This National Day holiday, our family didn’t go anywhere. We slept like lazy pigs every morning. We didn’t get up until after nine o’clock and didn’t have breakfast until after ten o’clock. We usually have no self-discipline in our lifestyle. Step aside, at the beginning of the period, I was still thinking about how I could spend the eight-day holiday. It was really too long. Now that I think about it, time flows. In the blink of an eye, isn’t it the third day of the holiday again?
In fact, who doesn’t want to go on a casual trip? Who doesn’t want to use the holidays to accompany family members to eat, drink and have fun? But in these daily life, we middle-aged people cannot be as chic as young people. and freedom, a lifestyle, we all have families, we are all adults and children, all decisions made on impulse will have to be paid for with your money and time.
The simply very real, ordinary and ordinary way of life is that during this holiday, we all live at home. We have learned to tidy up the house, learn to tidy up, and learn how to accompany our children. I finally know Well, it turns out that men who love tidying up and tidying up housework are all good men.
Yesterday. Mr. Lu is a role model for our whole family. Since my grandparents and little boy have not been in Kunming for a long time, they cannot see how diligent and well-behaved their son is. Only I can see all this and remember it in my heart. There is really nothing that I am proud of, but the fact that Mr. Lu can become my husband and lover is the most proud thing in my life.
I am a very messy person in our family. I have never learned how to tidy up and tidy up in my life. This was after I got married. I have been with Mr. Lu for a long time. In the past two Over the years, I have changed a lot. For example, I will sort out the seasonal clothes in my wardrobe slowly by myself. I never sort out the children's clothes. Mr. Lu has been sorting them out, like the children's clothes. Where are the clothes? The weather has gotten colder and cooler. I have to find clothes for the baby. I shouted loudly: "Brother Chuan, hurry up and find the baby's clothes or clothes. He has always been worried about it. "Really, I am a woman, a woman who doesn't like to do housework. I realize that I have failed as a mother and as a woman. I hope you don't learn from me, because each of us has a different destiny and different blessings. Many things, To be honest, you are the most blessed only by yourself, and I am just a weird alternative person. Of course, this also depends on the child’s growing environment at home and the different education methods of his parents. , like Mr. Lu, at their house they scolded my parents-in-law for loving tidying up, loving cleanliness, and tidying up, so they would be infected with Mr. Lu’s lifestyle of knowing how to tidy up, tidying up, and loving cleanliness.
Education doll, parents are really a living mirror.
Sometimes I feel that the life of a couple is like a pair of chopsticks. They not only have to grow with each other, but also slowly taste the ups and downs of life together. Maybe there is really no perfect marriage in this world, only a perfect marriage. A suitable marriage, because marriage is never a world of one person. Between two people who join hands in marriage for love, no one does not love the other, only one cannot adapt to the other. Adapt to each other and tolerate each other, so that love and marriage can last forever. Youth, think about it. Along the way, our family will often argue and nag about trivial things in life. I am always a good-tempered person, allowing him to admit his mistakes more, and then wait for both parties to do so. Calm down, slowly reflect on who did it wrong, and then think about how to correct it, and try not to make the same mistake next time, which will be much better.
In fact, don’t underestimate the tidying up and tidying up in a family. Yesterday, under the leadership of Mr. Lu, our family was doing homework while Yaya and Dad Chuan and I tidied up the two rooms and one living room in the house. Although the house is rented now, life is not like that. We are usually busy with work and children, so we don’t have time to clean up. Everything must be done after a long vacation. After tidying up and sorting, it’s done now. After tidying up, I found that there were too many unnecessary gadgets at home. Children’s toys and books were scattered everywhere. The shoes in the shoe cabinet were old and new and could be worn. No, it's everywhere.
Later, after we carefully inspected, sorted and tidied up one by one, we put away the things we needed and threw away the things we didn’t need. It really looked like the whole house felt like a home. Ah, last night, I couldn't help but sigh. Men who really love to clean up the housework are all good men. They are not like some men who only know how to live a good life all day long but cannot help the women at home learn how to live a good life. We share the housework, and sometimes we have to complain about who is doing better and who is not.
So, I personally think that men who love to do housework have the following benefits:
First: A man who can do housework first has a gentle personality. Men with a gentle personality are better towards their wives. , he can understand his wife's difficulties. As a result, the husband and wife respect each other as guests or the husband and wife follow each other, and this kind of family atmosphere will affect the children. If the children live in a loving environment from an early age, everything will be good. Will it make you more optimistic about your career, life, and future? confidence.
Second: It is said that men who do housework are less likely to suffer from Alzheimer's disease. This statement is also recognized by relevant experts in medicine, because it will mobilize the coordination and cooperation of various parts of your body. If you don't move the machine, it may become rusty and slow to respond. If it gets serious, it may stop working for you. An example is that before my father-in-law got Alzheimer's disease, he never did any housework, and my mother-in-law had to do everything for him. In the end, he was spoiled to the point where he couldn't do anything, so for the sake of his own health, he should use his hands and brain more.
Third: Doing housework is also the time when the brain is most relaxed, which may help you solve some work problems. Give it a try
Fourth: Personal self-care ability is the most basic ability. They say that relying on your parents is the most reliable thing. It is better to rely on yourself. No matter how good your husband and wife are, if you can’t do anything, Rely on her. If you don't guarantee that she will leave before you that day, then you won't be able to do anything, and it will definitely affect the quality of your life. Therefore, it is necessary to learn some self-care skills.
With so many advantages, do you still think that doing housework is a useless thing? Nowadays, many elite men are the kind of people who can enter the business world and enter the halls. Only small-minded men still live with thousands of years of old ideas.
Hahaha, I hope the men in your family can tidy up the housework for you and love to be clean.
On National Day, I finished my nagging and accidentally showed off my affection.
Finally, I wish everyone a happy holiday. Just do whatever you have to do. I hope we forget the unhappy things and have fun.