1.TA Do you have a new lover?
Whether to go back and reunite with his predecessor, the most important thing is to see if there is another person around him at this time.
If you say that after your separation, your ex soon found the next candidate to replace you, it almost shows that he has no hope for your feelings and has no intention of starting over with you.
We should recognize the facts, and if we find that there are other opposite sex around him, we should simply and neatly quit his world.
If you disturb each other when they have found a new relationship, it will bring great trouble to both of them. Love should not hurt anyone. If someone really gets hurt because of your pursuit, it only means it's time to end this relationship.
Even if you miss it again, even if you regret it again, you must understand a truth. Sometimes there must be something in life, and there is no need to force it in life. He didn't choose you, but took another person's hand, which can explain everything. Don't deceive yourself and live in the past. It's better to get rid of it as soon as possible and bring yourself a new life.
2. Did 2.TA delete your contact information?
A female friend around me broke up with her boyfriend because of a quarrel. After more than half a year, the two met again at the class reunion. This friend heard that the boy had been single and thought he still had nostalgia for himself, so he decided to get back together with him on his own initiative.
As a result, when she chatted with him on WeChat with great interest, she was surprised to find that the boy had blacklisted her. But the girl didn't give up and called the boy, but the boy refused directly on the phone.
After separation, even if your predecessor has been single, it doesn't mean anything. And if he has deleted all your contact information, it can explain a problem, that is, he never wanted to get back together with you.
Deleting contact information is an extreme practice, which shows that you two still have deep contradictions and grievances when you are separated. He doesn't want to have any trouble with you in his later life, which sounds cruel, but that's the truth.
In this case, it is better to let go than to try to get close to him. Otherwise, just like the girl above, we will try our best to contact each other, and the result will still bring shame to ourselves. Why?
However, if the other person still keeps your contact information after separating from you, it doesn't mean that he must want to renew his relationship with you. Specific problems need specific analysis. Maybe he's just too lazy to delete them, leaving this memory there and having no other thoughts about you.
3. Will TA lend a helping hand when there are difficulties?
Once a reader left me a message saying that he and