People's hearts are good and people's hearts are sinister, which means the contrast between people. Kindness is a gentleman, hypocrisy is a hypocrite, and hypocrites are called villains in plain English. An upright man is open and poised is upright and aboveboard. A gentleman stresses morality, but he doesn't abandon it, and it's harmless to abandon it. A gentleman remembers the benefits of others, he is grateful to others, and he will be rewarded in spring. A gentleman keeps the way, but a villain tries to be brave. A gentleman is the beauty of an adult, but a villain helps others. A gentleman never hurts others, and a hypocrite never blames himself. A gentleman is sincere and trustworthy, while a hypocrite is hypocritical and untrue. The heart of a villain is like a stubborn Lord, the most difficult to measure, and the king will be unfaithful. Things must be unfilial. Friends are absolutely unfair. The world hates those who are powerful and dirty, but scholars satirize those who are powerful and powerful with poems: I don't believe it, there are poems to prove it:
The top of the head is as white as silver, and the scales are not divided.
Eyes on the ass, only clothes, no one.
The world has also created many classic famous sentences to describe the famous sentences of gentlemen and villains: let's feel the charm of Chinese characters!
Praise the gentleman and humiliate the villain one by one.
Noble morality, bright festivals, and enthusiasm.
Justice and impudence.
Open and aboveboard, hemorrhoids are allowed.
As pure as ice and pure as jade, you fart with your ass pinched.
Confess, duplicity.
Kindness, treachery and cunning.
Stand tall and remain humble.
Aboveboard, wagging his tail for mercy.
Help others, steal cold and send warmth.
Deserve to put your family above everything else, bow and scrape.
Treat each other with sincerity, not hypocrisy.
Gentle and honest, two sides and three knives.
Light wealth and heavy righteousness, despicable.
Lead an honest and clean life, brag and flatter.
Nuo Nuo is the only one whose words and deeds are consistent.
Give up yourself for others and please yourself.
Different customs, bow and scrape.
Do what you want and be obedient.
Stand up and hit people when they're down.
Loyal and picky. Wait a minute. People should stand up to lies, perfunctory, cheating and forgetting promises. Some people look down when they see it clearly! An experienced life is a perfect life. Plain and leisurely is true. There is no 100 in life, and there is nothing important in life.
A female classmate of mine divorced because her husband cheated, so we went to comfort her. When we arrived at her house, we saw her husband's car downstairs and knew he was there. A friend of mine said there was a noise upstairs, kicked her door open, taught her husband a lesson, and relieved her friends. When she said this, she went upstairs to the door. The friend who spoke just now really kicked me out, just as her friend opened the door. I already know you didn't kick the door. Some people go too far and expose a person's bad habits! Unconsciously, several years have passed, and we are still dating, but from the bottom of our hearts, we don't like the person who kicks the door! Because nobody is stupid!
When I was poor and helpless at home, I walked more than 30 kilometers to the county seat, found my uncle who worked in the county seat, and asked him to lend me some money to tide over the immediate difficulties. Because the super-life was fined 8,000 yuan, the mother spent more than 20,000 yuan in hospital, and the two sisters also needed 3,000 yuan in tuition. It rained all night, and my father was bitten by his dog, which cost me 1000 yuan, mostly my uncle. I hope he can lend me some money to pay for my sister's tuition.
When I was very young, my uncle went to work in the county, and even got married in the county. At ordinary times, their family of five seldom goes back to their hometown in the countryside, and they seem to forget that he still has a brother in the countryside.
My uncle's family is not enthusiastic about my arrival. Hearing my purpose, my face grew longer. My aunt said first that it is out of fashion for relatives to borrow money these days. If money is tight, she can only borrow money from the bank. My uncle is a wife with vaginitis. After hearing what his wife said, he just said, "Your two cousins are getting married, and the two suites haven't been renovated yet. Your cousin will go to college next year, and we are not well off now. Uncle is very helpless about your situation ... "!
