Hello, where is the Bulang nationality? It is a long-term practice of free love. Parents generally do not interfere in their children's marriage and love, but there is one condition, that is, the marriage system outside the family should be strictly implemented. There is absolutely no marriage between aunts and cousins. Their marriage and love must be chosen in different families. Therefore, young men and women from different families freely associate and then get married, which is one of many Bulang people. Folklore: The Bulang nationality's "inviting strangeness" is different from the special love custom.

And young people want to participate in the activities that invite Guan Qi, but they can only participate after the "wave" ceremony, which is equivalent to the fact that young men and women have reached adulthood. Therefore, when young men and women reach the age of 15, they will hold a "wave that is" ceremony. At this time, young men need to dye their teeth black, while girls need to put on earrings, then decorate their headscarves with colorful tassels and colorful tassels, and then undergo some fine dressing.

Where Bulang people live, courtship is usually the initiative of young men. After the autumn harvest every year, there is no gap in farm work, and the boys begin to invite Chuanqi at night. At this time, young men went to talk to girls in twos and threes. Those young people are playing bamboo or playing the piano downstairs. In the dead of night, they will board the girl's bamboo house for a series of visits. Whether the girl likes it or not, she can't refuse a visit from a young man. She can only talk to her politely, but the girl's parents avoid it and let the young people communicate by themselves. At this time, several young people sat together and whispered. During the conversation, if you find that a girl and a guy are closer, or that a girl has a lover, you will be well-advised to leave and choose another object for a series of visits. If the young man from Waizhai visits, you will be allowed to stay overnight.

Of course, although it is free love, girls' parents sometimes have their own views on visiting boys. If parents know what the visitor is doing, or are dissatisfied, they will keep coughing in the bedroom, or keep getting up and pretending to go to the toilet to show their displeasure. In this case, visitors usually say goodbye to the girl politely. If the girl doesn't stay, the young man will leave at once and never come again. If girls are more interested in boys, they will loudly detain her and show their attitude to their parents, which also implies that parents should not mind their own business.