1, co-organized by men and women
When a man and a woman hold a wedding banquet, the people attending the wedding banquet are more complicated. There are relatives, friends and colleagues of the elders of both men and women, as well as their own friends and colleagues. It involves the feelings sent by parents before, as well as the feelings sent by the newcomers themselves, and so on. So I also saw that some MM offered to accept each other. However, we are married and we are all family. At the wedding reception, we always feel a little strange when we receive our own red envelopes. Moreover, there are so many guests attending the wedding banquet, most of them congratulate the couple directly, and may hand over the red envelopes to the couple conveniently. If you accept each other, then the couple have to distinguish which side their relatives and friends are from, and then give the red envelope to their parents, which is very troublesome.
If the guest gives the red envelope directly to the bride, then the bride will accept it first and then see if there is any signature on the red envelope. If there is no signature, ask the bridesmaid to help write down the name and put it in a bag specially for red envelopes. If the guests give the red envelopes to their parents and accept them directly, it will be simpler and look more harmonious.
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2. The man and the woman do it separately
This situation is relatively simple. The man opens the wine alone, and the general relatives and colleagues also entertain it alone. Therefore, whether the husband and wife receive red envelopes themselves or the parents of both husband and wife receive red envelopes, it will be OK to give them to their parents. After all, it is reasonable to give it to parents.
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3. Newcomers themselves
Second, matters needing attention in receiving red envelopes at weddings
1, cash wedding red envelope
It should also be noted that when holding a wedding red envelope in front of guests, don't inadvertently pinch the thickness of the wedding red envelope. This behavior is as impolite as counting wedding gifts in person.
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2. Check the wedding red envelope
Checks are small in size, and if they are mixed with a lot of cash, they are easy to lose. Therefore, a special bag should be prepared to store the check separately from the cash. It is also better to distinguish different kinds of checks, so that it will be more convenient for newcomers to handle them in the future. When receiving the check, the inspector can roughly check the details such as the head or signature on behalf of the newcomer, and whether the check can be cashed is more suitable for the newcomer to go to the bank afterwards.
Don't look surprised if you find that the amount on the check is surprisingly small or long. If you really suspect that the guest made a mistake, you can ask the guest to reconfirm the check by checking the signature or recognizing the handwriting.
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3. Gift wedding red envelope
When a guest gives a couple valuables, such as gold ornaments and jewels, one person should write down the name of the guest, the variety and number of gifts, so that it will be more convenient to count them afterwards. Of course, the most important thing is that the recorder can stand behind the guests instead of standing in front of them to record.
Nowadays, many guests like to put gold ornaments, jewelry and so on directly for newcomers. When the size of the gift given by the guest is not suitable and can't be worn on the spot, it is very impolite to put the gift aside if the newcomer just says it is not suitable. In this case, the newcomer can say in a humorous tone: I will give this as a family heirloom to my future daughter when she gets married. ? If you accept gifts in this way, both parties will be happier.
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No matter how busy you are at the wedding, you should keep a clear head. How to collect red envelopes at the wedding must be arranged and prepared. I hope that the above precautions for receiving red envelopes at weddings can provide some reference for everyone.