1, the opening of the circle of friends remembers that a girl must be most interested in her topic. Therefore, our opening remarks can focus on what she shows or her hobbies as much as possible, and give a few simple examples: for example, she shared some photos of her trip in a circle of friends, and the reason why she sent them is definitely that she hopes someone can share this mood with her, so you can say, "Those photos in your circle of friends are so beautiful." "(Fatu)+I have been to this place once. Really beautiful. " If she shares a song in a circle of friends, you can say, "Hey, this song you shared in a circle of friends is my latest single cycle." If there are some photos of delicious food in her circle of friends, you can say, "I guess you are a foodie." In short, when you don't know how to start, you can go to a girl's circle of friends and find out your similarities by combining some information from her circle of friends. 2. Asking for an opening remark This type of opening remark is generally to ask the other person's opinion on a question, and this question must be of interest to her, so that you can have a topic to talk about. This question can be a recently released movie or a restaurant in an online celebrity. For example: "Did the movie you saw yesterday look good? My friends and I are also going to see it. " After reading it, you can also discuss it with her, which will extend your topic. Maybe, after chatting, you can ask her out to watch a movie together! It will be more convenient if you have a friend or work with her. Ask her anything, and you'll get familiar with it in the long run. 3, curious opening According to the girl's preferences, find the same topic related to her life, which will reduce the girl's' defensive psychology' and throw out some stories that make her curious. When she wants to know the details, she will reply to you involuntarily. For example, on the topic of pets, you said, "So you also like Samoyed? My Samoyed has just been beaten by me. " Such an opening remark, she would think: "Hey, he actually has a dog, or Samoyed, not bad, then why did he hit the dog?" "I seem to have seen you today, but I'm not sure." She will ask you, "Where is it?" Of course, you don't have to see her. At this time, you should give full play to your nonsense ability. You can describe her more realistically. By the way, praise her again: just when crossing the road, you and I came face to face. Just looking at your photos, I think you are very different. I shouldn't admit it 4. The opening of the emoticon pack whose mobile phone has no emoticon pack? Unless you really don't play mobile phones. Expression pack can be described as a sharp weapon to save the majority of male compatriots, because it can support the field. When you don't know what to talk about or how to start, the expression pack can help you. And some interesting expression packs will also arouse the other person's desire to get you back, because they want to fight! But don't send some obscene expression packs, especially when the relationship is unfamiliar, it is easy to cause disgust. Of course, don't use too cute and mean expressions. This is to avoid causing discomfort to girls. The prologue of chatting with girls 2 The first prologue: Now WeChat chat often uses facial words. These words are vivid and can fully express what you want to express. When chatting with your sister, it is a good choice to start with lovely words. For example, girls usually like to use food expression packs to advertise themselves as snack goods, so we can use food expression packs to pull hatred with girls in the middle of the night. We are always hungry at night. When we see your seductive expression packs, we will suddenly get up and may reply to you like this: "Why are you so annoying and deliberately greedy for others?" Isn't this a good start for chatting? For example, you start with a cute little animation. Your sister is often bored and they really want someone to Doby her. Then with such a lovely expression, let you get rid of your sister's boredom and start a dialogue with her. Chatting can go smoothly. The second way to open: show value The best way to attract girls is to show value. For example, the girl you want to seduce is a snack, so if you show superb cooking skills, girls will be interested in you; If the girl you want to seduce is a workaholic, then you show that you are a very motivated person and girls will be interested; If the girl you want to seduce is more money-worshipping, then you will show your hard value and the girl will expect something from you. Showing value also needs to pay attention to some details. If you chat with your sister like this: "I drive a Porsche, I have two villas at home, and my parents work in the state." Girls just feel sick and want to throw up. The correct way to show value is to show it from the side. For example, you can start with your sister like this: "I almost drank too much at a party with my friends today." Fortunately, my secretary helped me give up drinking. " This shows the high value of being a boss from the side. Or you can start like this: "Double Eleven is coming. The boss said that anyone can rest, so I can't rest. I'm as busy as a dog these days. " This shows that you are very important to the company. Of course, you can also show yourself in life. "Every time my classmates get together, these old classmates will push me onto the stage and sing some songs to entertain them." Show your talent from the side. The above is just an example I gave casually. The specific chat should be based on your actual situation. The third way to open: girls who ask for help are generally soft-hearted. Facing the weak, they should show maternal love. So we can use this to chat with girls. You also said that you had troubles in your life or work, and recently you felt very confused and wanted to talk to someone. In the face of such things, girls generally don't stand by. They will definitely talk to you and then take care of you. After that, I may pay attention to whether your situation has improved. Taking advantage of a girl's sympathy is a bit mean, but it is really useful. And the later effect is better. The fourth way to open it: Open the details. If you really don't know how to start chatting with girls, my suggestion is to observe the girl's avatar, circle of friends, WeChat name, personality signature and so on. To find out the details, open the topic with girls through details, and praise girls through details. After all, girls like sweet talk. One advantage of opening up the details is that it will make girls feel that you are very attentive and can read her heart. For example, if you look at a girl's circle of friends, you can start like this: "Just look at your circle of friends and feel that your life is exquisite." For example, if you look at a photo of a girl, you can say, "Little sister, your eyes are really beautiful." Every woman likes to be praised by others. Praising girls with details will make them feel that you are sincere and careful. Girls have no resistance to warm men.