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People who live in this world are most afraid of not being poor, not being unfaithful to others, but the disillusionment of hope and self-abandonment. Life can't be smooth from beginning to end. In times of adversity, some people cry for the land and beat their chests; Some people flinch and sit still; Some people will adjust their mentality in time and try their best to find various ways out of the predicament. Your emotional intelligence determines how wide you can go; Your adversity EQ determines how tough you are and how far you can go.
The road is at your feet, the dream is in your heart, so go ahead. Maybe the bright future is another village, maybe it is already a cliff. What should I do if I find there is no way out in front? Is it desperate to jump off a cliff? Or go back the same way? Or find another way?
? Wang Wei, a great poet, said, "If you are poor in water, you will sit and watch Yun Qi." ? When Su Shi was in adversity in the Song Dynasty, he was equally harmonious. He said, "Why don't you sing slowly when you don't listen to the beating of leaves in the forest?" ? Tao Yuanming of the Eastern Jin Dynasty believes that a sudden bottle of wine will lead to a stalemate in happiness.
Life is really hard, and smart people know how to find pleasure in it.
/kloc-Romain rolland, a western writer in the 20th century, once said: There is only one kind of heroism in the world, and that is to love life after seeing the truth of life clearly. A true hero has both the courage to escape death and the calmness to face it. No matter what the situation, you can discover, create and enjoy the beauty of nature and life.
Even if the mountains are high and the water is far away, even if bad luck comes in the future, you can still have a calm heart. You should eat and sleep. Feel refreshed and calm, open your eyes and find all the beauty in life. All good things need to be discovered by ourselves; All happiness needs to be experienced by yourself. May everyone in the world have a peaceful heart and experience happiness. May everyone in the world have a pair of eyes and discover beauty.
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Now, being yourself has become a popular saying. Some people don't know what a truly valuable life is like. Therefore, in the secular world, flies breed dogs. Some people have a blueprint for their ideal life, but they can't let go and live in the world. Only a few people have the courage to listen to their inner voice, live the life they want and be themselves.
Tao Yuanming was once a teenager and had the ambition to learn from the country. In his twenties, he started his official career. He was the staff of Huan Xuan, a general in the Eastern Jin Dynasty, and joined the army of Liu Yu, the founding emperor of Liu Song in the Southern Dynasties. He served as a state sommelier, master book and other positions, and soon resigned and went home. At the age of 40, Tao Yuanming became an official for the last time and served as Peng's official position. After 80 days in office, his sister's death made him think deeply about life and life and death. He resigned from his post, completely retired from the countryside and began to live an idyllic life. Then he wrote the famous "Hui Xi Word".
Be yourself, do not rely on any power, and live on your own. Don't forget your innovative spirit, live without losing his nature, even if he walks alone in the world, he will stick to it.
? To be yourself, you must first recognize yourself. Just like Tao Yuanming, he knows that he is a Houshan person who "studied Confucian classics since childhood, loved leisure, read good deeds, cherished solitary thoughts, loved hills, and aspired to different customs". He has strayed into the dust net for decades, never to return and never to look back.
? Schopenhauer has a famous saying: Either lonely or vulgar. Nine times out of ten great men in history are lonely. At the same time, it is also because they know what they want. After decades of life, looking back, everyone will have some regrets. If there is one thing you won't regret, it is to be yourself and live with your heart.
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Always compete with peers, not fools.
We often say that there is no absolute thing in the world. The so-called black and white, right and wrong, good and bad, right and wrong, success and failure and so on. , are relative, are based on some kind of judgment standard. As time goes by, it is customary, so there is a thinking logic such as "everyone thinks so" and "it has always been like this". For ordinary people, there has never been such a thing that must be right. In other words, it is right, because it has always existed like this. Superstition, conformity and blindly following the trend are the chronic diseases of China people, and conformity is also a common disease. Independent thinking is always the most valuable ability.
? Before Ruan, the movie star of the Republic of China, committed suicide, she wrote the words "shocking the world" on her suicide note. Because of the entanglement of personal feelings, she was spurned by public opinion. She must have deeply realized what it is like to drown people with saliva. In fact, many people who scold her simply don't know the truth. It's just that "everyone" is insulting her, so there must be something wrong with her.
In the secular world, some evil things are justified blindly by most people, as if they were right. The custom of blindly following the trend has become unbearable. The evil produced in this custom is a terrible social atmosphere.
? There are thousands of stops, but who knows right or wrong,
? Contrast between right and wrong, and ruin the reputation.
? It has been more than three seasons, but Dashi seems to be out of place.
? In the vulgar, and when from Huang Qi.
Different people have different opinions. It doesn't matter who is right or wrong. As long as you listen to your inner voice, discover and enjoy the beauty in nature and life, and live happily as you please, you are likely to lose your life.