Time flies, time flies. At the beginning, it was because of drama, and after marriage, it was because of love and hate. In a blink of an eye, Pan Yueming and Angel divorced for 8 years, almost 9 years.
At the beginning, their divorce was full of twists and turns. First, the children were awarded to angels, and the public swore at Pan Yueming. Subsequently, due to a video exposed by paparazzi, Angel's suspected extramarital affair with Wang was pointed at. It can be said that in the divorce war between Pan Yueming and Angel, there was no winner, and their careers were both hit.
Compared with the career, it is the children of two people who suffer the most. After divorcing Angel and Pan Yueming, Pan Yueming can only send birthday wishes to his son on his birthday every year, because Angel refused to see Pan Yueming. It is understandable that a single mother feels insecure and possessive after divorce, but it is too much to take a picture with her son mouth to mouth.
Angel once took a group of intimate photos with his son Dingding on social platforms with the theme of "wedding photos". In the photo, Angel is wearing a pure white wedding dress, and Dingding has grown up. He is a handsome boy, wearing a handsome suit and holding a rose in his hand.
Some photos are kneeling on one knee, and some are funny expressions made by mother and son together.
It is acceptable to show that mother and son are close, but is it too much to kiss?
As a parent, Angel really doesn't seem to know the importance of children's gender awareness. There is a saying in China that "children avoid their mothers and women avoid their fathers". Establishing a healthy parent-child relationship and cultivating children's correct gender awareness should be something parents should know.
We can see from the fact that Angel has not allowed Pan Yueming to see her son for many years that she is very possessive of her son. We don't know what Angel thinks, lest Pan Yueming speak ill of her in front of the children? Or are you afraid that Dingding will be closer to Dad? None of this is known, but we really can't agree with Angel's attitude towards children.
In the face of controversy, Angel once said in an interview that the reason for taking this group of photos "is that I hope that when my son gets married in the future, I can take out this photo to see if my daughter-in-law looks good or I look good."
Why do you listen so hard? Is it normal for a son to compare beauty with his daughter-in-law before he reaches the age of marriage? Every girl must want her husband to take a wedding photo with herself for the first time. According to Angel's thoughts at this time, if she really does this in the future, it will definitely bury a thorn between the young couple.
Angel's love for his son is very confusing. When the angel was sad, she comforted her and said, "The angel is fine. Dad loves you."
It is true that children who have a particularly good relationship with their parents and call their parents by their first names are not uncommon in contemporary times, but if a child says "I am your father" to his parents, can he slap his face to the Flame Mountain?
The way Angel treats his son reminds me of the fact that the mother in the rice circle will always be "how is my son" to the artist, but occasionally she will become a fan of her girlfriend, treating Aidou as her boyfriend, and the fans don't care, but Angel is her own mother.
This abnormal maternal love, or "abnormal maternal love", is not a unique problem in the entertainment circle.
The same is true of Show Lo, who contracted half of the watermelons in 2020. Is his mother's relationship with him like that of an angel? The difference is that Show Lo is an adult. Unlike Angel, she simply takes photos on her social platform, because Show Lo and her mother have kissed in public many times, such as concerts and press conferences.
The story between Show Lo and his mother goes far beyond this. He once wrote a song for his mother, called Diary of the Brave, and the scale of the lyrics was amazing.
What did this "intimate" maternal love lead to? Show Lo may think it's normal to do these things with her mother, so it's more normal to do these things with other girls. The contempt for girls is not developed overnight. Show Lo's fame and resources are flying, which is his own making.
Besides Show Lo and his son, the things of Di Ying and his son are more typical. In 1990s, Di Ying became famous for her role in Bao Qingtian. She is a well-deserved TVB Hua Dan. She gave birth to her son Sun Anzuo at the age of 38, and her education for her son has even surpassed doting.
In Kangxi Comes, Di Ying bluntly said that her son Sun Anzuo slept with him until he was 15 years old. When expressing these words, Di Ying even used a triumphant tone. Because Sun Anzuo likes to drink breast milk, Di Ying has been feeding it to him 12 years old. Compared with Di Ying's desire to control her son, I have to say that angels are just pediatrics. Before Sun Anzuo 18 years old, she never went out by herself, and Di Ying followed her son every day.
Show Lo didn't get a happy ending because of "maternal love". Sun Anzuo will do better than him. 20 18 During his study in the United States, Sun Anzuo was detained by the relevant American authorities for four months and was not allowed to enter the United States for life. Even if Sun Anzuo has reached this point, Di Ying's attitude is only "the child played a joke".
In June, 2020, 165438+ 10, in the CCTV variety China in the Story, Angel played Angie in The Love of Parents. Angel was too old to play Angie. The angel's decree on the stage is too deep, and her skin is slack. Zhang Ziyi, who is not one year older than her, was teased by netizens for marketing "girlish feeling" in Fu, which is well maintained.
The aging of angels is expected. After divorcing Pan Yueming, she devoted herself to the family and took care of her son every day. Angel's excessive dependence on his son really makes people feel wrong, but when you think about it, it is also very sad. Her possessiveness of her son is a sign of insecurity or self-confidence.
At that time, Leng Qingqiu in "Golden Powder Family" had many fans who liked the "pure" image of angels. Now, with the passage of time, her beauty is gone. After her husband left, the only thing Angel can catch is her son.
I hope Angel will understand at an early date that it is right to love children, and excessive love and dependence is wrong. When it develops into a serious abnormal parent-child relationship, it is Angel who regrets it, but it is his son's life that is ruined.
Main author: Yi An