Parents and children can communicate through letters. Children write letters to their parents, and parents should reply to their children based on the content. Below I have compiled a reply letter to my children, please read it. A reply to your child Part 1
Son:
This seems to be the first time you have written to your mother when you have grown up. You folded the letter directly without using an envelope. It was in the shape of an envelope, and you signed your mother's name carelessly on the cover. It was like writing to your closest friend. Seeing such a simple name for receiving the letter, your mother laughed! You also used transparent tape to seal the envelope. After a while, I scolded you secretly in my heart: You are a cheapskate! You are reluctant to buy an envelope with the pocket money you secretly saved!
Do you know what my mother is feeling? Did you open your letter? I squinted my glasses and peered into the inside of the letter. I wanted to confirm whether it was really what you said: Mom, I don’t know what to write in the letter from the parent-teacher conference. My letter It was empty, not a single word! My heart began to get nervous, because I found that it seemed to be really empty! I carefully tore open the layers of tape, and I thought the first letter you wrote to my mother was not Maybe it was empty. Although you are not good at words, you always have a sentence, a word, or a word! I tore off the last strip of tape and let out a long sigh of relief. I was afraid that I might accidentally damage it. The letter is complete. The nervousness and fear made me hesitate to open the letter, but the urgency of hope and expectation gave me the courage to open the letter. I gently unfolded the letter paper and browsed from the first line to the last line. Fortunately, there were other parents sitting next to me, so my mother could hold back the tears that were about to roll out. I slowly folded the letter paper back along the original path and put in the money. The innermost layer of the sandwich. Son! I will treasure the first letter you wrote to my mother forever, even if it is empty!
Son! If you were by my side at that time, what do you think I would do? Wrong, I won't grab your stubborn ears and scold you loudly. I want to hold you in my arms, who is a head taller than me, pat your back, and comfort you softly: It doesn't matter! You must have been scratching your head and worrying for a long time, but You really can't sort out the chaotic thoughts, and you don't know what to say and where to start when communicating with your mother. I think you will push my arm away at this time. You feel that you are already a man, how can you be so close to your mother anymore! But son, have you ever thought that no matter how you grow up, you will always be your mother's son? I hope to be the person closest to you and the person you trust the most. I wish I could share your happiness and your sorrow! But now that you have your own thoughts and opinions, you are afraid that not only will your ideas not be recognized by your mother, If you don't understand and support, you will be blocked or even scolded. So after many times of wanting to speak in front of your parents, you feel that silence is the safest. Thinking of this, my mother deeply blamed herself. Growing up, we never gave you a fair platform for dialogue. We always told you from a condescending position what you should do and what you couldn't do. Because you are a boy, and my mother has seen too many shocking lessons from boys who are naughty and mischievous, so as soon as you were born, your father and I made the direction of education clear: we should be stricter and more ruthless in our son’s education! Yes, Under such an education policy, you have always been well-behaved and sensible, which has been a source of pride for your parents for a long time. But my mother discovered that you have gradually learned to hide your true self. This is not the original intention of my mother's education. Facing you, I am like holding a treasure, and I don't know how to place it to be absolutely safe! Is there a foolproof method of education? Route? Son, if one day even everyone in the world betrays you, don’t forget that your mother is your most loyal friend and will always protect you. At that time, can you try to let your mother be your friend? Jing Stay quietly by your side and listen to your thoughts and stories!
In fact, mom doesn’t want you to be a simple good boy or good student. Mom wants you to grow into a real man and a right person. A man who has the courage to take responsibility for himself and others, a man who never gives up in the face of life's twists and turns.
The day before yesterday, you took the initiative to lend me your composition to read and appreciate. I was so excited and happy. In fact, I had already peeked at your masterpiece while you were not paying attention. I was still secretly happy for your attitude! You said: Although we Everyone will encounter a lot of troubles, but we still have to firmly believe that happiness will always belong to us! Yes, son! Life requires the mind to release troubles, and more importantly, the belief to embrace happiness! Mom appreciates your strength as a man!
Mom wants you to be a real man. She doesn’t want you to be the best at everything, but you must strive to be your best! I hope that the process of working hard, participating in competition, and never giving up will become your experience. Pleasure and wealth in life! Son! We should never worry about the outcome of anything until the end! If we work hard and pay, any result will be rewarded; because of fear of failure, if we do not participate or strive for, any reward will be lacking!
