Reading is not for eloquence and refutation, nor for credulity and blind obedience, but for thinking and weighing.
A cultured person is neither optimistic nor pessimistic, but objective. They don't believe that there are people with the same views and interests in the world, just as they don't believe that there are two identical leaves. They are very friendly to friends and relatives. I will be nice to you because you are human, not because you are like me.
We are all nearsighted and always ignore our true feelings. We are all farsighted and always blur our recent happiness. Life is really short, not as long as we thought. If there is no time to love in this life, then don't expect to meet again in the next life.
The best thing is to see someone smiling; Even better, he smiled because of you.
Life will not be as you wish, it will give you a period of time, leaving you lonely, confused and silent. But if you are alone with yourself during this time, read more books, do what you can, let go of the people in the past, and when you get through the low tide, those lonely times will definitely light your way, and these are unbearable to accompany you to maturity, so it seems that life is not so bad now, but it is actually a blessing.
Mom, there is also a name called waiting, waiting for the wrong child to turn around, waiting for the wandering child to go home, waiting for the disappointing child to live up to expectations, waiting for the failed child to succeed. With confidence, love and patience, even if I can't wait in this life, I will come back to life, stand in front of the bridge to meet the children, hug them and say, come on! Let's keep trying. It's mom's fault that you couldn't do it in the past. Mom misunderstood you. Mom has been waiting and thinking all her life. Finally, I can wait for you and tell you I'm sorry. Let's start over! -Liu Yong
Being a man, character comes first, but can be second; In doing things, understanding is the first, and diligence is the second.
Put it down. It's easier said than done. To tell the truth, a person has been in your life for a long time, and this existence has made you accustomed to it, so it is not so easy to forget, and it is impossible to forget it again. So if you want to let the past really pass, please give time. Sometimes, it's not really difficult, it's just a matter of time.
If you can't accept my worst side, then you don't deserve my best side.
If you have a dream, please don't show it off or preach it, just realize it quietly. Because that's your own business, others don't know your situation, and it's impossible to help you realize it. Never show off because of vanity, and never give up your dreams because of a comment from others. In fact, the best state is to stick to your dreams, listen to the advice of your predecessors and make fewer mistakes. Is it worth it? Time is the best proof.
What you haven't picked is just a flower in spring, and the whole spring is still yours.
I couldn't stand it once, but now I just smile indifferently. Maturity is not to see through, but to look down.
People you really like can't be friends. Because if you look at it more, you still want it.
Learn to be lonely, learn to talk to yourself and listen to yourself, so learn to be profound. Of course, the premise is that loneliness can be learned.
If he really loves you, you can be any kind of woman. If he doesn't love you enough, you need to be a comprehensive woman, beautiful, talented, kind and delicate. Nothing you can do can stop it.
Time can't go back to the beginning: for something that has been missed, you may not have to try to keep it. Wrong is wrong. We should all be grateful for what we have. Who can guarantee that what we have lost belongs to you? Some things are for you, not for you. Unforgettable people will forget their dreams come true, look forward to the realization of the past, make themselves strong, cherish cause and effect and let nature take its course.
Many times, I don't think like that in my heart, but I can't help myself and say the opposite.
There are many taxis at the intersection where you stand, but all of them carry passengers. When you give up and go to the next intersection, there is an empty car. People who want to love don't love you, and those who love you can't afford it. Because we always love someone by our own standards, we can't love, and then we would rather keep ourselves, so we miss it all the way. In fact, the person you ended up with must have betrayed your principles, which is an unexpected exception.
I think each of us is a dreamer. Dreams are gone, only homesickness is left.
At night, when the moon comes, it is only noon, and the heavy curtain is silent. Deep musk deer smoke is long, and lying down leaves light makeup. I still cherish myself in those days, but I can still remember the past. Flowers fall on the moon, and the brocade knows the cold.
People who can't realize their dreams have one thing in common, that is, they want something, but they are unwilling to pay for it.
True friends may not give you material help, but they can give you spiritual encouragement; A true friend is not face to face, not eating, drinking and having fun, but silently paying attention to your growth and everything.
On the one hand, being strong enough to bear, on the other hand, being awake is a sign that a person has a perfect and invincible soul.
What you lost, in fact, never really belonged to you, and you don't have to regret it.
I believe that one day, I will become a better self, a reliance of my parents, a trustworthy friend and a worthy person.
I hope my love is like this. I sympathize with each other, taking Qi Mei as an example, as clear as a bell. I found him in the years, relied on him and gave him my life. Be his wife, the mother of his children, cook for him, wash clothes and sew a missing button. Then, we grow old together.
I like sitting in the car and looking out of the window, looking at the fleeting light and shadow, my head is slightly dizzy, but I suddenly miss you. The phone rang, showing someone else's name. I didn't have the strength to respond perfunctorily, but I suddenly missed you. Empty room, accompanied by dolls, will cry when listening to a song, but I suddenly miss you. I don't want to miss you anymore. I just miss you for a while.
Don't be sad when friends ignore you. Everyone has his own life, and no one can always accompany you.
Each of us is loved conditionally and loves others conditionally. There is no need to lose heart. Since we know that there is no unconditional love in the world, you should try to make yourself more qualified to be loved, and learn to forget some conditions to love someone. The most unspeakable thing in the world is the look in your eyes when you don't love someone.
Life often has joys and sorrows. We can't control our experiences, but we can control our mentality. Mentality controls a person's actions and thoughts, and also determines a person's vision, career and achievements. Nothing is difficult if you set your mind to it. The right attitude can make your life more calm and comfortable. Of course, the mentality is adjusted by yourself. As long as you are willing, you can give yourself a correct attitude and a happy life.
Being understood is lucky, but not being understood is not necessarily unfortunate. A person who places his own value entirely on the understanding of others is often worthless.
Ignoring is not necessarily forgetting, but it must be alienating. It takes courage to be silent for too long, even to take the initiative.
Sometimes, a casual look and a passing encounter can rewrite a person's life.
No one will be fair to you if you don't work hard. Only with hard work, resources and the right to speak can we win a fair opportunity for ourselves. -Yu
The maturity of universal meaning is to be able to control this mouth, speak happily and rot in the stomach.
Many times, I don't think like that in my heart, but I can't help myself and say the opposite. Are we too obsessed with the so-called self-esteem, or are we all used to duplicity?
I think, some things can be forgotten, some things can be remembered, some things can be willingly, and some things are powerless. I love you, and this is my disaster. -Annie, baby