Writer Zhou Zuoluo once said that his most shameful thing was that couples quarreled loudly in subway stations. He thinks that girls are saving face, and it is really impolite for boys to shout in public. Every time he sees such a situation, he can't wait to run to the quarrelling man and say, she just needs a hug, but you idiots are here to reason with her.
Yes, falling in love is not the same level. What women need is a lover, not a reasonable teacher. In feelings, it is more important than reasoning to learn to admit defeat. In the entertainment circle, the most popular couples are Chile and Anita Yuen. Every time I see them together, I can't help laughing at the taste of lemon essence.
Anita Yuen is a famous bag fan. Her favorite color is orange. Her favorite country is France, because her favorite bag is Hermes. There is such a "black sheep" in the family, and it is hard for her husband Csillam to say it. Even before taking part in the bungee jumping program, his words to his wife were: "Please, don't buy any more bags."
But once, the reporter asked him, "Your wife already has many bags. When she wants to buy again, will she be told not to buy? " Kieran glanced at Anita Yuen and replied, No, I don't reason with her. I choose her. And women, just spoil them. After more than 20 years of marriage, they are still in a state of love, holding hands wherever they go.
Of course, any relationship is not smooth sailing, and it is inevitable to stumble and argue endlessly.
? But after every quarrel, no matter who is right or wrong, Csillam always apologizes at the first time. He said: every time we quarrel, we think about what it would be like to lose her, so we cherish it. I'd rather take the initiative to apologize and make up, because I cherish every day with her, man! There is nothing wrong with admitting your mistake, but you will lose it before you regret it.
Many disputes are not right or wrong. What women want is to be understood and cared for, so attitude is more important than result. Quarrel in love is a process of weighing the pros and cons. It doesn't matter whether you win or lose, what matters is whether you love or not.