Thank everyone who answers first, whether your answer is true or false. After all, we didn't even meet by chance. Lonely people are doomed to be lonely for a long time. How to get rid of loneliness, just like normal people. My job now is to communicate with different people, not open-minded, but there are still some superficial exchanges. I just feel that something is always missing in my heart. For friends, we have always adhered to the principle of quality rather than quantity, so don't expect anything for intimate friends for the time being. I had very good friends before, but I was deliberately alienated because of my distance and my own reasons, because my life was not satisfactory. People on the internet may be insincere, it doesn't matter. People around me touch my appearance, and strangers can touch my inner world, because we are strangers to each other. Thank you again for all the people who answered! ! Loneliness can't be solved in a few words, after all, I'm past the age of worrying about allocating new words! !

Enthusiastic netizens

You can take part in more social activities, chat with friends about life, gossip and so on. If you talk about qq just to get rid of your inner loneliness, you can get a temporary pleasure, but you will feel lonely afterwards. You can also make a small plan for your day to make yourself feel full. Stick to it, it will be much better. Believe in yourself, you can do it!

147 100kyzy| Level 4

I have a friend who writes "Loneliness and Forever Loneliness" on her QQ signature, but in real life, she is a lively role. A person can have a sincere friend in his life, but in real life, there are very few, at most, 1-2. 80% of people have no intimate friends all their lives, and there are not many friends, but they can't live without friends and make more friends. Make a plan for yourself, make a friend once a month and make new friends in the same way. Don't forget your old friends. Now that information is so developed, there are too many ways to communicate.

Report | 2012-10-12 22: 30 Luochen Landuo | Level 4

How does it remind me of One Hundred Years of Solitude? I think true loneliness doesn't feel lonely at all, because many people who are used to loneliness feel lonely because they don't want to be lonely and want to find someone to accompany them.

XHL 153470| Level 1

If you don't look back, why don't you forget? If you don't have a chance, why do you swear?

Report | 2012-10-12 22: 33 wlgliubbing | Level 2

Loneliness is sometimes a kind of autism, or arrogance or inferiority, but there is always a moment when the sun will shine into your heart. Don't be too lazy to pay attention.

Report | 2012-10-12 22: 37 | Level II

Take the initiative to chat with friends, go out for a walk more, and don't shut yourself in a narrow space. Chatting with strangers in QQ, why not spend this time with friends around you! Start (a disease)

Report | 2012-10-12 22: 42 gj027002277 | Level II

Loneliness depends entirely on how you look at people and things, because these are all made up of thoughts. How do you treat life? Life will repay you. This is life. My friend, open your heart and try to communicate with others. When you really integrate into this environment, you may suddenly find that you once let loneliness lead you by the nose. It's not difficult to be happy, hehe, friend, come on! Good luck!

Reporting | 2012-10-12 22: 53 Wu Ba | Level 1

Haha, you are lonely inside, because you haven't found anything meaningful to do, son. If you have nothing to do, just go out and see the outside world. Maybe you will be happy. . .

Report | 2012-10-12 22: 48 Battle 896| Level 2

Loneliness, if well grasped, can become a carnival for one person. As long as one's heart is full and there is a pursuit, loneliness does not exist. On the contrary, on the surface, people are accompanied every day, and people who chat may be lonely inside. Seize and make good use of loneliness in others' eyes, and you will precipitate in loneliness, sublimate in tranquility, and have your own wonderful.

Enthusiastic netizens

Everyone who is lonely is arrogant at heart. They have ideals and ambitions, but they are not understood. When misunderstood, they always choose silence. They think that time will tell and there is no need to explain. They sometimes feel inferior because they are different. People feel inferior because they are different from the people around them. Such a character is destined to be left out by the people around you. I think you should be the kind of person who doesn't like to talk much You don't like to express yourself in life. Without absolute certainty, you won't try anything easily, so you miss many opportunities and feel that many people around you are not worthy to be your friends. If you want to get rid of loneliness, you have to let go of your arrogant heart and blend in with the people around you. You should constantly remind yourself that you are an ordinary person, and you can't be perfect and thick-skinned. There are some things you should do. There is something to say, and everything in life should be taken seriously, so that you will become thoughtful, people around you will begin to admire you, and more and more people will be willing to make friends with you, so that you will not feel lonely. Changing personality is a very painful thing, but you have to do it if you want to get rid of loneliness.

Report | 2012-10-12 22: 55 Quiet | Level 2

First of all, you need to communicate with your heart and know yourself. Secondly, you should be willing to open your heart to others, communicate with others more and make more friends, so that you may be able to get rid of loneliness.

Report | 2012-10-12 23: 08 Mo Ruiying | Level 2

Loneliness is an internal experience that others can't give. You need to solve it yourself. As long as you don't experience loneliness in your heart, you won't be lonely.

Report | 2012-10-1223: 21tough guy laughs | Level 2

Make some useful friends properly. There is nothing to be lonely about. Life is like this. Are you bored? Go to work, focus on meaningful things, and don't waste your youth. Youth is beautiful. Don't think of yourself as so unique. Everyone is lonely. Learn to find happiness.

Reporting | 2012-10-12 23: 25147100 Kyzy | Level 4

I have a friend who writes "Loneliness and Forever Loneliness" on her QQ signature, but in real life, she is a lively role. A person can have a sincere friend in his life, but in real life, there are very few, at most, 1-2. 80% of people have no intimate friends all their lives, and there are not many friends, but they can't live without friends and make more friends. Make a plan for yourself, make a friend once a month and make new friends in the same way. Don't forget your old friends. Now that information is so developed, there are too many ways to communicate.

Loneliness is not necessarily a bad thing. Friends who drink too much are not necessarily close.

Lonely? Nothing, talk to yourself! Look down on everything and be arrogant.

Don't show your cowardice and fragility easily, even if it is really miserable ... believe in yourself, and it will pass after a while. ...

Report | 2012-10-12 23: 32 | Go first-class evasion

I thought loneliness belonged to us writers. People are excellent because of loneliness, and we should also be able to stand loneliness. Watch your favorite books, TV series and movies. Communicate with people more openly.

Report | 2012-10-12 23: 40 Boscoma | Level II

In fact, loneliness is one of your own personality characteristics, and you are born with it. You can't just talk to one person and then be lonely. To be lonely, what you really need is to change yourself.