I returned empty-handed, but I didn't blame my uncle! Not far from my uncle's house, I heard someone behind me ask my uncle, "Is that your relative?" Listen to my uncle's voice and answer no, it's passers-by. I pretended not to hear, but I quickened my pace.
The two sisters decided to give up their studies and go out to work to earn money to support their families. I flatly refused, "I will let you finish your studies even if I buy it myself." "
When I was looking for a job, I borrowed money from others, but my neighbors were all cash-strapped peers, and the rich ones even looked down on me.
Finally, I found a coolie in a private enterprise in the village. Although the work is hard, the salary is quite good. Besides, the factory has a distant relative of mine as the manager. I wanted to go forward and join my relatives, but they scoffed, so I walked away!
Seeing that school is about to start, I have the cheek to borrow 2000 yuan from my relatives who are managers to pay my tuition. He retorted, "Just mind your own business. My two sisters will get married sooner or later, so what's the use of losing money to read so many books? " Is it your turn to take care of your sister? What do parents do to eat? ..... ",he chattered like a barrage of don't let me explain.
Who said I was poor, I had to let him scold me. I almost cried in front of everyone!
Maybe he was proud of bullying me in front of everyone, or I showed my poverty in front of everyone and made him happy. After some humiliation, he asked me to write an iou in the accounting office and borrow 2000 yuan. Just say I said it.
Yes, that's right, he did. I smiled through tears and said "yes"!
I worked for two months, and finally I lost 2000 yuan, leaving more than 1000 yuan to solve the current living expenses. My relatives asked me if I wouldn't give me interest. I thought he was joking, but he directly reached for fifty cents, put it in his pocket and said with a black face, I don't know how to repay you for saving your emergency. The ghost won't help you next time. Then he told me to leave here.
I'm so shocked, this ... this ...!
People have to bow their heads under the eaves!
As the saying goes, everyone has his own interests.
Only parents, relatives and friends in the world will not harm you. I can't guarantee that others won't hurt you. In fact, my personal opinion is that there are two kinds of people when they are insidious.
The first one: when you have money, you feel that anyone who contacts you wants to get rich from you for your money. At this time, you will be wary of anyone. No matter whether your original intention is good or bad, you will wholeheartedly refuse to think that he is just lying to you. This is why the richer people are, the more afraid they are of something.
The second type: when you are down and out, when you invest in a business and lose your food, clothing, housing and transportation, you will see the indifference of the world and feel that you can't move without money. At this time, if someone helps you, you will be grateful. If you meet someone who once agreed with you, and he drives by with his girlfriend in a luxury car without looking at you, you will hate him very much. At this time, you will feel sinister.
(The above is purely a personal opinion. Don't spray if you don't like it )
Lao Zhang na Xiao Niu
Tell a story about my childhood!
When I was about 7-8 years old, I went to the public toilet once, and a friend in it asked me to go to his house to get him some toilet paper, so I went stupidly.
As soon as I entered the door, the door suddenly closed and the latch was quickly scratched. Then a kitchen knife was put around my neck, and I asked maliciously: Who told you? ! ! I was scared to death. When I looked intently, it turned out to be the third sister of that little friend! I trembled and said, it was you who asked me to help him with the toilet paper. Then I felt that she hesitated and said, get out! Then open the latch. I was so scared that my legs went weak and my heart almost jumped out, and then I didn't know how to get out. Then I went home and couldn't be calm for a long time!
It turned out that this little friend knew that her sister was mentally ill and was afraid to go home to get toilet paper, and then let me take risks.
Now that I think about it, it really saved my life! It's not illegal to kill people with mental illness! Fortunately, she still had a little sense at that time, otherwise I couldn't tell you today: I was almost murdered by my childhood friend!
