Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you, but it's not as obvious as politeness. Don't impose what you don't like and don't want on others. In fact, the English explanation is that people want you to treat others the same way as you treat others, that is, simply put, if you treat others, they will treat you.
Question 2: What does it mean to express good feelings only by courtesy? In the Analects of Confucius, Confucius said that "expressing feelings and expressing ideas ends with ceremony" is an ancient description of the relationship between men and women. Affection, that is, human emotion, is produced between men and women. It is bound by etiquette to stop at the ceremony.
It means that it is ok to fall in love, but you can't go beyond the boundaries of etiquette, that is, you can't have sex. The purpose here is not to stop feelings, but to stop when etiquette allows, and not to do anything beyond etiquette because of love.
Question 3: What does it mean to express your love and respect for each other? Goodwill and respect for each other = respect and respect for each other = love for you, cherish you without destroying your innocence. Similar to "spiritual (Plato) love".
A conversation.
Question 4: What does it mean to show love and stop the ceremony? Emotional relationship, show love, stop ceremony = treat each other as guests = do nothing in autumn = like you, cherish you, and don't destroy your innocence. Similar to "spiritual (Plato) love". A conversation.
Question 5: Showing love ends with ceremony. Where did it come from? It is necessary to elaborate on Mao's Preface to Changing the Style of Poetry: "Therefore, changing the style depends on the feelings and only on the ceremony. It is human nature to express feelings; It's just etiquette, and the first king's ze is also. " The Analects of Confucius? There is a saying in Bashu: "Confucius said:' Guan Ju', happy but not lewd, sad but not hurt." In a word, both sadness and joy are "sentimental"; No sex and no harm means "stop at etiquette".
The same poetic theory and the same result, some people mistakenly think that this sentence comes from the Analects of Confucius.
Question 6: Love ends in a ceremony! What do you mean, stop showing love? It happens in reason and ends in moral etiquette.
It means that it is ok to fall in love, but you can't go beyond the boundaries of etiquette, that is, you can't have sex. The purpose here is not to stop feelings, but to stop when etiquette allows, and not to do anything beyond etiquette because of love.
The ancients paid attention to etiquette, and no matter how deep their feelings were, they should conform to etiquette.
Question 7: The comprehensive meaning of "Love stops at ceremony" The first article in The Book of Songs, Guan Ju, describes a teenager who can't sleep at night because he yearns for women, and Confucius' student son repeatedly says that "Love stops at ceremony", which comes from Confucius' proposition of "being happy but not being lewd".
Hu is a preposition, just like Yu. "Love stops ceremony" means that this yearning between men and women takes place in reason and is bound by observing moral etiquette.
It is ok to fall in love, but you can't go beyond the boundaries of etiquette. That is, when feelings are on the verge of etiquette, you should stop, and you can't do anything beyond etiquette because of love.
Question 8: Someone told me what it means for a girl to ask you to respect her. Confucius was right, so I won't say much about the original intention. Literally, if we use the present, we should like that girl, so we should respect her and not force her. Ceremony means politeness. When a man is affectionate, he often wants to be interested in himself. Boy, I suggest you be patient and treat that girl well. What she said shows that she deserves to be liked and respected because she respects herself. She knows how to be responsible for herself, so she loves her and is more responsible for her. You just have to be nice to her and let her make her own decisions. You don't interfere, just do what you have to do, that's all.
Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you, but it's not as obvious as politeness. Don't impose what you don't like and don't want on others. In fact, the English explanation is that people want you to treat others the same way as you treat others, that is, simply put, if you treat others, they will treat you.
Question 9: What does it mean to express your love and stop at the ceremony? In the Analects of Confucius, Confucius said that "expressing feelings and expressing ideas ends with ceremony" is an ancient description of the relationship between men and women. Affection, that is, human emotion, is produced between men and women. It is bound by etiquette to stop at the ceremony.
It means that it is ok to fall in love, but you can't go beyond the boundaries of etiquette, that is, you can't have sex. The purpose here is not to stop feelings, but to stop when etiquette allows, and not to do anything beyond etiquette because of love.
Question 10: Showing love ends with ceremony. Where did it come from? It is necessary to elaborate on Mao's Preface to Changing the Style of Poetry: "Therefore, changing the style depends on the feelings and only on the ceremony. It is human nature to express feelings; It's just etiquette, and the first king's ze is also. " The Analects of Confucius? There is a saying in Bashu: "Confucius said:' Guan Ju', happy but not lewd, sad but not hurt." In a word, both sadness and joy are "sentimental"; No sex and no harm means "stop at etiquette".
The same poetic theory and the same result, some people mistakenly think that this sentence comes from the Analects of Confucius.