Children are the responsibility of parents, but they are not everything.

In life, many parents, in order to take better care of their children, give up their beloved jobs and serve their children wholeheartedly, becoming full-time mothers or full-time fathers.

So, can stay-at-home dads or moms definitely educate their children better?

I don’t think so. It is not advisable to treat children with too much love or indifference.

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I wonder if you have heard the story of the Internet celebrity "Yi De His Dad"?

"Yi De His Dad" was once a business executive. Shortly after his son was born, he divorced his wife.

For the sake of his children, "Yi De His Dad" resigned and went home to be both a father and a mother, raising his children by himself. Focus wholeheartedly on the child Zhang Yide.

In order for his children to eat more healthily, he has cooked different meals for them for more than 10 years. In order to record their growth, he took 200,000 photos of them and used up five cameras. The children are also very upbeat and outstanding.

His grades have always been among the best, and he is versatile. He has been a top student in a prestigious private international school since he was a child.

When he grew up, he was successfully admitted to Emory University, the top private research university in the United States. This university is known as the "Harvard of the South" and the "New Ivy".

But no one expected that such an outstanding student would commit suicide in the United States due to depression one month after entering college.

How sad would it be to win his father after you spent everything for him?

Why did Yide commit suicide due to depression? The most important thing is that I have too high demands on myself and put too much pressure on myself. People who often get first place cannot forgive themselves if they get second place.

His father has paid too much for him and has too high expectations. He is afraid that if he is not careful, he will disappoint his parents and make others laugh, so he will have higher demands on himself.

As time went on, Yi De's pressure became more and more intense, and he finally couldn't hold it any longer and chose to commit suicide.

The experience of Yi De warns us that we should not try too hard in anything, even love. Too much love will become a burden. As the old saying goes, when things go to extremes, they must be reversed. The golden mean and balance are the longest lasting.

It is true that parents love their children, but they cannot place all their hopes on their children.

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Parents must not let their excessive love become a burden to their children.

Raising children should be a happy and relaxing thing. If you pay too much and do too much, you will lose more than you gain and it will be self-defeating.

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When it comes to setting an example, Meyer Musk, the mother of Tesla founder Elon Musk, has done a pretty good job.

Meyer and Musk grew up in a happy family, and their father was an excellent pilot. She spent her childhood with her parents, and her father flew a plane and traveled to dozens of countries. She had a happy childhood.

Meyer’s mother is a strong, optimistic and kind-hearted woman who is full of love for her children.

Influenced by his mother, Meyer developed a strong, kind, optimistic and tenacious character.

Meyer started modeling at the age of 15, became Miss South Africa at the age of 20, and later obtained a master's degree in nutrition.

Unfortunately, I married a scumbag and suffered domestic violence during my honeymoon. Three years after getting married, I gave birth to three children, two sons and one daughter.

Unable to bear her husband’s domestic violence, Meyer decided to divorce her husband when her eldest son, Elon Musk, was 9 years old, but her husband did not agree. At that time, South Africa's laws did not allow divorce and were very unfriendly to women. How could it be so easy to talk about divorce?

Meyer sued every year and left his original home, working and taking care of his children. Finally, 10 years later, after the South African law was changed, he divorced.

During this period, as a single mother of three children, you can imagine how difficult life was. Meyer Musk never complained. For a while, she worked five jobs to make ends meet.

Even though life was extremely difficult, Meyer never gave up on improving herself. During this period, she obtained two master's degrees as a nutritionist and also worked part-time as a model. She has been working hard to improve the life of her family.

Seeing this, the children have developed the good habit of being strong, independent, and striving to make progress. All three children have made extraordinary achievements in their fields of interest.

Elon Musk, the eldest son, has become a household name as the founder of Tesla electric cars and has made his own contribution to changing the world.

Meyer is now 74 years old, but she is still active in the modeling world. She became a cover girl at the age of 69. She is still an Internet celebrity and a good mother who is respected and admired by her children.

She also wrote a book introducing herself - "My Life". The content in the book is very inspiring and it is a book that will bring positive energy to people.

Meyer’s story tells us that the best education is to live as a role model for your children.

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The first two are excellent children raised by single-parent families.

Of course, for a child, the happiest thing is having loving parents and loving brothers and sisters.

Children who grow up in a happy family will most likely have a good life.

Because happy families are full of love. The depth of father's love and the generosity of mother's love are the best life nutrients for children.

In George’s memory, his father always walked with a limp on one leg, and everything about him was ordinary.

Sometimes, George couldn't help but think, how could his gentle and kind mother find such a person to marry?

Once, there was a middle school basketball game in the school, and he He is the main force of the team. He found his mother, hoping that she could accompany him and watch his games.

My mother said, your father and I will definitely go and see it.

But George smiled reluctantly and said to his mother: "I'm not talking about father, I just want you to go."

His mother was surprised and asked: "Why is this?

George lowered his head and said, "I think a disabled person standing on the sidelines will change the atmosphere of the scene."

The mother sighed and said: "Do you dislike your father?"

At this time, my father came over and said, "I'm going on a business trip these days. If anything happens, you can just discuss it and do it."

The basketball game ended soon, and George's team won the championship. On the way home, his mother was very happy and said, "If your father knew the news, he would be so happy that he would sing loudly."

George did not want to mention his father. His mother looked solemn and said: "Your father didn't let me tell you originally, but now I have to tell you. Do you know why your father's foot is lame?" George shook his head and said he didn't know.

My mother said: "You were only four years old that year, and your father took you to play in the park. On the way home, you were running left and right, and suddenly a car came rushing towards you. In order to save you, Your father’s feet were crushed under the wheel. But all these years, your father didn’t let me tell you.”

George was stunned. The two walked slowly, and their mother said: "There is another thing you may not know. Your father is Brett, your favorite writer." George jumped up in surprise and said: "What did you say? I don't believe it. !"

His mother said: "Your father didn't let me tell you, but it's true. If you don't believe it, you can ask your teacher." George hurried back to school to ask the teacher. The teacher said that this was true. His father was afraid of affecting his growth and would not let the teacher tell George.

Two days later, when his father came back from a business trip, George took out a book and asked his father to sign it.

The father picked up the pen and wrote: "To George, love is actually more important than anything else, Brett."

Work hard to improve yourself, be the best version of yourself, and let yourself be a role model for your children, and your children will also There will be love in your heart and light in your eyes.