1. Change your mind and treat it calmly. Some parents think that "universities and majors determine their children's future career and even their future fate, so we must choose the right one." Therefore, when children fill in their volunteers, they must participate strongly and choose the universities and majors that they think are "good". As everyone knows, this concept needs to be changed long ago. Although universities and majors are related to future careers, they are not absolutely corresponding. Parents should treat voluntary service with a normal heart. Children's learning in the next four years can determine their knowledge structure and way of thinking. To a certain extent, but it can't decide their fate. No matter what you study, as long as you work hard, you may make yourself better.

Parents and children should be happy with their professional differences. At least it can prove that this is a child who has a clear idea about his future, and will not follow suit in the future. Because there are still more children who don't know what major they like or want to study. Just like volunteering for more than ten years, most people fill in a major in a fog and don't know what they are studying. Most of them choose to change careers after graduation. If there are differences between parents and children when volunteering, both sides should calm down. As a parent, don't tell your children that you can only study one major, let alone other majors. Don't let this tense atmosphere spread. It's too late for the child to regret something stupid on impulse.

After graduating from high school, children are generally adults. They all have their own ideas and certain ideas about their future. Volunteer service determines his future growth and future employment. At this time, children should be able to be responsible for their own choices. As parents, in the attitude of being responsible for their children, we must stand in the children's perspective and give them some useful references in combination with our own experiences, but the final decision must respect the children's choices and not interfere or even do everything. Both sides can communicate with each other, take the essence and discard the dross, instead of instilling their own ideas into children, and children should also listen to their parents' opinions.