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1. Words have incredible power. They can bring about the greatest happiness and the deepest disappointment; they can transfer knowledge from teacher to student; words can enable the speaker to sway his audience and force decisions on their behalf. Words can arouse the strongest emotions and promote all human actions. Don't laugh at the power of words in psychotherapy.

2. People either do not believe in their own death at all, or they are unconsciously convinced that they will not die.

3. Life is like playing chess. If you make one mistake, you will lose everything. This is a sad thing; and life is not as good as playing chess. You cannot play another game or regret it.

4. If a science wants to contribute to human knowledge, it does not need to be admired by others. Believe it or not, it depends on the results. It can wait patiently to use its research results to attract everyone's attention.

5. Life is like playing chess. If you make one mistake, you will lose everything. This is a sad thing; and life is not as good as playing chess. You cannot play another game or regret it.

6. "If we can transform hysterical pain into ordinary unhappiness, the gains will be considerable."

7. There are two reasons why we are not rattlesnakes. First, neither of our parents are, and second, we do not live in the middle of the desert. (The formation of human beings: genes and environment) Source: Dream Analysis

8. Everyone has an instinctive energy storage of violation. In the storage, the total amount of violation energy is fixed. It always has to be expressed in some way so that the aggressive drives within the individual are weakened.

9. Where the self was in the past, the self should be.

10. Any person with sound senses must know that he cannot keep secrets. If his lips are closed, his fingertips will speak; even every pore of his body will betray him.

11. I firmly believe that human civilization was created at the expense of primitive instincts.

12. Life is like chess, if you make one mistake, you will lose everything.

13. The human body is destiny.

14. A firm belief in success often leads to real success.

15. In the human subconscious, human sexual desire has always been suppressed. Civilized rules such as social morals and laws keep people's instinctive desires under rational control at all times.

16. Dreams are the fulfillment of wishes.

17. Any religion, even one that claims to be philanthropic, must be ruthless towards those who do not belong to it.

18. Ignorance is ignorance, no one has the right to believe that it can derive anything

19. Emotional impulses are closer to desire impulses based on sexual instinct.

20. The voice of reason is soft, but it will never stop until it is heard.

21. Everyone has the desire to suck.

22. Abstinence is harmful to the body. In severe cases, both men and women may develop neurotic symptoms, such as insomnia, loss of appetite, withdrawn personality, prone to unexplained anger, etc. This is a manifestation of sexual depression.

23. Your eyes are tired, tired, close your eyes.

24. A child who is pampered in his mother's arms will maintain a desire to conquer throughout his life, and that kind of successful self-confidence often brings real success. The id is the horse and the ego is the coachman. The horse is the driving force, and the coachman guides the horse. The ego wants to control the ego, but the horse may be disobedient, and the two will be in a stalemate until one party surrenders.

25. There is no such thing as a slip of the tongue; all slips of the tongue are true expressions of subconsciousness; when you look down on someone, this contempt must be felt by the other person, then he/she will Will do something to defend themselves.

26. When you make small decisions, you should rely on your brain to list the pros and cons, analyze and make the right decision; when you make big decisions, such as finding a lifelong partner or looking for your ideal , you should rely on your subconscious mind, because such an important decision must be based on the greatest needs deep in your soul.

27. No one without reason can accept reason.

28. Man is an imbecile and mentally retarded creature dominated by instinctive desires.

29. Jealousy is an emotional state that, like sadness, can be considered normal.

30. The only important things in life are love and work.

31. Biology is destiny.

32. There is no such thing as a joke, all jokes have serious elements.

33. Human beings are born with a "patriricide complex". From birth, he is destined to fight against his father in order to get rid of being ruled and dominated, fight for the right to independence and freedom, and then control the family. leadership and social initiative.

34. In any case, love is everyone’s birthright. This is understandable. What I want to talk about here is modern people’s view of love, especially modern young people. concept of love.

35. I can't think of a stronger need for children than to be protected by their father.

36. The human world is a tragedy.

37. Mentally healthy people always work hard and love others. As long as they can do these two things, there will be no difficulty in other things.

38. The days of youth are still very long, but you have nothing to do today. Suddenly one day you find that ten years have passed and no one told you when to start. Oh, you missed the starting gun. Plans always end up being reduced to nothing, or to that hasty half page. To live in quiet desperation is the British way. Time has passed and the song has ended, but I always feel that I still have something to say.

39. Don’t understand women, because women are crazy.

40. Id, Ego and Superego

41. No mortal can hide his personal feelings. Although his mouth can remain silent, his fingers will be talkative.

42. Not everyone can have a humorous attitude. It is a rare gift, and many people are not even capable of enjoying the pleasures presented to them.

43. Women are insufferable and a source of eternal trouble, but they are still the best thing of their kind that we have. Without them, the situation would be worse.

44. There are two tragedies in life: one is not getting what you love; the other is getting what you love. There are two great joys in life: one is not getting what you love, so you can seek and create; the other is getting what you love, so you can taste and experience it.

45. Moral sense is an integral part of people’s unique qualities.

46. Happiness is by no means a cultural value standard.

47. Jokes give us pleasure by transforming a conscious process full of energy and tension into a relaxed unconscious process.

48. Great discoverers are not necessarily great men. Who changed the world more than Columbus? Who is he? An adventurer, he has character, it is true, but he is not a great man.

49. For a boy, he has an exclusive possessive desire for his mother in his subconscious. Once anyone, including his father, poses a threat to him, he will feel hatred and even want to kill him. Drop them.

