Ambition, perseverance, expertise, familiarity
Yu, tranquility, lightness, leisure
Looseness, clarity, solidity, hardness
Frugality , respect, honesty, diligence
caution, loyalty, benevolence, sincerity
respect, forgiveness, harmony, modesty
support, spicy, change, regret
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Patience, fate, smoothness, expansion
Hun, forbearance, retreat, ambition:
Be the first-class person in life
Life It starts with determination. Without determination, nothing can be accomplished in the world. If one can resolve, nothing can be accomplished by sages and heroes.
No matter whether Chiang Kai-shek or the Prime Minister has no bells, nor the sages and heroes, as long as people are determined, they can all achieve it.
Persistence:
Everything can be accomplished in a horizontal way
The first is persistence, the second is concentration, and the third is gradualness.
Be persistent in your cultivation.
Expert:
Use your strength in ideas.
The reason why Western skills are outstanding in ancient and modern times is that they deal with every matter carefully and never stop until the goal is achieved.
The more you use your mind, the more clever you will be, and the more you push your skills, the more skillful you will be.
Maturity:
Foolish efforts can also yield great rewards
Maturity comes from diligence, and maturity leads to refinement.
Yu:
Let yourself be open-minded.
To treat the heart, the word "guangda" should be used as medicine.
The size of the situation is too small, not enough to handle the world's major events.
The sea is open to all rivers, and it is great to have tolerance, to have a broad mind, and to have a grand spirit.
Just laugh it off.
Quiet:
Standing still allows you to take the initiative.
Sit quietly, practice self-denial, and sit quietly to reflect.
Silence can bring life to life, and it can even brake.
Without tranquility, there is no learning. Without learning, there is no talent. Tranquility has reached far.
People give me the first blow, I give you the second blow.
Dan:
The true meaning of a good life.
If you think of yourself as ordinary, you will become a great person.
It’s up to people to plan things, and it’s up to God to make things happen.
Manage your life without seeking wealth, study without seeking office, cultivate virtue without seeking reward, be able to write without seeking fame.
Free time:
Leave a little bit of freedom to accommodate big things.
The rhythm of the movement of things should be relaxed and relaxed.
Xiaomou: The more the core character is in danger, the more he must get rid of the pessimistic mentality of fear, calm down, and calm down the people with four ounces of weight.
Song:
You can’t scratch your eyebrows and beard.
Relaxing mentally is the highest state of Song Zi Jue.
Work hard on big things and relax on small things.
Financial management: The more you come, the more you sell.
Part Three: The Secret to Shaping an Image:
Brightness:
The brighter the eyes, the brighter the heart.
Whenever you do big things, knowledge should be the main thing, and talents can be the supplement.
It is important for people to know themselves, and self-knowledge leads to enlightenment.
Understand the righteousness deeply and understand the general principles.
Those who are in charge of the affairs of the world are confused, but the onlookers are clear. It is easy to be dark beforehand, but easy to be clear afterward.
Talents are cultivated and born through hard work.
The only way to do things is to employ people. To employ people, you must know people first and know their ways. You must look at them several times and observe them personally before you can get a general idea.
From modesty, diligence leads to wisdom.
The five arrivals are: arrival of body, arrival of heart, arrival of eyes, arrival of hands, and arrival of mouth.
Those with more than four: see more, do more, ask more, and think more.
True:
The word "serious" rules the world.
Keep your feet on the ground, start from the shallow and practical, and your career will be prosperous and long-lasting.
Only by taking simplicity as the foundation, cultivating the foundation, and then talking about contingency, can we be safe.
Hire people should be simple and reliable people. For those who achieve great things, if they are not careful, they will definitely fail.
When dealing with the world, we should look at the big picture and start small. Nothing can be achieved at once, it must go through a process of continuous accumulation, from small to large.
It is better to know ten things about the world than to do seven points.
Hard:
A true hero never gives up.
As long as the ambition is high and strong, softness can be turned into hardness.
I only concentrate on doing one day's work, and I don't care about success or failure.
There are very few people who achieve success by doing nothing in the world, half of them are those who achieve it through greed and gain, and only half are those who achieve it through motivation and coercion.
How can things in the world go as everyone wants? Those who have achieved great things in ancient times have done so partly through fate and partly through forced accommodation.
People value self-improvement, and it is better to seek for yourself than to seek for others.
In times of crisis, only oneself can be relied upon, and none can be relied upon on others.
The word "hard" contains not only perseverance and hard work, but also the meaning of bearing humiliation and bearing heavy burdens.
