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May I ask about the engagement and registration process?

There are many ways to say gift money, one is for a lifetime

It is 1W1, and there is one wife for a lifetime (starting) which is 1W7

Some places are not particular about it Yes, directly 20,000.

Some areas in Shandong are stable, such as 4W8

Generally around 2W!

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Wedding customs in old Beijing

Since ancient times, marriage between a man and a woman has been regarded as the first "happy event" in life. The marriage system and etiquette of China's long-term feudal society include "the orders of the parents, the words of the matchmaker" and the ethical concepts of "together to the end", which are also reflected in the old-style wedding customs of old Beijing; from the engagement to the final union, There are many tedious etiquette procedures to go through.

Baoqin

Baoqin, that is, introduce marriage, commonly known as matchmaking. After being introduced by the matchmaker and the parents of both men and women agree, they must first go through the portal post. Each party uses a red paper fold to write down their name, age, place of origin, names of three generations (great-grandparents, grandparents, parents), etc., and the matchmaker passes it on, that is, The "asking for names" mentioned in "Rituals". Later, the elders of both men and women choose auspicious days and appropriate occasions to visit each other to find out whether the other party's family property status, family reputation, girl's appearance, uncle's life experience, etc. are a good match.

Combined marriage

After mutual inspections, both parties have no objections to the marriage, and then the "eight-character post" is passed. The man and woman each use a red paper fold to write down the year, month, day and hour of birth, and ask the "horoscope" to check the "horoscopes" of both men and women, which is called "combined marriage". Because everyone's birth has four parts: year, month, day, and hour, each part occupies one character for the stem and branch, and the four parts total eight characters, so it is called "Bazi". Astrologers say that the zodiac signs of men and women must be consistent before they can get married, so as not to interfere with each other or hinder the family fortune after marriage.

Then Mr. "Yin Yang" will write an appraisal based on the birth dates and zodiac signs of both men and women (such as "Zi Yu Chou", etc.), and then choose the wedding date based on the "auspicious day of the zodiac" and the direction of the God of Joy. And what to avoid being equal is written on a red paper fold, called "Dragon and Phoenix Tie". This is the old marriage certificate.

Decided

Married when settled. In the old days, there was small concentration and magnified concentration. After a girl gets engaged, it is customary to change her hair style. In the past, when girls wore braids, they usually did not have braids at the roots. Once they passed Xiaoding, they had to wear red braids at the roots. In some families that pay more attention to the small time, the man should give the woman four pieces of jewelry: one or a pair of rings; a pair of bracelets; a pair of earrings; and a necklace, made of gold, silver or silver covered with gold. The magnification of determination means that the marriage between a man and a woman has become a final outcome. At this time, the man will give financial gifts to the woman, and the woman will openly ask for them. Sometimes the two parties bargain, which becomes a concentrated expression of the marriage of purchase and sale.

Accompanying the dowry

According to old Beijing etiquette, on the first day of marriage, a woman will send a dowry, and invite male guests (four to eight people) to send the dowry from her mother’s family to the groom’s family. It's called "accompanying the dowry".

The amount of dowry is generally determined based on the financial status of the girl’s family. There was a nursery rhyme in old Beijing back then: "The moon shines through the east window, and the girl from the Zhang family has a good dowry, a gold leather cabinet, a silver leather trunk, a tiger leather chair and an ivory bed. Ingots of powder, sticks of incense, two hundred pieces of cotton rouge..."

Marrying

Marrying is also called "bridal wedding". Weddings include setting up the wedding tent, decorating the wedding room, arranging the wedding personnel, sending out sedan chairs, ceremonial guards, rattles, sedan chairs, the couple getting on and off the sedan chair, the bride's journey home, post-wedding rituals and many other details and rituals. The lively atmosphere of a wedding and all the pomp and circumstance are concentrated in the wedding ceremony.

1. Conditions for marriage registration

1. Both the man and the woman must voluntarily marry (under their own control).

2. Marriage age: Male must be 22 years old or above. Female is over 20 years old.

3. Neither party has a spouse (single, divorced, widowed).

4. Both parties have no direct blood relationship or collateral blood relationship within three generations (self-prompt).

2. Documents submitted for marriage registration

1. My permanent residence booklet and resident ID card (both the first and second generations are acceptable).

2. I have no spouse.

3. The parties involved shall submit 3 recent 2-inch half-length color photos without hats (can be taken on the spot).

3. Marriage Registration Procedures

1. Both men and women who are registering for marriage are required to bring the required documents and go to the district or county-level civil affairs bureau (or Apply to the marriage registration authority of the Town People's Government).

2. Both parties shall apply in person to the marriage registration authority and each fill in a "Declaration for Application for Marriage Registration".

3. Both parties must personally sign or fingerprint the "Declarant" column in the "Declaration for Marriage Registration" in front of the marriage registrar.

4. The marriage registration authority will review the certificates and statements submitted by both parties. If the marriage registration conditions are met, registration will be granted.

IV. Time limit and fee standards for marriage registration

1. Registration time limit: All documents and documents must be complete, registration will be done on the spot, and a marriage certificate will be issued.

2. Charging standard: Domestic marriage registration is 9 yuan per couple plus other related fees.