Visual attraction is the first source of goodwill, and goodwill is the embryonic stage of love. Only when goodwill is generated can it develop further. If you want to make the other person feel good quickly, you must rely on visual attraction, such as face value, temperament, clothing and so on.
Only by focusing on your own development can you avoid falling in love with your brain. Girls who fall in love with their brains will spend most of their attention thinking about each other's emotions and needs, while ignoring their own cultivation, so they are always on the lower side in their feelings. But in fact, when you are rich, confident and attractive, you won't be influenced by anyone, and you don't have to be.
A truly mature girl will not suffer from internal friction because of her feelings. It is the most taboo to keep her love full at all times. If the other person behaves well, responds and interacts, she will love him more. If the other person doesn't show how much she loves you, she will lower her requirements and pay less. What a mature girl will do in love is to decide whether to love him or not according to the performance of the other party, instead of always worrying about whether the other party loves you or not.
It is wrong to talk about bad love. In fact, it is not because of emotional problems, but because you love in the wrong way. Love is a matter for two people. How to make feelings better and better also requires the running-in and mutual coordination of two people. If one party always wants to show his determination and prove how strong his love is by giving, but the other party keeps asking for it but doesn't know the return, both of them will be very tired in the end.
Communication is very important, but it cannot cure all diseases. We often say that communication is very important in relationships, but everything goes too far. If you always communicate in a calm and rational tone, the other party may have an anti-Hangzhou mentality after a long time. In fact, sometimes the other person doesn't need communication, what he needs is silence. So all you have to do is give the other person some space to digest emotions.
Most of the worries are fear of not being loved. Girls always think about trivial things, and they will become the reason not to be loved because they don't return information for seconds and quarrel. But on the contrary, boys don't think much. The reason is that most boys like to take the initiative and will be replaced if they can't. Girls, on the other hand, are used to passive acceptance, believing that one person will automatically shield others and give wholeheartedly. It is better to wait actively than passively, and people will change their minds. If they cannot change, they will be replaced.
Self-excellence is the greatest confidence. Don't focus on whether he is good or not. Self is the most important thing. When you are good enough, confident and self-loving, you will naturally meet more excellent people. People who love themselves will also pay more attention to their feelings in love and know how to manage a healthy and long-term love. If you want to have a good relationship, you should take the initiative to deal with all kinds of problems and have a healthy and long-lasting love.