Frugality:
Good things must be used sparingly.
For the ruler of a country, if one person is frugal, it will be effective up and down, and the whole country will be frugal. In this way, the country will have sufficient supplies and the national strength will become stronger.
If you are frugal, you will be self-respecting and self-reliant, and will not ask for help from others.
If you manage your family frugally, your family business will prosper and never fall.
If you are an official with frugality, you will use frugality to support your integrity, and you will be undefeated.
The failures of state-owned families have all been caused by pride and extravagance.
It is easy to go from frugality to luxury, but it is difficult to go back from luxury to frugality.
The children of all aristocratic families have the same clothing, food, and daily life as those of poor people, and they can become great talents.
To quit spending money, you need to start from the beginning, instead of waiting for it to become a habit and then change it, which is extremely difficult.
Heavy:
Steady and calm, can handle big things.
A gentleman will not be powerful if he is not serious.
"Be neat and serious" is the fundamental content of the word "Chong"
Act steadily and win without losing.
In battle, do not rush or rush. Seek stability first and change second.
Thickness is a valuable aspect and should not be used by frivolous people.
The correctness depends on the eyes and nose, the true and false depends on the lips, the fame depends on the style, the wealth depends on the spirit, the intention depends on the fingers and claws, the storm depends on the feet, if you want to look at the order, it is all in the language, appearance and conversation are related. combine.
Integrity:
The talisman of protecting officials.
Practice, diligence, and prudence are the three lessons for an official.
If you remain honest, you will be able to convince the public.
People die for money, less greed leads to less disaster.
Those who do great things cannot be incorruptible.
The only way to maintain integrity is to be frugal.
Diligence:
Diligence is the most important thing in life.
Diligence is the first duty of an official.
From how diligent a person is, you can predict how much he can accomplish.
The way to be diligent is to use only ten percent of your energy, and only use ten percent of your power.
Those who do great things must be ambitious on the inside and win the hearts of the people on the outside.
Diligence brings wisdom.
Read thousands of books and travel thousands of miles in parallel.
The rise and fall of a family and the failure of a person are all due to diligence and laziness.
Mediocre people in the world, both ancient and modern, are all defeated by one word of laziness.
All the talented people in the world, ancient and modern, are defeated by the word "arrogance".
Excessive diligence will be counterproductive.
Prudent:
The more cautious you are, the more likely you are to win.
If you err on the side of caution and become less and less courageous, you may not be able to accomplish anything.
Be cautious and remain undefeated.
The word shen means to be afraid. If you are afraid, you will be serious and meticulous in doing things, and you must think carefully before acting.
If you are fearful, you will never be complacent and proud at any time, and you will not be defeated by arrogance.
The only way to stay in a high position and remain undefeated is to be humble and cautious.
Misfortune comes from the mouth, so be careful when speaking.
The harm of talking too much: it is easy to offend others, easy to be arrogant, easy to bully, and easy to lose.
No more words, more words will lead to failure, no more troubles, more troubles will lead to troubles.
Use prudence to control arrogance and remain invincible.
The word "diligence" is why doctors are lazy, and the word "caution" is why doctors are arrogant.
Loyalty:
To do big things, you need to establish a good brand.
Be loyal in everything you do, and do your work as your own business.
The word "loyalty" is the only way to be promoted and promoted, and it is also the only way to be famous throughout history.
Jen:
Seize the hearts of the people.
It is better to use kindness than benevolence, and to use power more than courtesy.
It is benevolence to treat oneself as well as others and think more of others.
To establish your own prestige, you must dress others down.
The most important thing in using troops is to win people's hearts.
Leading soldiers is like a father and a brother taking care of his children. This is the most kind and appropriate saying.
To be benevolent, you must always pay attention to your words and deeds and comply with the requirements of etiquette.
Relieving victims is a benevolent skill.
Sincerity:
If you do not keep your word, it is worthless.
No matter whether you are diligent or cautious, you must be sincere in order to be useful.
Sincerity and no deception, heroic foundation.
Sincerity, single-mindedness, and no deception.
Disasters arise from suspicion, which is a common problem in ancient and modern times.
Ask for it with sincerity and deal with it with an open mind.
Exchange sincerity for sincerity, no one will be dishonest.
A single slip of the tongue can lead to distrust from others.
Even if a few people are not sincere to themselves, they will eventually be condemned by public opinion and wake up.
I despise the way of using military force. The most important thing is to be self-reliant, not to ask for help. The most important way to drive a general is sincerity, not power.