This is my experience this week:
Let me talk about the background of this matter first. My father died almost a year ago and privately lent money to his brother (my fourth uncle) when he was alive. The secret is that my mother doesn't know, because my mother has high blood pressure for many years and doesn't want her to be in a bad mood. My father has the best financial conditions among the brothers, and has helped them many times, especially my fourth uncle's family, but the reward is not gratitude, so my mother has some complaints. Only my father and I know about borrowing money. Father, my so-called fourth uncle, his son and daughter-in-law all work in the same unit. Their work was arranged by my dad. Once they couldn't open the pot, my dad did them a favor. Three years ago, the unit sold the house, and the price of buying the first suite in this unit was very favorable. Because we already have one in this unit, we wrote an agreement to transfer the ownership to the fourth uncle's son (my cousin). We don't know the details, just to save money and circumvent the rules.
Simple things become complicated:
A year after my father died, my uncle didn't say anything about borrowing money. There was a family reunion a few days ago, and I chatted with my uncle after dinner. Our original words were roughly as follows: Is it true that my father lent you100000 privately before his death? Well, that's true. My daughter will go to kindergarten in March next year. Can I get 20 thousand or 30 thousand first There is no answer. I went on to say that my mother didn't know this hundred thousand. Contact me if you have any questions. She is in poor health. I emphasized this last thing three times before and after. It happened at noon that day. At about 7 pm, my so-called fourth uncle sent a message to my mother: I have a screenshot.
Because my mother didn't know about it, she was at a loss and went to my fourth uncle's house that night to ask about it. My fourth uncle hid in the bedroom and didn't come forward. His wife told my mother about it, and her thoughts were the same as those in the text message. My mother stayed up all night, and I told her in detail the next day.
Not to mention how much help I have given them now. What their family means now is to admit that100000 has not been returned, but your house is in my son's name, and I will sell it to you if I want money100000.
This is the process of this matter. I talked to my best friend, my father's best friend before his death, and my family about it, but I didn't contact my fourth uncle. There is a preliminary solution, so I won't go into details. When people stay away from tea, it is unpredictable.
We in China believe that the beginning of life is born beautiful. The old adage, "Don't do it just because it's good and small, and don't do it just because it's evil," still has profound practical significance. But some people and things in real life also make people deeply feel the sinister inside of individuals, which is abhorrent.
We have such a family here, two children and five women. My father, a teacher, went through the retirement formalities at 1995. Unfortunately, he suffered from stroke, hemiplegia and bedridden. During my father's illness, my mother served him meticulously and worked hard until he died at the age of 86 on the 23rd of the twelfth lunar month in 20 19, which created a miracle of life. After his father died, his mother died with his father on the 24th of the twelfth lunar month in 2020. The mother was in good health, but after her father died, she died in just one year, which made the children miserable. First of all, birth, illness and death are natural laws, and the 90-year-old mother is a traditional funeral in China. However, after his father's death, family conflicts continued, which may be the key factor for his mother's early death. Generally speaking, the youngest son carries six brothers and sisters on his back and transfers his parents' only house to himself on the premise of supporting his parents. The eldest son suspected that his parents were eccentric, did not support his parents all the year round, and did not associate with his mother after his father died. When her father was alive, the five daughters contributed money, worked hard and served her father. After the death of their father, the five daughters hoped to negotiate their living arrangements with their mother and hoped that her mother would enjoy her old age. However, the children keep their parents' savings, their father's funeral expenses and their father's birthday gifts. They neither publish accounts nor send flowers, but they want their five daughters to pay for them and take turns to wait on their mothers. This time, family conflicts broke out further. The parents' house has been transferred to the younger son and has become the younger son's house. None of the other children want to go to their youngest son's house. The mother wanted to be hospitalized when she was sick, but the younger son ignored it, unwilling and unwilling. Later, although he was hospitalized, he did not follow the doctor's advice, did not wait on her, and did not let his grandson go to the hospital to visit his grandmother. She was forced to leave the hospital without being cured, which made her very sad. As a result, he suddenly became ill on the third day after discharge. He was rushed to the hospital and died the next day without being rescued. However, when handling the mother's funeral, the younger son had a conflict with his eldest sister-in-law (the eldest son just died) because of money problems, and his parents who loved face all their lives lost people in the village.
