1, water meter dialogue

Man: Are you there?

Woman: Yes.

M: What year are you from?

Female: 90 years old.

M: How high is it?

Female: 163.

Summary: This kind of chat gives people the feeling that they are straight men, and people are not rigid machines. A dry conversation can easily be hacked by the other party.

Step 2 judge each other casually

Man: You are so beautiful, there should be a lot of people chasing you, right?

Woman: No.

M: How many times have you been in love?

Woman:No..

M: Then you won't have any problems, will you?

Summary: People who like to judge others casually are either typical flattering characters or typical megalomaniacs, both of which are very unpopular with women.

Step 3 confess

M: My name is xXX. I am XX years old today and work in xXX. I haven't bought a house yet, and I want to find a marriage partner as soon as possible because I don't have enough savings due to injury. What do you think of me?

Woman: Nothing.

M: Then tell me more about your interest in the three views, and I'll see if we are suitable.

Woman: No.

Conclusion: Blind date is a process of mutual understanding. You take the initiative to explain everything to each other. On the surface, you are real, but in the eyes of girls, you have no mystery and no motivation to continue to get along with you.

Second, how to chat with blind date

1, establish a tacit understanding

When you meet a blind date for the first time, girls must be psychologically alert to you. If you chat too much, care about or make random comments, girls will only label you as "poor impression". Therefore, if you want to get the other side off guard quickly, you can establish a tacit understanding through humorous information exchange. You know, once two people have established a tacit understanding, they have also established an emotional connection.

For example:

Man: By the way, I don't know your name yet.

Woman: Just call me Xinxin. What about you?

Man: Zhao XX, call me little brother shy.

W: What do you do, little brother?

M: As an Internet company, I work overtime until I vomit blood every day.

W: We have been working overtime recently. By the end of the year, there will be many customers.

M: Then this is our first tacit handshake.

Step 2 be humorous

If the blind date always likes to perfunctory your chat, it means that your chat topic is not nutritious and girls can't enjoy chatting with you. So it is better to change the way of chatting and express plain topics in a humorous way. Girls' emotions will be satisfied after pleasure, and they will naturally like to get along with you.

For example:

M: Looking at your photos, I feel that you are quite cute.

W: I don't think I'm cute.

M: Then you are in charge of teasing and I am in charge of cuteness.

Woman: Haha, what's so cute about you?

M: Every cell in my brain is full of pure green and lovely.

Woman: Haha, what you said reminds me of green plants and eating more meat.

M: Whatever, as long as you like it.

Step 3 flirt passionately

The purpose of blind date is to fall in love and get married. If chatting with girls stays at the stage of being friends, they will eventually fall into the situation of friendship zone. The so-called friendship zone means that the other party only treats you as a friend and doesn't feel the feeling of love at all. So grab the window and take the initiative. From the initial superficial expression of interest, we can talk about intimate topics step by step. Intimate topics include: shopping hand in hand, hugging, kissing and so on. The terms of intimacy are: baby, baby, cute and so on.

For example:

Man: How tall are you?

Female: 165. What about you?

M: 177 We are the cutest people with height difference.

Woman: Isn't the cutest height difference 15?

Man: It means to stand on tiptoe, stand on tiptoe and lift a skirt.

Woman: You really know how to add drama to yourself.

M: Yes, I am the leading role and supporting role in this play.

Your routine of picking up girls is too deep.

Man: No, strange babies are so cute. (Warm title)

Woman: Gee, where do you work? (Girls take the initiative to ask questions to show that there is a window)

Third, prepare common topics.

If you want to chat happily with the blind date, you must determine the chat topic library in advance and choose the topic that the other person is most interested in. When you establish the same topic, the next chat will become much easier. The topics suitable for chatting with girls are: pets, stars, gossip, cosmetics, brand-name fashion, games, food, travel, TV movies, variety shows, music, childhood, future, ideals …