1. When you have negative emotions, don’t say them. It's a state to keep your mouth shut and sometimes be mute.

2. Even if there are three thousand prosperity, if you look down on it, it will be clouds. No matter how troubled you are, if you think about it, it will be sunny. Don't be happy with things, don't be sad with yourself, be calm and feel the warmth and coldness by yourself.

3. The older you get, the more you learn to let things take their own course. You don’t want to keep anything anymore, and you believe that what is meant to be will never go away. Be calm with gains and calm with losses, strive for the inevitable and let nature take its course.

4. When there is nothing to do, the mind will not be empty, when there is something to do, the mind will not be confused, when the big things happen, the mind will not be afraid, and when the small things are small, the mind will not be slow.

5. The quality of a person's temperament reveals a person's cultivation, and silence reveals a person's taste. The greatest accomplishment of a person is to know others without judging them.

6. Don’t be too obedient. You can refuse things you don’t want to do. Don’t force things you can’t do. If you don’t like it, pretend you didn’t hear it. Life is not about pleasing others, but about being kind to yourself.

7. Happiness is like drinking water, knowing one's own warmth and coldness. Your happiness is not in the eyes of others, but in your own heart.

8. Communicate with smart people, fall in love with reliable people, hang out with positive people, and travel with humorous people. If life can be like this, it will be the greatest happiness.

9. The relationship between people is like knitting a sweater. When it is established, it is stitch by stitch, careful and long, and when it is removed, it only needs a gentle pull.

10. Only when you are at your lowest will you know who is the fool who is worried about you and who is the bastard who is a stranger to you.

11. It is easy to forgive someone, but not so easy to trust again. It takes many years to warm a heart, but only a moment to cool it.

12. Your heart is not big, so don’t put everything into it. To dwell on yesterday is to blaspheme today and tomorrow.

13. The judgment of height does not lie in the vision, but in the mentality; the judgment of distance lies not in the length, but in the action.

14. Don’t complain to anyone, because 20% of people don’t care, and the remaining 80% will be happy to hear it. Correct your mentality and be gentle with yourself. Life is about crying for yourself and smiling for others!

15. The order of appearance of everyone you meet in life is very important. If you met many people at another time, they would have different endings.

16. If you like it, you will stay, if you are disgusted, you will leave. If you say anything more, it is just a request. If you have different paths, you will not work together. You are not pretty when you try to be gregarious.

17. Give yourself a hope every day, try not to worry about tomorrow, don’t sigh for yesterday, just make today better.

18. Gradually I understand that many things can be encountered but cannot be sought. If it is not yours, why bother to care about it.

19. As a person, if you are not good at discovering the sunny side, it will only magnify the happiness of others and reduce your own happiness.

20. Even if no one applauds for you, you must make an elegant curtain call and thank yourself for your hard work.