The first sister from Hongqiao became famous, perhaps beyond her expectation, perhaps, this was the result she had been waiting for day and night. It doesn't matter whether Hongqiao No. 1 sister did it intentionally or unintentionally. What matters is the anger of the fans. Therefore, in our Internet age without privacy, the identity, personal information, and even the record of her squatting with 48 celebrities were soon revealed online in detail...

She is considered a strange cancer in the fandom and has become synonymous with negative energy. Even the name Hongqiao No. 1 Sister is full of ridicule.

However, from the negative reviews, from the extremely detailed record of celebrity arrivals posted on the Internet, from the fact that she stayed awake at the airport for three days in a row, it made her... I saw a young man running hard for his hobby.

98 is such a young number. It means that she has a lot of time and energy to do whatever she wants, squander her youth, and even make constant mistakes. Because she still has plenty of time to pay for her mistakes.

But some people may not be so lucky.

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Xiaoli majored in Chinese at University, and she especially liked code writing. When she was in college, she published many articles in newspapers and magazines. But according to the wishes of his parents, he graduated and worked in a government agency. The work is really good, and it is so leisurely that grass can grow. Every day I have a cup of tea, a newspaper, and a few documents to send, receive, and archive. The problem is, you can’t read novels, essays, or write articles in your free time, otherwise the eyes and tongue around you will immediately chew up a lot of right and wrong.

Every day is like a year for Xiaoli.

One day, Xiaoli saw that a provincial newspaper and magazine were recruiting editors and reporters, so she secretly signed up. Unexpectedly, the written test result was ranked second. Unexpectedly, Xiaoli asked her parents for their opinions before the interview. Her parents almost looked at her like a lunatic, but of course they disagreed.

Unwilling to give up, Xiaoli secretly asked for leave for an interview.

After the interview, Xiaoli clearly felt that the examiner had a good impression of her. Then, towards the end of the interview, an older examiner asked her: Which one do you want to go to, newspaper or magazine?

Do you know how Xiaoli answered?

Xiaoli’s answer is: Excuse me, can I work part-time?

After Xiaoli asked this question, the five examiners all looked at her with crazy eyes: Yes, we use such a large array to represent such a provincial newspaper and magazine. We recruit talents and give you a staff, but you ask if you can work part-time? The subtext seems to be: There must be something wrong with the brain.

Of course there is nothing wrong with Xiaoli’s brain, she just has too many worries and fears.

Then Xiaoli ended her dream of being an editor and returned to being a tree in the office.

Nearly ten years have passed. Xiaoli, who is in her thirties, has been promoted to chief clerk. Her days are like the hands on a clock, repeating day after day. Every time I think about my dream of being an editor, I feel a pain in my heart that I can’t shake away.

If it had been... However, she would never have known another possibility in her life. At the age when she should be squandering the most, she chose to take things step by step, and locked up the infinite possibilities of excitement. Outside the gate of youth.

The reason why life is wonderful is because of the infinite possibilities. Perhaps, some youth will go astray in the squandering, and some youth will gradually shine in the squandering. However, if she wasn't even given a chance to squander it, how could she know what kind of surprises were waiting for her.

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The parents who named Yi Zhou never imagined that their daughter would one day be associated with the word art.

Yizhou has been a lively little girl since she was in elementary school. She loves performing, hosting, painting, and singing, and her academic performance is also very good.

When she was in junior high school, after attending a concert, Yizhou became crazy about singing. She wanted to become a singer.

The teenage Yizhou may have never thought about how difficult this road is to walk, and he probably will not think about it. But my parents, who are both civil servants, will not ignore it. They resolutely opposed their daughter's hobby and used strong methods to prevent her from continuing to develop this hobby, which was to cut off the vocal lessons for her.

At that time, the mother of a classmate was a soloist in the Provincial Song and Dance Theater. Yizhou often used the excuse of going to the classmate's house to do homework. He would go to the classmate's house at night to ask for advice from the classmate's mother and secretly learn from the teacher. She is not star-chasing, but when her favorite singer comes to the provincial capital to hold a concert, she will sneak away to listen in various ways, even skipping classes.

She participated in various singing competitions. Although she never won an award, she still walked on this road happily, happy and satisfied.

Because she put too much energy into singing, when she was admitted to college, she did not get into a particularly good college. But she had no regrets at all. After going to college, she was still obsessed with her dream of becoming a singer.

In the end, Yizhou did not become a singer, but became a middle school music teacher.

Now, looking back on the madness, Yi Zhou’s eyes are full of good memories.

Whose youth is not crazy, whose youth is not flamboyant, and whose youth is not ridiculous. Can those formatted youth still be called youth? Do those young people who keep pace with each other still have the slightest vitality? Do those youths who always care about everything and calculate every step still have the slightest breath of youth?

It may be absurd, it may be wrong, it may be ridiculed by others, it may even be unacceptable to the world and rules, but those years of wanton squandering of youth are the mark of youth and the most unforgettable thing after old age. Memory.

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Fighting, absenteeism, using poplar beards as caterpillars to scare female classmates, and writing notes to female classmates. Thirty years later, the junior high school classmates got together and What comes to my mind the most is not who is good at studying or who is a good student, but these scumbag things that were regarded as treasonous in those days.

Of course, after middle age, those who were young and wild and did bad things have become directors, directors, managers, and chairman of the board. A steady and steady life.

In a person's life, everything that needs to go through must pass through, sooner or later. In this case, then why not spend wantonly while you are young and can afford to make mistakes and look back, so as to avoid making mistakes that you should make when you are young at an age when you cannot afford to make mistakes.

A person born in the 1990s told me: I should try my best to try everything I want to try before I am 35 years old, and then start a stable life when I am 35 years old.

When you are young, what is needed is more courage and hard work. Nothing is guaranteed, and nothing can predict its success or failure when you have not done it. The only thing that can be proven is: when you do it.

Yes, didn’t Sister Feng and Sister Furong give life another template? Their initial negative energy was just to find a place to stay. Similarly, for those celebrities who became famous instantly, maybe they just made a mistake in their youth? Besides, the first sister from Hongqiao, after all, still relies on her own hard work to make a living, and sells some autographed photos. After all, it is related to food, clothing and life. I don’t know how many times more noble than those who take off their clothes. Since even those who take off their clothes have become idols, Then don't make it too difficult for a girl who relies on strength to make a living. Besides, no one can predict that maybe this kind of squatting fans will become a new business created by Hongqiao Sister for us? At that time, Sister Qiao accidentally became the originator of squatting fans!

Let go when it’s time to let go, and hold back when it’s time to hold back. This is the life of a winner.

Find the value of your existence in wanton squandering; find the direction of life in wanton squandering; understand what should be cherished and what should be discarded in wanton squandering; break your head in wanton squandering The bleeding self has a future he wants.

This may be the meaning of youth to each of us.

Just don’t forget that everything is within the scope of the law.

Author Hedong Snow Duckweed WeChat public account gujiuniang I am here