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Must parents remember to sign their children's homework?
One of the hottest news in the circle of friends is that the experimental primary school in Jidong District, Hangzhou, Zhejiang Province requires parents to bid farewell to the inspection homework and no longer ask parents to sign their children's homework.

I won the support of many netizens at one time. Most netizens support the cancellation of parents' signatures, because everyone thinks that it is the teacher's duty to check children's homework, but now they ask parents to do it, and the teacher is suspected of shirking responsibility.

There is a concept called "family education" and "family education", which means that kindergartens, schools and parents work together to educate their children.

That's a good idea, but how to balance the education of children between families and schools or kindergartens? It is not clear which things should be done by the school and which things should be done by the family.

As a result, the implementation of "family education" and "home-school education" is in chaos. Teachers do what parents should do and parents do what teachers should do.

In case there is an irresponsible teacher, such as assigning parents the task of correcting homework, parents often dare not speak out the unreasonable demands of the teacher, for fear of giving their children a hard time, so there is the embarrassment of the teacher leaving homework and the parents doing homework.

At present, quite a few parents have invested a lot of energy in their children's education. It's really tiring to send children to school, accompany them to do homework, check their homework, help them with their homework, and sign their names after checking their homework.

Parents' excessive participation in children's learning tasks will make children depend on their parents for everything. Some children will call their parents as soon as they sit down and do their homework. How to do this problem, how to do that problem, don't think for yourself. This is the result of long-term dependence on parents.

Of course, there are also some parents who don't pay much attention to their children and don't ask much about their studies. If there is no communication with the teacher, it is difficult to know the situation of your child.

From this perspective alone, it is also a kind of supervision and positive significance for parents to ask parents to sign their children's homework.

Personally, I think that whether parents should sign their children's homework or not, the relationship between teachers and parents should not be antagonistic, because the goal of teachers and parents is to let children learn well.

How can children learn well? Cultivating children's independence is a very important link. Writing homework is neither a teacher's business nor a parent's business. Its main body is children.

From this perspective, teachers and parents should take the initiative to urge their children. If the two sides form a joint force, the result will be what both teachers and parents want to see.

Having said that, I'm afraid many parents are not used to letting their parents relax, because they are used to "watching" their children's homework, worrying that their children can't do it well or make mistakes, and they will learn to be criticized by teachers the next day. I don't think this is necessary.

The homework is to check the children's study. If parents help their children to correct correctly, they can't let the teacher know what the children are learning, and the homework is cross-cutting, which can deepen the impression of the children. What's the matter?

Don't be afraid of children being criticized by teachers, that's a good thing! Children nowadays are generally vulnerable. It's hard to say, a junior girl of 15 years old jumped from the 19 floor and died because her parents wouldn't let her play with her mobile phone.

What a big deal! Parents do such extreme things in just a few words! No wonder today's teachers dare not take care of their children and have a big temper.

A boy from a high school here jumped from the third floor because he was criticized by the teacher. Fortunately, he finally turned the corner.

So I think there is nothing wrong with letting children accept criticism properly and be thick-skinned, which can improve their ability to resist setbacks. Nowadays, in this society, the competitive pressure is so great that you will die if you encounter some setbacks, and you will not be old enough to stand on the roof in the future!