Be bold

I went to a friend’s birthday party and I immediately fell in love with this man. He had a deep eye and understood my sense of humor. At the end of the party, I asked him to take me home. In the car, I pretended to casually put my hand on his hand that was holding the gear knob. We were silent all the way, and then I got home, and I took the initiative to kiss his cheek at the door of my house... Later he told me that he was relieved that I took the initiative to pursue him - he didn't dare to do that, and I His actions brought a huge shock to his soul. ——Lei Jie, 29 years old, stewardess

COSMO expert comments: Women at this time are as sharp-eyed and quick-handed as fishermen holding harpoons, showing no mercy. When faced with a hesitant man, the simplest approach is the most effective. Some men give in immediately, secretly glad that you made the decision for them. But there are also disadvantages, that is, when you adopt a man's approach, you will scare away other men.

Men’s perspective: We are not interested in a woman who flirts like a man because we think she is having a romantic relationship with a man. We like women to take the initiative, but in a more subtle way. A woman who orders us to lie down will scare us away. Girls, can you be gentle?

·Seduce men with sexiness

My secret recipe is: long hair, short skirts, champagne and enchanted eyes. I usually only wear business attire in the office. One night, I went to a bar with my colleagues. Among them was a man whom I had a crush on for a long time but had never confessed my love to him. That night I wore a short skirt and thigh-high boots, with my usually neatly combed hair down. When he asked me to dance, I leaned against his chest and let my hair brush his face - and from then on I became his permanent dance partner. ——Xu Ping, employee of a foreign company

COSMO expert comments: This method is suitable for women who are very confident in their appearance, figure and bust. Men will not pursue women who smoke cigarettes and discuss investment issues with them. Don't believe what they say about temperament being more important than body. When they see a beautiful woman, they will immediately get up and leave you to face the bill.

Men’s views: Unless he is not interested in women, no man will remain indifferent to sexy temptations. A woman invites me to look at her, and I will look, and if she encourages me to touch her, I will touch her! But this kind of flirting requires natural and subtle techniques, otherwise it will be considered vulgar.

·Use IQ to Attract Men

I am often called "too smart" because I am a master's student majoring in chemistry, which is considered a "men's major". But it was these molecular formulas that helped me conquer my fiancé Xinpeng. I rarely talk about my work to others, but Xinpeng seemed interested in it. I liked him very much and wanted to let him know my expertise, so I patiently described to him my current research project... Later he told me that he admired women with high IQs very much. ——Julie, 30 years old, chemical engineer

COSMO expert comments: This method is very suitable for women with fair appearance and good IQ. Men generally believe that the beauty of intelligent beauties is like fine wine - the longer they stay with them, the more lasting their charm will be.

Men’s perspective: It’s hard to enjoy conversations with women who just giggle. If we want to have a conversation, we want the other person to have something constructive to say, rather than mentally begging her not to speak. If she was beautiful and interesting, we would go anywhere with her.

·Make a Man Laugh

I prefer to use a sense of humor rather than flirting to seduce a man, and it usually works very well. One summer Sunday, I was walking on the bar street by the lake. I was single at the time and desperately wanted to find a boyfriend. I saw a young man who was running and exercising, sitting on a bench and resting. He was my neighbor. I knew he worked for a big company, but we had never talked.

I walked up with my mobile phone and said, "Can you please teach me how to save the phone number?" He was stunned for a moment, then enthusiastically answered the phone, switched to the "Phone Book" column and asked, "Do you want to What phone number is stored?" I replied: "Your phone number." He looked at me confused, then laughed and invited me to the bar for a drink. I believe that no woman has ever flirted with him like this! ——Lan Xun, 27 years old, salesperson

COSMO expert comments: This method is very suitable for women with a great sense of humor and is a real woman Intelligent and humorous, not a gag-worthy crazy lady. Indeed, a woman's sense of humor is a double-edged sword. While making a man laugh, it also dispels his sexual fantasies. If a woman's sense of humor was synonymous with optimism, all men would welcome it.

Men’s perspective: For us, a woman with a good sense of humor is a woman who knows how to enjoy life. Indeed, it is difficult for a woman who makes people laugh to remain sexy, but this does not prevent us from being attracted to her and willing to get along with her.

·Use weakness to attract men

I am not a silly little girl, but I know that a helpless woman can arouse a man's instinct to protect her and his male hormones. I once did this experiment with a few friends: I walked on the street with a map. If I met a young, handsome, well-dressed man, I would go up and ask for directions. Almost every time, this man told me that the place I was looking for was not far from here and he could send me there. I thanked him very much and he was very happy and finally invited me to dinner or a bar. ——Lin Ling, employee of a foreign company

COSMO expert comments: Don’t abuse the “lost little girl” trick. Men who are in a hurry will find this extremely annoying, not to mention being mistaken for a call girl looking for a client.

Men’s views: Very novel! This is very different from those women who play sexy and personality. Although we rarely have such an affair on the street, we will be easily tempted, but we must not let us see her asking other men in the same way elsewhere.

·A good hunter, hunt slowly

A Feng is not the kind of man who easily expresses interest in women. He is an excellent stock analyst who loves reading, watching movies and dramas. , often writes theater reviews outside of work. I have been attracted to him for a long time, so I got close to his friends and learned about his preferences and taste in women through various means - he preferred romantic lady clothes, so I added all of them to my wardrobe

With this type of costume, I also supplemented my drama knowledge and cultivated my interest in drama. When a British repertory company came to China to hold its first Shakespeare performance, I booked the tickets and asked them to be delivered to him by courier... He fell in love with me very much after that. ——Duo Duo, 26 years old, editor

COSMO expert comments: Cast a wide net, make full preparations, think carefully, and then wait patiently for the prey to fall into the net - some scheming women will do this Design your own affair. It should be said that this is very effective. What they need to remind them is, what will they do after getting these men? Will they restore their original appearance or disguise themselves to the end?

Men’s views: If a woman goes to great lengths to get close to me, I will be very moved. But I can't help but be a little scared. It's hard to fight such a scheming woman.

·Play with personality

I am not a beauty in the traditional sense. In fact, my facial features are not perfect, but all my boyfriends have praised me as very attractive. I think this is because of me. His personality is outstanding and his dress is very special. I seldom compromise and go my own way, which makes me different from other girls. ——Zhang Xin, singer

COSMO expert comments: It is difficult for a woman with plain appearance and no personality to attract others' attention. So for girls with average looks, personality is the most powerful weapon.

Men’s opinion: Lovely personality, agree. For example, not following the crowd, being strong and brave, principled, humorous and cheerful, and extremely intelligent... These can make an average-looking girl become outstanding, and can also make a man fall in love with her.

·Unconventional moves

I know very well that my appearance is not outstanding, and I don’t have extraordinary intelligence. How can I attract the attention of the man I have a crush on and make him love me? What about me? I work in a department with many female employees, and he is the boss of another department. I dare say he has never paid attention to me. One morning, I happened to bump into him when I was waiting for the elevator at work. I fell down on purpose and cut my knee. He enthusiastically helped me find a band-aid. From then on, we always smiled silently when we met in the company, until he invited me to have dinner alone. ——Yu Na, company employee

COSMO expert comment: A brave woman will never be empty-handed! Even if she cannot gain a lover, she can still gain a friend. What you need to pay attention to is not to be too clumsy when making moves, which will make him think you are stupid and useless.

Men’s opinion: This approach may be self-defeating. Can a man be attracted to a non-beautiful woman who is clumsy, knocks over teacups, screams, and falls to the ground? Please think of an elegant way to attract our attention.