No, maybe because I have seen so many people like this leading to tragic endings, I feel even more stupid and impulsive behavior.

When Xiaotong was 25 years old, she returned to her hometown with her boyfriend. She grew up in a big city as an only daughter and has never left her hometown. Even when I went to college, I went to school locally at the request of my parents. Xiaotong's parents thought they would watch their daughter live a stable life like this, but they did not expect that their daughter, who had been well-behaved and sensible since she was a child, began to rebel at the age of 25 and decided to marry an out-of-town boyfriend that her parents didn't like.

After receiving the certificate, Xiaotong’s husband proposed that he should go back to his hometown to develop his career in order to take care of his parents. Xiaotong could not resist her husband, so she finally agreed and left her parents and relatives behind. When Xiaotong's father learned of this decision, he was very angry and said that from now on he would treat his daughter as if he did not have her. In this way, Xiaotong and her husband returned to that remote small town.

She has a degree from a prestigious university, but she has no special skills and cannot be used in this small place. There are no professional jobs here, so I have no choice but to choose some clerical jobs. Her mother-in-law didn't like Xiaotong and thought she was squeamish and not the daughter-in-law she wanted. Xiaotong thought that life would go on like this, but she didn't expect that her husband and the new receptionist were not clear about each other, and Xiaotong discovered the ambiguous messages between the two.

So, don’t overestimate the status of love, and don’t give up a stable environment and loving family members casually. When you feel that love and work must be sacrificed to solve the problem, then you have to think about whether love is suitable for you. You are just an ordinary person doing an ordinary job, and you have to sacrifice your work and family in exchange for love. Can you really guarantee 100% that what you get in exchange is eternal love?

Good love can make you grow, and so can good work. Love and work are not black and white. The love that can truly transcend all of this is the love worth protecting forever. And this kind of love will not disappear just because of a worthwhile job. It will only enrich your love, make good love last longer, and make it more cherished when it is filled by work.

Whether it is a long-distance relationship or family life, everything starts with love and should continue with love. What we can do is work hard, live hard, love and be loved. So, don’t give up on love easily and don’t give up on work and family easily.