. It's very simple, that is, obey your own ideas and do whatever you want. But the last three words don't cross the line, don't violate the rules, which is very important. So, what should I do? I think it should be a heartfelt desire to let nature take its course; Be happy with what you want; Do you want to do it or not?

Let nature take its course and do whatever it pleases. I don't complain about the outside world, I don't care about the pension, I don't care whether the children come often, and I don't have high requirements for material life. As long as I can eat well, I can't live in a house. If you are interested in yourself, do it. You don't care about other people's opinions, don't panic about the aging of your body, don't fear death, and everything goes with the flow.

Everything goes with the times, face all kinds of life experiences calmly, meet happy things, don't get too excited, meet sad things, and get rid of sadness as soon as possible. When you are frustrated, you don't care, and you can even face the pain of the disease calmly and bear it silently. In short, no matter what happens, we must maintain a calm and stable psychological state.

If you do what you want from the heart, you don't care about anything. If you don't do it, you have to follow the rules. What rules should you follow? I think it's three-character reasoning. Generally speaking, no one will do anything illegal. We should pay attention to how to be reasonable. Be more reasonable to old comrades, classmates and friends, and to the family. Even in the family, we should only be reasonable. There is nothing right or wrong. The old couple will spend the rest of their lives together healthily, which is happiness.

As long as it is reasonable, you can do whatever you want, as long as you are interested, as long as you are happy, as long as you are happy. Some people say that a 60-year-old man is the same as an official, and a 70-year-old man has money but no money. There is some truth in this. After the age of 70, everyone is the same, pursuing good health, which is the basic condition to ensure the quality of life. Not pursuing longevity, pursuing high-quality life, high-quality life, is the most perfect life.

People are in middle age, and seventy years old is also part of the journey of life. The first seventy years have already passed, and after seventy, it is a new starting point. Always put yourself on the journey of life, you will feel that there is plenty of time ahead, you will not sigh that you are old and weak, and you will be very happy every day. Looking ahead, there will always be new life content and new happiness in a new day, and you will see a kind of hope and yearning for life, and remember the beauty of future life.