Seeing this sentence, I suddenly feel that I don't seem to have much reaction, which may be due to my age. So, smile indifferently. Well, the older you get, the more you need to be strong and resistant to pressure. Being strong is also an ability. Then, you can only say to yourself: "life makes you strong, so you can't be too melodramatic;" Do what you should do and do something for others, and life will be more meaningful. "
I recently read The Best Farewell. The author is Artu Gwender. He is a doctor, but he is rated as one of the top ten thinkers in the world. This is a cross-border player. Among doctors, he is one of the best doctors in the best hospital. He is one of the best-selling writers. For the final farewell form of life, this paper puts forward some problems worthy of people's consideration.
A few days ago, a friend's mother had a sudden cerebral infarction and was taken to the hospital. After the rescue, she saved her life, but she completely lost consciousness. Children don't want to let go, so they put the elderly in various effective and ineffective treatments in the hospital to show filial piety. Maybe it's because I'm old, but sometimes this gentleness can only be an unbearable torture for the elderly. If the doctor can persuade his family members to give up life-saving and hard-dragging rescue under the irreversible condition, it will also be a return to human nature to let the old man go home and lie in his hospital bed and say goodbye quietly. Fortunately, I heard that the old man went home today. He is over 80 years old and very tired. In the unconscious waiting, I persisted for more than half a month, bid farewell to the last moment of my life and fled the "cold world" of the last stop of the hospital. This year, being able to die in your own bed is the greatest love of the younger generation.
Life is really a one-way street, and the process of birth, aging, illness and death is irreversible. Don't run away with all kinds of pipes at the last moment of your life. When you know that your life is out of your control, you should unload all the burdens, especially when you are awake, make an explanation to the person you love and say goodbye.
Due to the continuous progress of modern medical technology and the wide application of medical resources, most people choose to give their families or their last moments to the hospital. In fact, this is not a real "natural death." Imagine, after struggling all your life, you can't go back to your home where you have lived all your life. I wonder if your soul can be well?
In fact, the word "death" is not terrible. How to write it? This topic is not so heavy, there is no need to avoid it. Because a life has to complete the process from birth to death, "death" is just a farewell to yourself and the world. "Farewell" is also an unavoidable topic. Aging or even leaving will happen eventually. Just like trees and flowers will lose their leaves and wither in autumn.
Thinking about death is to live better. Then, caring for the end of life is particularly important. As children, we should not be filial for how much money we spent on treating the elderly, but should be close to the elderly, be kind to them, and give them care and warmth, so as to prolong their lives, provide them with a sense of security, and make them happy.
Recently, my mother is a little unwell, and the hospital examination is generally good, but her spirit seems to be worse than before. We also advised my mother to stay in hospital for rest, but we couldn't help her being stubborn. My sister lives at home more often. Because there are two activities to attend the book club recently, she can only go home to have a look or stay for a day or two. My impression of my mother is a strong representative. As long as what I can carry is never troublesome, it always makes us feel that my mother is not old. So, no matter how busy we are, we will always rush to say, get busy, I'm fine.
Watching my mother and aunt take out their own paper-cuts, gesticulating and communicating, I took out my mobile phone and photographed it. At this time, I also fantasized that I would eventually die alone. Could I have been so calm?
Having an old mother at home is my happiness concern. However, the health of old mothers often makes children ignore more companionship. It's really good to be able to take care of yourself and do some needlework for the younger generation at the age of 80. There is not much demand for the elderly, but at least one child does want to go home for a few days. Going home to accompany you is the truest filial piety, but you often don't do well enough. Only the mother knows her daughter's mind best. People often say that if you have something to do, you won't be lonely. In fact, mother is lonely, and everyone is lonely in his later years, because being needed is a beautiful state.
But no matter who you are, you only have one life. Thinking about life all the time can make living more valuable. Think about living yourself and living every day. Enjoy the happiness of life, dare to face the calmness of death, and make it a symbol of complete life!
With the rapid development of science and technology, the fragility of the world is getting stronger and stronger. Among the variables that can't be seen clearly, I really don't know which comes first, disaster or happiness. Then fear life and enjoy the happiness of life and the calmness of death when struggling.