Family conflicts began with two sons. In the eyes of five daughters, two sons are synonymous with selfishness, greed and insidious. My eldest son has passed away, and I can't say more. In particular, the youngest son occupies his parents' only house and holds all their savings, but he doesn't want to be kind to his mother who has worked hard all his life, and he doesn't want her to enjoy her old age, which is chilling and sinister. In essence, the father later regretted transferring the house to his younger son. Finally, the mother also saw through the nature of her youngest son. After leaving the hospital, she wanted to take her youngest son's money, but it turned out to be an unfulfilled wish.
It has been reported many times on the Internet that a group of children from individual families do not forget the elderly. Recently, it was reported that the old man fell and fractured, and his youngest son was forcibly pulled home from the hospital without treatment. In the old society, the story of riding a wall was widely known. It's time to think deeply about the tradition of raising children for the elderly in China. Wande puts filial piety first, and may the elderly rest in peace.
When did you feel sinister?
I have a say in this question.
S, a college classmate, is a Hui sister. Because the halal window in the canteen is small and expensive, and her family's economic conditions are not good, she often eats one meal less.
Before a dance class, she went to the toilet, and after getting up, she might be postural hypotension and hypoglycemia, so she fell down.
At that time, the situation was very serious, and S was unconscious. The teacher called an ambulance at the first time, and the class teacher and the class Committee followed him to the hospital for nursing.
The examination report shows that "skull base fracture, intracranial hemorrhage" is very serious. Then the class teacher called to communicate with her parents. Her parents were born and raised in Yunnan and could not understand dialects. They also called my Yunnan best friend Y as an interpreter.
In the afternoon, the doctor told us about the illness, and then said that the first night was crucial. If the amount of intracranial hemorrhage reaches 30cc at night, craniotomy should be performed immediately. At that time, 23cc's blood had already been shed.
However, the head teacher's family with children should go home to take care of them and not stay up late. I arranged for me and my best friend Y, and several class committees to accompany me.
In the evening 10, the college secretary and dean visited the hospital. You will discuss with me that we must ask the secretary or director to leave one to make the bed with us. Otherwise, if the situation worsens at night and requires craniotomy, we have never experienced such a scene. We are worried that we can't cope, so we must sign the operation. We are all classmates, there is really no way.
Then we tried every means to keep the secretary and director, but both of them were turned away. At that time, the rest of our class committees were quite scared and worried. Fortunately, S intracranial hemorrhage did not meet the requirements of craniotomy.
The next day, other class committees came to change shifts, and we went back to school to rest. When I got back, my roommate A asked S what was going on, so I told the truth. As I said, S was in danger last night, but it was different for teachers to stay with the bed. Fortunately, nothing happened.
Then roommate a went to pick up hot water one night and met y to pick up hot water. Just use Y: S to spit out that I have become so sick, and xxx still cares about whether the teacher will stay or not, Barabara and so on. A didn't know that Y and I had discussed retaining the teacher, but she thought it was my decision.
I was quite wronged when I listened to y, haha.
S stayed in the hospital for a long time, but after the class Committee and her friend took turns on duty for many rounds, they were reluctant to go and met the final exam again.
His parents came back a few days ago, but they didn't pay the medical bills. It's all paid in advance by the class teacher. He told me that he had asked the class teacher to tell me that the medical expenses were used up and pay the money. )
So everyone has no time to accompany the bed, only I run to the hospital every morning and accompany me back in the afternoon. Because S's condition is stable, he can get out of bed and not accompany him at night.
Then that morning, it should be 18 (I can't remember). I was going out to the hospital, and then something happened to the Youth League, so I told S that I couldn't go, but I ordered a halal noodle for her with the US delegation. (I went to sleep with her later, in fact, I just talked with her and helped her buy food, because she didn't eat other meals and wouldn't order takeout from the US delegation. )
Then I ordered takeout for her, and I met her in the dormitory that afternoon. She went back to school by bus and then went back to hospital at night.
