In the TV series Dear Yourself, Zhang has always insisted on raising her daughter to be rich. Even if the family's economic conditions are average, the husband wants his daughter to attend ordinary kindergartens, but Zhang insists on spending expensive tuition to let her attend aristocratic kindergartens. She also deliberately keeps good relations with several rich parents in her wife's circle and tries to please them as much as possible, just so that their children can play with their daughters. Because in Zhang's mind, it has always been thought that children of rich people learn all kinds of talents, including piano, dance and horseback riding ... It seems that their daughter stays with noble temperament, which is of great help to cultivate her to become an excellent girl in the future.
Zhang's intention to cultivate his daughter is good, but it is too hard and deliberate. Just like her husband questioned her, isn't it good to let her daughter grow naturally? To put it bluntly, Zhang's thoughts and behaviors also have comparative elements. She wants her daughter to be the best among her peers, so she would rather associate with a rich wife who likes to show off, even a little arrogant, have expensive afternoon tea, and jointly sign to force a naughty boy to drop out of school. Zhang is not from the same world as those rich wives, but she keeps saying that she is willing to do everything for her daughter to be friends with their children, including signing the book against her will despite the apology and intercession of the little boy's mother.
Is it really meaningful to have such a rich daughter? First of all, Zhang's family is average. Her daughter and those rich women's children grew up in a totally different environment. If she tries her best to get them to play together, is there really no difference in getting along? In addition, the child is still at a very naive age. What friends they want to play with and make in kindergarten should be naturally cultivated by their temperament and environment, and they should not deliberately just want to play with their daughters and rich children.
It is said that parents are the best teachers for children, and their outlook on life and values will be greatly influenced. Zhang deliberately joined the circle of rich women, which will inevitably affect the growth of children. In fact, whether girls should be well-off or poor is not the main problem at all. The key lies in whether the way and concept of education are correct. In China, aren't many children from poor families admitted to Tsinghua Peking University and become outstanding talents?
No matter whether a girl is rich or poor, the most important thing is not to give her superior material conditions or spend a lot of money to send her to an aristocratic school, but to let her have a good upbringing, an independent personality and a correct outlook on life.