Respect:
Winning room for improvement.
Only by respecting yourself can you have self-esteem, only by respecting your relatives can you keep your family together, only by respecting others can you make others respect yourself, and only by being dedicated can you have a successful career.
If you want others to respect you, you must first respect yourself.
When we read, we only respect the characters. The two ends of the characters are constant, which is the work from beginning to end.
Driven by insufficiency, we constantly strive to reach higher levels.
The wise should be respected and respected, while the unworthy should be respected and kept at a distance.
Forgive:
It is better to think more about good people than to think more about bad people.
With forgiveness, there is a strong personality cohesion, which is like a snowball, growing bigger and bigger.
If you want to establish yourself, you can establish others; if you want to achieve yourself, you can achieve others. Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you.
Love others with love for yourself. In interpersonal communication, you should recognize and respect each other's personality differences, seek common ground, put aside minor differences, and treat others with tolerance.
Forgive, ask for leniency in treating others, do not seek perfection and blame, but look more at the strengths of others.
Forgive me, but look further ahead and be broad-minded.
Make concessions in everything, leave room for others, and make it convenient for yourself.
Tolerate people’s shortcomings and be kind to them.
The beauty of adults is not the evil of adults.
Repay evil with kindness and turn enemies into friends.
Whether you are bullied or not depends on who you are.
Being harsh to others will bring disaster, but being forgiving can avoid disaster.
Harmony:
Harmony can create power, use harmony to build team spirit.
The sum of the concerted efforts of a collective or team is the basis for success.
If there is disharmony, private hatred will not enter the public domain.
Peace is not about making do. You cannot give up your principles for the sake of peace. Be a good teacher.
Teaching by words is not as good as teaching by example.
Modesty:
A gentleman is more generous than others, only in his humility.
The essence of modesty is to humble oneself and others, to regard oneself as insufficient, to never be self-sufficient, to always leave room for oneself to pursue, and to keep making progress.
Humility is the foundation of all good things, and arrogance is the chief of all evils.
Humility is used to maintain self-control, and strictness is used to drive down.
Humility is a life strategy of retreating in order to advance.
The world’s endless progress is often expressed in terms of not being self-sufficient.
When you are successful, I sincerely respect "the flowers are not fully blooming and the moon is not full".
Modesty also has moderation, but excessive modesty is close to hypocrisy.
Modesty originally respects others, and ultimately gains great respect from others.
Humility should be based on facts and should not belittle oneself too much.
Don’t be too modest. If you are too modest, you will have no reverence.
The way to prevent being overly modest is to correct it with the words truthfulness and sincerity.
Stand up:
With perseverance and support, you can build extraordinary achievements.
Only by stepping up to the plate and taking responsibility can you hope to achieve success.
Since ancient times, outsiders have discussed things without understanding the difficulties in the situation.
Whether you can win anything in this world depends on whether you can hold on. In critical moments, you must persevere.
Spicy:
Don’t miss important things because of kindness.
The essence is simple and effective, clean and neat.
Taking strictness as a teacher, if you want to correct others, you must first correct yourself.
Be cautious.
When something goes wrong, don’t blame others, but first look for the cause within yourself and see if you have any faults. It is commendable to be strict with yourself and to be lenient towards others.
Ruling a family requires strictness, and a strict father has many filial sons.
Think carefully about the way to govern. Pay equal attention to winning people and managing affairs. There are no more than four things to win people: recruit widely, use with caution, teach diligently, and be strict.
For those who are responsible, Shang Yang’s method of erecting a tree is like Sun Tzu’s method of beheading a beautiful woman. The saying is that a thousand pieces of gold are in front and a tiger is behind.
When praising a person, it should be done in public, while criticism should be done alone in private.
Change:
Those who achieve great things should make timely changes.
The shape of a soldier is like water. The shape of water avoids heights and tends to go down. The shape of soldiers avoids reality and hits the weak.
The ancients used troops, and the most expensive thing was that they were unpredictable.
Be careful of changes, I change easily because of small benefits and small harms.
The way to a high position is not to fight, not to end, and not to win.
The right way to achieve success is to accumulate time and money, and to rely on ingenious strategies for success. God helps me, and there are few people who do not fail.
Repent:
Don’t be afraid to expose your shortcomings.
Regret, fill in the gaps with knowledge.
The word regret and the word modesty are related to each other, which means observing and correcting one's shortcomings with an open-minded attitude.
Self-knowledge is better than self-knowledge. This is the origin of the word regret.