I thought at that time that since I could get out of bed and come back, I should be able to buy food by myself. I never asked her again.
Until one afternoon before school, the class teacher called me over and showed me a receipt. This is handwritten, and it says that she asked a nurse to serve for 22 days from 18-the same day, 100 yuan per day. Take extra money from the hospitalization fee paid by the class teacher to pay the salary.
The head teacher asked me: didn't you accompany her behind? She said that no one came to take care of her and she had no food, so she hired a nurse to help her buy food for one day 100.
I'm a little confused. I said I ordered take-away food for her at 18 at noon, and I met her at school this afternoon. Can she come out to play with her friends or not? Did you start shopping with a nurse on 18?
Then the class teacher said that she knew and told me to go home.
There are still many disgusting places in this matter, but it is too old to remember clearly. Just say two things that I find super disgusting. Because it is the first perspective, some places may be unfair because of information differences, so I try to be objective.
After graduating from college, I was unemployed at home. My college classmate and my uncle's brother-in-law suddenly called me and said that he helped me find a job and asked me to go to work in the city the next afternoon. He told me to take my daily necessities with me, and it is very important to bring more money, because basically I will go to work and get paid two months later.
So, I went to the city. After meeting him, he took me to eat a meal, and then said that we would surf the Internet together. At the gate of the Internet cafe, he said that surfing the Internet was meaningless, and a game hall had just opened nearby, which was very interesting. He took me there to have a look. When he arrived at the game hall, he bought 200 yuan coins, gave him ten pieces and went to play by himself.
I played for a while, and he came over and asked me how much money I had. I said my mother gave me 1000, and he said you gave me 500. Because my relatives and friends added it, I gave him 500 yuan without much thought. In less than half an hour, he came to me and said, let's go. As soon as I got up and walked to the door with him, he said to me, give me the remaining 500, too. I was hesitant. He told me that I would earn tens of thousands of dollars soon, and then grabbed me directly and took the money out of my pocket.
He went to buy another 500 yuan, and I watched while he was playing. It was really fast. In less than 30 minutes, I lost everything. It was then that I realized that this was not a game, but a gamble. After losing both of us, he suddenly said to me, tomorrow you and I will go home and ask my mother for money, just say that you need to borrow money urgently.
I said, how can your mother believe it? He said, my mother knows that your family is poor, and she is honest. She never lies, so she can definitely lend it out. I didn't think much at that time, so I agreed, but I didn't think it was appropriate when I slept at night, so I refused him. Later, I stayed with him for a few days, and he didn't mention the work, just thinking about how to make money and turn over the books. I know he lied to me when he said he was looking for a job. He asked me to come to town and cheat me out of my money as gambling money. I was disappointed in him and had to go home.
But what I didn't expect was that I went to my uncle's house to visit relatives during the Spring Festival. My uncle suddenly asked me if you borrowed money from Xiao Qiang. I said I didn't borrow it. My uncle took out an iou I signed, and the amount on it was 20 thousand yuan.
I was shocked and asked my uncle where it came from. Uncle said, Xiao Qiang said you were in a hurry to use money, and embarrassed to borrow it at home, so she took your IOU and went home. Then your mother-in-law (that is, my uncle's mother-in-law) was afraid of delaying your business, so she gave it to Xiao Qiang to bring it to you.
I said I didn't borrow it, my uncle said men should be bold, and your mother-in-law said you wouldn't pay it back if you spent money, but you have to admit your mistake. I told my uncle that you asked Xiao Qiang to come and confront him. My uncle dialed the telephone, and he said he wouldn't come. Then I grabbed the phone from my uncle and asked him why he forged my signature. He said I wrote the debt and I borrowed the money, so I'd better admit it.
I couldn't tell the difference at the moment, and my uncle looked at me disappointedly. At that moment, I really felt that people's hearts were too sinister. I never dreamed that I would be cheated, cheated by my classmates and relatives.