50. Conscience is an inner feeling, a resistance to some abnormal desire that is restless in our body.

51. Most people do not really want freedom, because freedom involves responsibility, and most people are frightened of responsibility. Fear of responsibility. Source: Civilization and Its Shortcomings

52. The "revealed content" of dreams is related to recent experiences, while the "hidden content" is related to early childhood experiences. Compared with recent experience, the impact of childhood experience is much deeper. Source: Dream Interpretation Chapter 5 Childhood Experience

53. Artists never need to be prisoners of themselves, style, or reputation. Prisoners of great wealth.

54. The human heart desires both life and death. We chase light as well as darkness. We long for love, but sometimes we waste the love we have in an almost self-destructive manner.

It seems that there is always a deserted night land in people's hearts, leaving the dark and lonely self.

55. We all try our best to avoid pain, but do not work hard to obtain happiness.

56. Freud, the master of psychology, also said that the most important things in life are work and love. For work and love, you must control your desires to avoid hurting the most important things and people in life. There are two things you should never want in life: money you shouldn’t get and feelings you shouldn’t want.

57. The unpleasant nature of dreams is closely related to the disguise of dreams. Just because reason (or consciousness) has a strong aversion to the themes and desires of dreams and tries to suppress them, the content of desires has to be disguised. The disguise of dreams is actually the result of the censorship of dreams. Therefore, we might as well define it this way - a dream is the (pretended) satisfaction of a (suppressed or repressed) desire. Source: Analysis of Dreams - Manifestation of Dreams: Disguise

58. Some content makes the second power feel pain and at the same time satisfies the desire of the first power. This content will be reflected as Painful dreams. This also answers the question "Why do painful dreams also reflect the satisfaction of desires?" Source: Dream Analysis - Dream Expression: Disguise

59. The goal of all life is death. Source: Beyond the Pleasure Principle

60. Human ego has suffered three major blows from science. Once, Copernicus proposed the "heliocentric theory", which let us know that the earth is not the center of the universe. The second time was when Darwin founded the "theory of evolution", which proved that we humans are only one of the species in the animal kingdom and evolved from lower organisms. The third is psychoanalysis, which tells us that even we ourselves sometimes cannot be our own masters.

61. The "evil" in this world not only exists inside people, but also outside people. The misfortune of patients cured by psychoanalysis is just the general misfortune introduced into life.

62. Every dream originates from the first force (desire), but is defended and resisted by the second force (consciousness). Source: Dream Analysis

63 , The id is the horse, and the ego is the coachman. The horse is the driving force, and the coachman guides the horse. The ego wants to control the ego, but the horse may be disobedient, and the two will be in a stalemate until one party surrenders.

64. Night dreams are the fulfillment of wishes; daydreams are fantasies and the fulfillment of wishes.

65. The more frivolous and dissolute a woman is, the more she will drive a man crazy with love. Falling in love with this kind of woman often makes them intoxicated and unable to extricate themselves. But once they fall in love, they are required to be loyal to them.

66. A woman should make a man gentle, but not make him weak.

67. Even dreams with painful content can be explained by the satisfaction of desires. The interpretation of this type of dream will definitely involve a lot of things that we don’t want to talk about or think about. Everyone has some privacy that they are unwilling to tell others, or even admit to themselves. But if it appears in a dream, it is definitely not just a coincidence. The painful feelings evoked in dreams are designed to prevent us from mentioning or discussing those painful things. Source: Dream Analysis - Dream Expression: Disguise

68. The unconscious is the real "spiritual essence". Source: Interpretation of Dreams

69. Worship is transformed from taboos. (Totem)

70. Human beings spend nearly one-third of their lives sleeping. We don't want to be in the world, so our relationship with it can only be tolerated by being isolated from time to time. Therefore, we regularly revert to the life before birth or in the womb, and want to repeat similar characteristics of this life, such as warmth, darkness, and passionate retreat. Some people also curl up like a ball - similar to the position in the womb. It seems that only two-thirds of us belong to this world, and one-third is not yet born.

71. Dreams are like the liar, and the dreamer himself is the king

72. Disdain. It has become a normal and common way of life.

73. I would rather let myself be disappointed than have extravagant hopes. Source: Dream Analysis

74. Civilization means repression. We need to obey and satisfy our instincts, and there is a conflict between the two.

75. Being radically honest with yourself is a good practice.

76. Childhood impulses still exist in our dreams.

It can even be said that the desires and desire satisfaction shown in our dreams come from childhood sources: Dream Analysis Chapter 5 Childhood Experience

77. Everyone is a slave of emotions.

78. The process from the emergence of a new science and technology to its contribution to mankind is not a process of forcing others to believe it, but a process of gradually showing its own charm and using its research results. Get people's attention.

79. Human actions are not done without reason.

80. Freud said, "love and work. Work and love. That's all there is." Freud said, love and life are all there is to life. Source: Intern

81. We always control ourselves in order to maintain our purity... This constant suppression of natural instinct gives us a certain elegance.

82. When sleeping, when the mind faces external stimulation, it either ignores it, uses dreams to deny its existence, or "weaves vivid lies" to continue sleeping as long as possible. Therefore, we can regard "the desire to sleep" as one of the motives of dreams, and every dream is the source of the satisfaction of this desire: Dream Analysis Chapter 5 Somatic Stimulation Experience

83. The mind is the place where opposites duel and compete. Or to express it in non-dynamic terms, it is organized by opposite tendencies. The emergence of a particular tendency does not at all exclude the existence of its opposite tendency: both can coexist. No matter how much you love simplicity, you can't deny the authenticity of this complexity.