Associate more with people who hate you, because they are the most sensitive to your faults and can criticize them mercilessly.
Zeng Guofan’s two regrets: controlling anger and eliminating taboos.
Change your mistakes and adjust your life with regret.
Knowing that the land is big and the place I live in is small, when encountering a situation where glory and wealth are competing for wonders, I should give in to the other side. I know that things are changing a lot but I live in a small place, so I don’t dare to rely on my reputation to hold on to myself. , but when you think about promoting talents, you should try to attract them.
Knowing that the world is wide, but being greedy makes the universe narrow.
Patience:
Persistence will lead to victory.
Life is often full of unsatisfactory things. How can you live without patience?
Zeng Guofan divided the word "patience" into: tolerance to cold, tolerance to hardship, tolerance to hard work, tolerance to leisure.
When encountering difficult things, you must be calm, composed, and steady.
Knowledge comes from the accumulation bit by bit. It cannot be obtained quickly, it must be like a foolish old man moving mountains.
Slow down:
Slow down is the way to go. It is better to take things slowly.
Zeng Guofan did not seek quick results when doing things, nor did he want to make quick progress in running the army.
Zeng Guofan likes to consider the long term and seek success in stability.
Slip:
Do what you don’t want to do.
It is easy to feel the charm of the charm, but it is also difficult to feel the mystery of the enlightened person.
From slippery to evil, this is the way to bring about disaster.
Exhibition:
Turn big things into small things.
Put aside difficult things and wait for the best time to solve them to make them more complete.
Big things are reduced to small things, small things are reduced to small things.
Hun:
From smart to confused.
Hide your front and look for traces, but don’t reveal it too much, so as not to attract people’s jealousy. Don’t do things with sharp edges and corners, but leave enough room to make it convenient for others and yourself.
To be exposed but not muddy is an abomination from heaven.
There are three evils in the way of heaven: the way of heaven is jealous of cleverness, the way of heaven is jealous of surplus, and the way of heaven is jealous of errand.
Qiao: It means fraud.
Ying: It means being complacent and doing things too much.
Two: Capricious and dishonest.
It is ominous to see fish in the abyss.
With his sharp edge, he is envied by those in power and also by his colleagues. The former is worried about someone competing for power, and the latter is jealous.
The meaning cannot be exhausted, and the potential cannot be exhausted.
The word "hundred" means to converge talents, accumulate talents, and then reveal talents.
It’s not just about concealing one’s talent without revealing it. If a person’s talent is not revealed, no one will know about it, and it will probably be wasted. The problem is to seize the opportunity and know when to reveal it and to what extent. Everything varies depending on the situation, but one thing is clear. Under normal circumstances, you should not reveal it, and you should not reveal the whole story at once.
Forbearance:
Only when you can endure others can you defeat others.
The first meaning of the word “forbearance” is: it requires strong self-control. This is the cultivation of forbearance.
The second meaning of the word "forbearance": To be tolerant of others, to be forgiving to others and to be tolerant of oneself, this is to be tolerant in dealing with things.
The third meaning of the word "forbearance": requires the perseverance to never give up until the goal is achieved, and to sacrifice everything to achieve the goal. This is tactical forbearance.
The fourth meaning of the word "forbearance": when it is cut off, it will be cut off without leaving any future troubles.
Endure the tension and take a step back to open up the world.
As an official, the first priority is to be patient and patient, and the second priority is to be harmonious.
Being proud and talking too much are two evils.
Tolerance is to take advantage of the situation. When you are proud, you must think about the disappointment. When you advance, you must consider your retreat.
The power of tolerance is beneficial to others and convenient to oneself.
Perseverance to endure: To endure till the end is the real skill.
Back:
One step back, two steps forward.
Retreat bravely from the rapids to save the end.
I always think of the prosperous times and the bad times, and think of the coming of the game as the ending of the game.
What goes up must come down, and we must plan for it in advance.
Don’t be happy when you get it, don’t be sad when you lose it.
Retreating from the rapids requires the person involved to be willing to give up the temptation of fame and fortune and settle for a simple and quiet life. It also requires the person involved to find a good place for themselves before retreating and prepare for a rainy day.
Circle:
You might as well make a few more circles.
Those who stand strong will work hard to become stronger and can stand firm.
A master can do things smoothly and effectively.
It is not enough to treat others with sincerity. Showing sincerity is the most important thing.
When writing, you need to be smooth first, and then you need to be quick.
Pay attention to the word "Yi" in your behavior, and the word "Yuan" in your writing.