Every parent hopes that their child can become a strong person in life! But son! If we cannot be a great man that the world looks up to, we must also be a happy mortal, healthy, safe, happy and fulfilled. !Have an upward belief every day and have a bright mood! Son! You have the capital of happiness! Come on! Son!
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XXXX.X.X Written for children Part 2 of a reply to your letter
Dear son:
Fourteen years ago, with a loud cry, your lovely baby boy was born. Dad and mom were like It was like completing a sacred mission. The mood at that time was really hard to describe. In short, excitement and joy filled every cell and nerve in our body. Facing this baby with a big head and a big face, I asked myself many times, is this really my son? I just feel that this is a heavy gift and a priceless wealth given to me by God, and I cherish it in every way. Spring goes and autumn comes, fourteen years have passed, and so has cherishing. Today, after reading your letter, I want to say: Son, you have grown up and become more sensible! Thinking that in a few years your son will leave his parents and go to the society, I have so many thoughts and cherish you even more.
Son, although we, like all parents, have worked hard to train you, mom and dad feel from the bottom of their hearts that you have given us countless happiness, unlimited hope, and endless motivation. Son, seeing you makes your parents smile on their faces and feel happy in their hearts. You know what? You give us far more than we give you.
I remember that when you were just two years old, you often had tonsillitis caused by colds. Feeding you medicine became a headache for your mother. Once again, I talked a lot of truth, but you still kept crying, and your mother was anxious. You were sweating all over, and your clothes were soaked with sweat and tears, so your mother wanted to use a spoon to press your tongue and drink it down, but your father firmly disagreed. Later, he buried the medicine in the watermelon. Who knew that your little The sharp tongue is so sensitive, but it all spit out. Mom and dad quarreled over this. Mom cried anxiously. When you heard her cry, you cried and shouted: "Mom, don't cry, I want to eat watermelon! I want to take medicine." !?, Mom and Dad were touched by you, and at that moment I knew that your dad would also shed tears.
Reminiscing about your childhood is a kind of enjoyment for mom and dad, and it is endless fun. . . . . .
However, when you bid farewell to childhood and slowly move toward maturity, your mother's heart is filled with relief and worry. What is gratifying is that you have a kind, honest, upright, and prudent nature; you have love and sense of responsibility; and you have the body of a man. What worries me is that in terms of attitude towards doing things, I lack seriousness, practicality and hard work, I am not strict with myself and have low requirements. At the same time, I still have deviations in my understanding of myself. Because of this, there is no lasting positive state in learning. Although you have made some progress with the help of your teacher, my mother who often leads graduating classes knows that no matter in terms of your actual performance or the results you have achieved, you are still quite far away from those classmates who have both good character and academic performance. You are still far away from yourself. The goal is still quite far away. Mom will no longer tell you what to do. When you grow up, make your own plans. I believe you can satisfy yourself and your parents.
You said that dad and mom are the two big mountains, and you are the small tree on the mountain. Yes, we will always be your cornerstone and your support. We will always appreciate you and praise you. Because you will always be the pride of your parents.
Wish you: progress in learning!
Mom
6.21 A reply letter to your child Part 3
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I read this letter from you when I came back from a business trip. I am very happy because you always take the initiative to open up to your father when you feel difficult and tell him what is on your mind. Thank you for your trust in Dad!
I have always thought it was normal for you to like Korean celebrities, so I never interfered with you. Each generation has its own interests and hobbies, including the pursuit of stars. When my father was in middle school, he was particularly fascinated by poets such as He Jingzhi, Li Ying, and Xu Gang. When he was in college, he was also fascinated by the songs of Li Shuangjiang, Li Guyi, Zhu Fengbo, Guan Guimin, and others. That kind of enthusiasm is a bit similar to the mentality you have towards Korean stars now. Youth is a season of dreaming, and youth without dreams is incomplete youth. It's just that youth should not just have dreams, but also have more realistic pursuits, including actually fighting for one's ideals. I know you are very measured and can control yourself. I noticed the famous saying of Beida Mountain Eagle Society copied on the desk in your study: Keep the heart of the eagle in the high distance, take the ambition of the eagle and soar into the clouds, learn the nature of the eagle to take risks, and integrate the spirit of the eagle on the top of the mountain!? And the self-encouragement you wrote: Go home every day and seize the time to study and review! Pay attention to monthly exams, half-term exams, and final exams! The college entrance examination is not far away!!! Goal: top 5 in grade!!!!!!? This It is the embodiment of your lofty ambitions. In the recent half-term exam, I once again achieved fourth place in grade, and even ranked first in mathematics. This fully shows that your interest in Korean stars has not affected your studies, not to mention that you also spent a lot of time on class affairs, such as writing and directing "Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai" for the class drama. Dad not only understands you and believes in you, but is still proud of you! Mom is worried about you on this point, and I will help you explain.
Regarding the online mail ordering of albums by Korean singers, this is indeed a bit worrying. Nowadays, online shopping is not very standardized, and there are indeed many traps: it is either a complete scam, or the price is extremely high. In either case, you should be wary. If you had asked for my opinion in advance, I would not have easily agreed to send you money. But now that it has been sent, I have to leave it to fate. If it is really a scam, as you said, just spend money to buy a lesson! Haha, it is your royalties anyway, if you are willing to use them to pay tuition, of course we have no control over it. However, I hope you will be more thoughtful about similar things in the future.
The letter said: "Now I feel terrible when I think about growing up. It would be better if I were always 16 years old." ?Actually, in recent years, I can feel your great attachment to childhood. The compositions you wrote last year such as "Blowing Soap Bubbles" and "Written on the Edge of Fifteen" not only show your childlike innocence, but also reveal your extreme reluctance to grow up. I also understand how you feel. My father’s signature on the Internet is also “don’t want to grow up”, but the meaning of my signature is mainly to emphasize maintaining innocence and maintaining love and passion for life, rather than the true meaning of “doesn’t want to grow up”. You hope that time will always stay in the flowering season of 16 years old? I can completely understand your mood, but youth is jumping forward happily, and only one life is growing vigorously! I still remember that you and your father climbed the mountain together when you were four years old. Huangshan? As soon as we reached the foot of the mountain, we were fascinated by the picturesque scenery and really didn’t want to leave. But along the way: Yuping Tower, Lotus Peak, Guangmingding, Shixin Peak, Feilai Stone, Yingke Pine? Every scenery makes us feel attached to "I really don't want to leave", but if we really don't leave , then we can only see one scenery forever! Life is like four seasons, and each season has beautiful scenery - the colorfulness of spring, the splendor of summer, the intoxication of autumn, and the tranquility of winter? How can such a beautiful life last forever? When I was a child, my father read a novella "When the Sunset Glow Disappears" when he was in college. The heroine Nan Shan in the novel had a passage that I will never forget: "In each stage of one's life, people have all kinds of things." Such content. They can form completely different happiness, and their value is equally precious and huge. The love of parents in childhood, the satisfaction of curiosity in childhood, the establishment of honor in youth, the passion of love in youth, the passion of struggle in adulthood, the joy of success in middle age, the dignity of being respected by younger generations in old age, and the dignity of being respected by younger generations in old age. The peaceful and satisfying mood of looking back at the entire life without regret or shame, all of this constitutes all the possible happiness in life.
They all bring us great joy and leave precious memories in our lives. The great Indian poet Rabindranath Tagore wrote this in "The Birds": "Just walk over, don't stop and pick flowers to save, because the flowers will continue to bloom along the way." ?Isn’t it like this on the road of life? People always grow up. As long as we keep our innocent childlike innocence with us, we will never grow old! Dear Qingyan, the gorgeous youth is calling you in front, open your eyes. Go embrace her eagerly with your arms!
You will take the college entrance examination next year. You said you would go to Shanghai. This means that there are not many days left for you and your father to live together. I feel a little sad when I think about this recently! Of course, I also know that Qingyan has grown from a small wild goose to a big wild goose, and sooner or later he will be released. The world is so vast! I just feel a little uncomfortable when I think about my father not being able to see you often in the future. Therefore, I cherish the days I spend with Qingyan very much now! You now chat with your father at the dining table every night. Every time you enter the bathroom, your father must stand outside and listen to you talk about the class. You jump rope before going to bed. , and do you hug your dad when you are happy? Every detail of your life now is a beautiful memory for your dad in the future! Of course, the next year will be very difficult for you, and life in the senior year of high school is a struggle, but I believe, Just like the heroic spirit you showed when you wrote "Thank you for the High School Entrance Examination" three years ago, you will definitely be able to show your heroic spirit this year! My Qingyan is like an eagle fighting in the sky, and is eager to soar up, with great ambitions Lingyun——